You can't make any requests blindly, otherwise you will never find a partner. Just like in the article, although this woman is rich, she doesn't have a car or a house, and she also pays 3,000 yuan in pocket money every month, but in the end she still can't find a partner.

Although there are more men and fewer women now. There are even fewer women with good conditions. But no matter how good your conditions are, no matter how many men and few women are. You can't make any requests blindly, otherwise you will never find a partner. Just like in the article, although this woman is rich, she doesn't have a car or a house, and she also pays 3,000 yuan in pocket money every month, but in the end she still can't find a partner. Isn’t it because his request is too much? I'm so embarrassed to say that no one married her. All of this is my own problem. I hope this case can remind all women. A 43-year-old rich woman: I don’t have a car or a house to marry me, and I also give me 3,000 pocket money every month. Why is no one marrying me yet?

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43-year-old Ms. Huang:

I just can’t figure it out. Why can't I find a partner yet? Others say that those young and handsome men like rich or mature women. Am I still immature at the age of 43? I am so in good condition, aren’t I rich enough? If others ask me to go out for dinner with my friends, I will pay for it. My father runs a factory and earns millions a year. Then I am the only child in the family. I don’t have to do anything every month, and then I have 20,000 to 30,000 yuan in pocket money.

Compared with those women, they only have a few thousand yuan every month, which is already very good. Not to mention that I have two houses collecting rent, and I can receive about 10,000 yuan of rent every month. It’s not much about 10,000 yuan, but it’s enough to spend it. In addition, my parents gave me tens of thousands of yuan a month. Isn’t this a rich woman? There is everything, and I am very beautiful.

is 1.58 meters tall and weighs only about 100 kilograms. Why can't such a perfect woman find a partner? Many people think that it must be because I have such good conditions and high requirements. I need millions of bride money to ask for a car or a house, so the man is unwilling to be with me, otherwise those men would have broken the threshold of my family long ago. But what I want to say is that I have no requirements.

What requirements can I have? I have a car, a house, and a wealthy thing. For men who are with me, I don’t need him to have a car, nor a house. I don’t need to say how difficult it is for men to buy a house now. Everyone knows it. It costs hundreds of thousands to buy a house with a down payment of several million, not to mention that they have to pay a house every month. The man who is with me doesn’t need these requirements at all, regardless of him. I have a house, I need any house or car. I don’t need anything I have.

This is already very good for others. Some women don’t spend time with their beloved men for the sake of the house, and some men work hard for a house for decades, and even if they spend three generations of money, it is not enough to buy it. These are normal things, and I don’t need a house or a car, why are there no man with me yet?

Is it because I am ugly? Or Christmas is a man who thinks I am joking. I am serious. Why is no one with me? The more this happens, the more uncomfortable I feel, the more I don’t know what to do. Now he is 43 years old. To put it bluntly, he is about to be 45 years old and he is about to be menopause. Why is it so easy for me to find a partner? Why is no one with me? I am a rich woman, and I don’t have a car or a house. But I have 5 requirements.

The first requirement is that I will not give birth to you after marriage.

Why do you say you don’t have a baby? That's because I don't think there is no need for children to do. Isn't this enough to have me? What do you want to do for children? Do you want the child to raise me? Is it not enough to raise me for a month? How tiring it is to raise a child? You don’t make as much money as I do, and I can’t even afford to raise the money you make.

Don't tell me to raise children.There are probably not many men who can support themselves, let alone raise children. So it’s good to have children without children, it’s the best for you and me, and you don’t want me to accompany you until the end. It’s very dangerous for women to have children, let alone my age. Having a child at my age is more dangerous. If it is not handled properly, it is very likely that it will fall on the operating table because of this matter. If something happens because of this matter, what will you do in the future? No one will come to accompany you in the future, so it is better not to have a child.

Not only do you have to be responsible for me, but you are also responsible for you. You can’t afford to raise your children. What do you want to have children become a burden to you? Forget it, many people don’t want children now, and many young people nowadays do this, so why can’t you not want children? I don’t want children, so why can’t you think the same as me? It's good to not have children, and there's no pressure.

The second requirement is, after marriage, you must answer to me for your parents.

My parents only have one child. I told you just now, so I can say that you can marry into a marriage, but this is also for your own good. If you have been working alone outside for many years, you can accept my parents' places in the future and make a lot of money. This is the best ending for you. If you don't come to work with my parents, it's OK.

But you have to go home with me too. Where you work is your own business, but you have to go home with me because you need to take care of my parents and you need to serve my parents. If this happens, why do I want you to be together? My parents are your parents, and my parents are also a family. Since you say they are a family, you must take care of my parents. Otherwise, what do I want you to be together? If you are with me, you have nothing to do with your parents.

No matter what happens to your parents, you cannot care about your parents. First of all, put my parents in the first place. These things are first, my parents agree, or if my parents agree, you can go back to take care of your parents, otherwise you won’t think about going back to take care of your parents.

The third requirement is that after marriage, we must sleep in separate rooms.

