Introduction
As the saying goes, a son-in-law is equivalent to half of a parent-in-law. At some point, this half-person may be more filial than his own son.
It is normal for parents-in-law to go to their daughter and son-in-law to take care of their elderly parents. After all, when parents raise their children, their children have the obligation to support their parents, regardless of their son or daughter.
But if the parents-in-law rely on their daughter and son-in-law to support their elderly care, while secretly giving all the property to their son, how can the daughter and son-in-law accept the bias of their parents-in-law? It is not scary to be partial to your parents-in-law. What is scary is that you are still squeezing the blood of your daughter and son-in-law.
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Xiao Bo still can't figure it out. His parents-in-law have been in his own home for 5 years, but when they were demolishing their hometown and distributed the house to their son, their parents-in-law gave all their property to their son, and he argued with confidence: his daughter and son-in-law are outsiders and are not qualified to share their property.
. Xiao Bo doesn’t know if someone else’s son-in-law is qualified to separate the property. But in his family, he thought he was qualified to share his parents-in-law's property. Because since he and his wife got married, they have been supporting their parents-in-law for 5 years.
In the past five years, Xiao Bo and his wife have been doing everything they can eat, drink, defecate, and sleep. My parents-in-law had a headache and fever. They paid money and worked hard, and they were also the couple who ran up and down to serve them.
At that time, my brother-in-law always perfunctorily refuses to be busy with work and can't get rid of it. The parents-in-law also felt sorry for their son's hard work, and always told their daughter and son-in-law not to disturb their son and asked their son to work hard and their careers. The parents cannot drag him down.
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To a certain extent, Xiao Bo is very annoyed by his parents-in-law's bias and favoring boys over girls. Just for the sake of his wife's face, he had to endure it. I thought my parents-in-law would be restrained and would not be so greedy.
But just after Xiao Bo and his wife took care of their mother-in-law in the hospital, good news came from the hometown of their parents-in-law that they would share their houses and money. Xiao Bo and his wife were also very happy to hear this news. Even if the wife doesn’t have much to share, the parents-in-law at least have money in their hands and don’t need to ask them for money to spend all the time, which can also reduce their financial burden.
The decision that followed by her parents-in-law made Xiao Bo completely angry. After holding all the demolition houses and funds in his hands, he shouted that he would go to his son's house to support him, saying that his son-in-law did not like him and was unfilial, and he wanted to find his own son to support him.
Xiao Bo looked at the series of operations of his parents-in-law and felt a little heartbroken. But my brother-in-law also came to my house openly to pick up people, saying that since ancient times, parents should follow their own son to support their elderly care, so they would not bother their sister and brother-in-law.
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If it is put in normal times, the parents-in-law will go to their son's house to take care of their elderly care, and Xiao Bo welcomes him with both hands. But now that my parents-in-law just received a large amount of demolition payment and two houses, my brother-in-law came to pick him up, obviously thinking about taking all the property for himself. But my parents-in-law were happy to see it, and they wanted to give the money to their brother-in-law directly.
Xiao Bo refused to let anyone go, and his wife was troubled by the quarrel, so she said forget it. She had raised her parents for 5 years and thought she was filial. She would leave all her birth, old age, sickness and death to her younger brother to take care of her.
But Xiao Bo did not dare to be so blindly optimistic. He was very worried that his parents-in-law had just given the money to his brother-in-law, but he was swept out of the house, and finally he cried and begged them to take care of his old age.
In order to eliminate this possibility, Xiao Bo angrily proposed: settle the 5-year account first, after all, his parents-in-law are holding two houses and hundreds of thousands of demolition funds in his hand. When they heard that they wanted to share the house and pay, their parents-in-law jumped out in a hurry and said that their son-in-law was an outsider and was not qualified to compete for property with their son.
In the end, the parents-in-law refused to give a penny. Xiao Bo was not in a hurry and directly took out a statement of severing the relationship, which stated that the parents-in-law would be fine if they didn't pay, but they would not be qualified to come back to find their daughter and son-in-law to support them in the future. After all, the money spent on parents in the past five years is a one-time pension fee.
Conclusion
In this world, what I fear most is not the bias of parents, but the bias of parents is open and honest, regardless of the feelings and mood of their daughters and son-in-law.
No one wants to be a stepping stone for others, and no one wants to suffer losses for others for the rest of their lives. The parents-in-law were too smart. While secretly saving money for their son, they also asked their daughter and son-in-law to support their children. A shrewd and scheming person like
will sooner or later fall on his own son. After all, when you have money, your parents-in-law are your brother-in-law's biological parents. When there is no money, parents-in-law are the burden and burden of their brother-in-law.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Xiao Bo to pay back the cost of supporting his parents-in-law for 5 years?
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