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Someone once said that children are divided into two types, one is to repay the favor and the other is to collect debts.
As the name suggests, those who repay kindness are certainly the filial children of their parents. Those who come to collect debts certainly become a burden for their parents and a burden that cannot be removed.
Aunt Luo has a son. Before his son got married, he was the pride of the old couple. He studied well and looked good. Even the job he found after graduation and his daughter-in-law were very good. But after getting married, such a son became a wife and was strictly managed.
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Aunt Luo and her wife have only one son in their lifetime. It is precisely because things are rare that the old couple have been particularly fond of this son since they were young. In addition, when my son was a child, he looked lively and cute, which was very rare.
Later, I went to school and didn’t need my parents to worry about it, and my academic performance was very good. Before getting married, I praised Aunt Luo for being blessed whenever I met everyone and gave birth to a filial and sensible son. However, the son has been married for less than two years and Aunt Luo can no longer laugh.
In the third year after work, the son married his daughter-in-law who was also an only daughter. The daughter-in-law has a strong and stingy personality. She likes to compete with others in everything and will never fall behind with others. When getting married, the daughter-in-law asked for a wedding house and a 200,000 yuan gift in the city center, and her son agreed.
Aunt Luo and her husband were worried for a long time, and they could only barely get the down payment for the house. As a result, the daughter-in-law was unhappy and insisted on not getting married without a bride. The old couple had to lick their faces and borrow 100,000 from their relatives and friends, and then they barely dealt with their daughter-in-law.
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The son got married as he wished, but the old couple also had more than 100,000 foreign debts. Originally, the son wanted to use his own salary to help repay the debt, but his daughter-in-law disagreed and said that using the couple's joint property to repay the debt of her in-laws' family would be equivalent to making money from her in-laws and taking advantage of her.
Aunt Luo didn't want her son to quarrel with her daughter-in-law, so she took on more than 100,000 yuan in debt. Fortunately, both husband and wife have retirement wages, and one person’s pension can barely cope with the expenses.
Seeing that the foreign debt of more than 100,000 yuan was about to be paid off, the daughter-in-law once again made a request. In order for the child to receive a better education, they planned to buy another better school district house, which required Aunt Luo's funding of 300,000 yuan.
However, Aunt Luo could still give out 300,000 yuan. In the end, her son looked unhappy and her daughter-in-law left cursingly. Not long after, I heard that the in-laws gave him 300,000 yuan, and the couple bought the second school district house as they wished.
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Not long after my son bought a house, he went home again. This time his son made another request: "Mom, go and help us take care of the children, your pension help me support my family, and my dad's pension help me pay my mortgage. It's just right. Xiaoqian's parents both paid 300,000 yuan to buy a house. You can't afford to pay for the money, you're indifferent, right?"
Listening to his son's request, Aunt Luo's heart skipped a beat. It's okay for her to take care of her daughter-in-law's children, but when she goes to take care of the children, she has to pay for her son and family of three out of her own pocket, which makes Aunt Luo feel no sense of security.
Aunt Luo asked his son tentatively, but his son looked at his parents with some wonder, "You are the only son, and you will leave the money for me in the future. It's the same for spending this money early and late. Now you care about who pays for living expenses. It's boring. My parents-in-law have made a big deal, so you can help me pay the mortgage, otherwise Xiaoqian will always make a divorce at home."
My wife was a little angry when she heard this, and Aunt Luo was also a little disappointed with her son. For their son's marriage, they saved money for several years before they slowly got through it. As a result, my son came to suck blood again, thinking about squeezing their pension money.
Aunt Luo was angry and directly criticized her son: "Get out, I will pretend that I don't have you in the future. It would be fine if I can't rely on my retirement, but I will keep chewing on my parents. Whoever marrys a wife, who is spoiled, we don't use it."
Aunt Luo no longer spoiled her son and daughter-in-law. Even though the couple made harsh words and did not support her, she did not compromise.After all, since her son became a wife and was strictly managed, Aunt Luo has never dared to expect her son to retire.
Today's topic:
Do you support Aunt Luo to stop the loss in time and no longer subsidize her son?
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