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The elderly care of parents of only children is a difficult problem. Because the son-in-law will dislike him because he is with his daughter to retire. I am not able to support myself in my old age.
Even if parents take their pension to join their children, they will be despised by their children and even be reborn, so that their parents' retirement pension has no place, and their children complain that their parents do not pay or work.
Aunt Zhong encountered a problem of pension. After her wife passed away, she thought about going to join her daughter and taking care of her children for her elderly care. As a result, she did not develop her retirement, but instead spent all her years of savings and her monthly pension of 5,000 yuan.
02
Aunt Zhong is 53 years old this year. After her daughter got married the year before, her wife died of illness last year, leaving Aunt Zhong alone to guard the lonely house. Although my daughter had asked to pick her up at home many times, Aunt Zhong refused when she thought of her son-in-law's face.
I thought I would receive a monthly pension of 5,000 yuan and guard a house, which would be enough to support my old age. But no one expected that Aunt Zhong suddenly fell ill. Aunt Zhong, who fell ill and was hospitalized, had no way to take care of herself, so her daughter could only run around and take care of her. After Aunt Zhong recovered and was discharged from the hospital, her daughter was always worried and took her to her home for easy care. Aunt Zhong, who didn't want to go to her daughter's house, agreed when she thought of her own body and her daughter's hard work. After the health of
and other patients recovered completely, Aunt Zhong took care of all the work of taking care of her grandson and housework, and her daughter was finally able to devote herself to her work.
03
Considering that my daughter went out early and returned late, her work was very hard, Aunt Zhong took the initiative to help her daughter bear the family expenses. After going to my daughter's house for more than two years, Aunt Zhong has never asked for a penny from her daughter. Her daughter gave her money, but she refused. The son-in-law is just verbally filial, but he can't take any action.
As grandson grows bigger and bigger, the overhead is getting bigger and bigger. The son-in-law was unwilling to fall behind others and always enrolled his grandson in various interest classes, and the person who paid the money became Aunt Zhong. Because Aunt Zhong has a deposit and a pension.
Once or twice, Aunt Zhong can still eat it. But as she had too many times, she couldn't bear it. Her monthly pension of 5,000 yuan was squandered every month and could not save half of the pension, which made Aunt Zhong very nervous.
Although the daughter promised to support her, the son-in-law never spoke. Sometimes she felt sorry for her parents who were suffering in her hometown, while her mother-in-law was at home and enjoying the joy of family.
04
When the son-in-law asked Aunt Zhong to give them 200,000 yuan to help them exchange for a better and larger school district house, Aunt Zhong's heart skipped a beat again. She spent almost all her monthly pension, but she only had 200,000 yuan in her hands. This was the one that her wife left for her to retire.
Aunt Zhong is unwilling to give out 200,000, which is her last confidence and retreat. As a result, the son-in-law first got furious with his daughter, yelling that his son-in-law had no obligation to support his parents-in-law. Then he tried to slap Aunt Zhong and said, "Mom, you are just a daughter, and your pension will be left to us sooner or later." Since that's the case, there is no difference between spending early and late in retirement, so why save it and not take it out?" Do you not expect us to retire in the future?
The son-in-law's words made Aunt Zhong feel very uncomfortable. She only has one daughter, but she never dares to expect her son-in-law to support her. She has been to her daughter's house for more than two years and has spent all her pension of 5,000 yuan a month. Even so, the son-in-law did not express any of the words, and even believed with confidence that it was natural for Aunt Zhong to spend money for them.
Aunt Zhong looked at her embarrassing daughter, then at her son-in-law who was pressing step by step, and her heart couldn't help but feel cold. Regardless of her daughter's retention, Aunt Zhong finally packed her luggage and decided to go back to her home to take care of her old age. She couldn't persuade her daughter to divorce, but she didn't want to raise her son-in-law, the ungrateful ungrateful wolf.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Aunt Zhong to go back to her home to take care of her old age? #Telebrity Creation Challenge#