Today, when I was in business, I met an older sister who was about 40 years old. She looked very comfortable. She was not beautiful, but her temperament was particularly good, and she was intellectual, elegant and generous. He spoke softly, without being impatient, with clear thi

Today I met a sister who was about forty years old and looked very comfortable. It was not that she was beautiful, but that she had a very good temperament, which was intellectual, elegant and generous. He spoke softly, without being impatient, with clear thinking and clear organization. Although he only had half an hour of contact, he left a deep impression on me.

Later, I asked the leader and found out that this sister was 48 years old and a top student who graduated from 985 and 211. It was really great to have such an education in that era. She has been engaged in education over the years and has a wide range of hobbies, including writing, painting, travel, Guzheng , and growing flowers. Seeing her hobbies are all things that can cultivate one's own nature, no wonder it gives people a sense of comfort from the inside out.

Before, I always talked about scholarly families, but I didn’t feel anything. Today, when I saw this sister, I finally understood what a scholarly family is. I remember when I was a child, my grandmother told me that when I was a grandfather, my family was a scholarly family. When I was a father, for many reasons, my uncle still retained some scholarly family things. I have long forgotten the others for life. I really didn’t understand deeply at that time, but this concept has been planted by me. Although I am still far from that, I have been working in that direction over the years.

Since I was in middle school, I have set a goal for myself. In the future, I have to be an intellectual and elegant woman. However, due to life, I have deeply forced a woman of " Lin Daiyu " into a tomboy. But in my spare time, I will still be unwilling to give up my former goals. So I have recently begun to force myself to write every day. Although I am not good at writing, I already have the courage to persevere and the determination to work hard. I hope that after three or five years, I can also feel the fragrance of books revealed from my bones.