Why sleep in separate rooms? That's because I have many bad habits, such as going out early and coming back late. I often go out to play with my friends very late before coming back. If you are with me, I'm afraid it will affect your sleep. You see, if I affect your sleep, you will say that you can’t sleep well and what happens if you can’t sleep well. So it’s better to sleep separately. If you sleep with yours, I sleep with mine. More importantly, I’m the person who grinds my teeth, and I don’t like sleeping with others.

so it is better to sleep separately. I don’t affect your life. You don’t affect my life. At this time, you think there is no meaning to get married. I think it’s meaningless. Although we sleep in separate rooms, we can stay together during the day and go out to play together.

Isn’t this the meaning of marriage? Just sleep in separate rooms. Many couples sleep in separate rooms, let alone my age, and should sleep in separate rooms with you. If I don’t sleep with you in separate rooms, how can you have the energy to go out to play with me? Do you think so? Isn't this for your own good? I did this for this hall, so you must be considerate of me and agree to sleep in separate rooms with me.

The fourth requirement is that your age must be 15 years younger than me.

Why do you say that you are 15 years younger than me? Didn’t I just say that if you are with me, you can at least struggle for 20 years less. You have already taken advantage of this matter, so I won’t ask you to be 20 years younger than me. If you think I am 20 years old, I am only 23 years old, which means that it is very likely that I have just graduated from college.

was too young at that time, and I didn’t want it very much, so it’s enough for you to be 15 years younger than me, that is, you’re about 28 years old. It’s just right for a 28-year-old boy to be with me. You can work hard for more than ten or twenty years less, and then I can also find a young and handsome man, killing two birds with one stone. You get what you want, and I get what I want, isn't this good for you?

Struggle for more than ten or twenty years, and even if I give you time to struggle for more than ten or twenty years, you may not be able to get everything you are now. So it is better for you to be with me. You can get everything without working hard. More importantly, you don’t have to be with other women. If you are with other women, you will be very tired. Do you have the money to pursue other girls? Can you afford it? Not to mention that you have to buy a car and a house. Can you afford to buy a house after getting married? Don’t say you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it even if you sell it.

The fifth requirement is, after marriage, you must listen to me.

listen to mine, right, don’t you listen to mine, don’t you want to listen to other people? I am your wife, don’t you need to listen to me, don’t you listen to me, don’t you want to listen to other people? You don’t need to listen to me. In real life, 99% of men listen to me. According to relevant data, as long as men listen to women, 99% of the family are happy. Don’t you want to be happy?

If you want to be happy, then listen to me in everything. No matter big or small, you have to listen to me. Even if you have to go to the bathroom, if I am by your side, you have to tell me. You can only go to the toilet after I agree. Don’t think I’m too much. Isn’t this a big question?

Think about it if you don't listen to me. Then are you considered a headless fly? So you should listen to me, follow the organization's arrangements, and follow my arrangements. It is the best for you to this family. You don’t want to make trouble with me because of this. You just want to divorce me because of this. If you divorce me, you will lose the ending of nothing. It’s not what you want, right? So you should listen to me.

I only have these 5 requirements. As long as I can meet my 5 requirements, I can be with the other party immediately. I don’t ask the other party to be taller, let alone how handsome the other party is, nor how much money the other party is. As long as I can meet my 5 requirements, I can be with me, and I can give 3,000 yuan of pocket money every month. Although

3000 is not much, it is enough to spend. The average 3000 yuan is over every day, and there is 100 yuan a day of pocket money. 100 yuan can do a lot of things. 100 yuan can buy vegetables and cook, buy a lot of cigarettes, and go out to play for a day. Do you think so? So I don’t have high requirements for you. What’s more important is that I’m good to you. What’s wrong with letting you work less for 15 to 20 years? Which man wants to fight?

Which man wants to work hard? Not to mention that you are with me, you don’t need to buy a car or have a house in the future. You have a car to drive and a house to live in. What other houses are you unsatisfied with? It is a villa of more than 200 square meters. Not to mention the car, my car is a luxury car, which is a dream for men, and some men can’t afford it even if they work hard for the rest of their lives. As long as you are with me, you can have all this. Are you not satisfied with this? Be with me, but why can't I find a partner?

Conclusion:

Although you have good conditions, although you may be able to work hard for 15 to 20 years less with you, your requirements are too excessive. To put it bluntly, what is the purpose of being with you? I have no freedom to be with you, and I can't have children, and I can't sleep with you. Why? It is better not to be together like this, so if you look for a partner according to such requirements, don’t say that you can’t find it now. Something you will never find in your life.

so if you really want to find a partner, then change it. You have to overestimate your requirements. No matter how beautiful you are, no matter how good your conditions are, you will not be able to find them. Not to mention a rich woman, even the richest man in the world.

The most important thing in finding a partner is to pass on the family line. You don’t even want to have children. Do you think they will be with you? It is impossible to find such a young and handsome man. You are not afraid of others laughing when you say it. Forget it. If you want to find a partner, change your requirements, otherwise you will really not be able to find it. I hope you can remind all women through this case. Although there are more men and fewer women now, you are not the only woman, do you understand?