Or, if the other party loves him, he will give up everything for himself.
But in fact, many men are proactive at the beginning when pursuing girls, but once they persist for a long time and have not yet got any results, they will choose to give up and will not continue to pester them. This is the way for normal men.
Those boys who seem to be in line with their requests for girls may do the same for all girls.
Moreover, from a realistic perspective, always obeying a opposite sex is an anti-human thing in itself, and basically no one can do it.
So, don’t believe in the so-called poisonous chicken soup. If you believe it blindly, you will definitely be hurt by love.
There are a few words between the two sexes, and women cannot believe it, and they will push the man who loves you away.
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"If you love me, you must reply to messages in seconds"
Because many articles emphasize that if a man loves you, he will definitely reply to messages in seconds, and he will be available at any time.
But in fact, as long as you have a job, you know that this is impossible.
Because as long as you go to work, you basically spend most of your time staring at the computer, or holding meetings or handling work affairs, it is impossible to look at your phone anytime, anywhere, and even if you see the message, you may not have time to reply.
So, sometimes it is normal for the other party to not reply to your message, because it is very likely that he has not seen it. But some girls believe in this poisonous chicken soup, believing that the other party does not reply to their messages on purpose, just don’t like them.
Some time ago, I met a girl in the gym. She is now twenty-two years old, her boyfriend is eight years older than her, she works in a bank, and the girl's family is in good condition, so she has never been to work.
But she found that she had been talking to her boyfriend recently, and her boyfriend always didn't reply to messages. She was not happy every time, so she quarreled with her boyfriend a lot. So I asked her, "When do you chat with your boyfriend?"
"Just in the morning or afternoon, he basically replied in the evening." I said to her, "Your boyfriend was probably not intentional, because he had to go to work and couldn't keep looking at his phone."
Moreover, men with career aspirations are usually very clear. Even if they love girls, they cannot sacrifice their careers and spend all their time on love.
So, as long as the other party is professional, it is impossible to have time to watch the phone for twenty-four hours.
Then what kind of man will come back in seconds? If you don’t have a career and don’t go to work all day, you will have time to reply to the girl’s news anytime, anywhere.
Moreover, since he does not focus on his work, he may not make more money as much as you. Even if such a man can be together in the future, he will not be responsible for you, let alone give you a good life.
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"Spend me money means really loving me"
Too many women think that the degree of a man loves me depends on how much money he spends. That is, the more he spends, the more he loves you.
is not the case. Just like a rich second generation spent tens of thousands of yuan to buy a bag for a girl, it seemed that it cost a lot of money, but he had hundreds of thousands of yuan; on the contrary, an ordinary boy also spent thousands of yuan to buy a bag for a girl he liked, but his salary was only ten thousand yuan. Compared with
, which man really cares about you? Many girls can tell that it is the latter. From this we can see that this sentence is not accurate, it still depends on the person.
When my friend just graduated from college, he had a relationship. My boyfriend was from a rural family and his parents couldn't help him. Therefore, my boyfriend was very motivated and would go out to work part-time whenever he had the opportunity.
After graduating from college, although his boyfriend didn’t have much salary, he would always give her two-thirds of his salary and buy her a gift. At the beginning, it was just a few thousand yuan gift.
Later, as the salary increases, the gifts my boyfriend gave her became more and more expensive, but compared with rich men, there is still a little gap.
But she didn't care. In her opinion, her boyfriend's attitude is more important than money, because a man with an attitude will give you everything he has, including money, feelings, and time.
On the contrary, those men who do not mean anything except giving you some money may just treat you as a pastime tool. Moreover, a few thousand yuan is not a big deal for ordinary people, but for them, it is just a drop in the bucket.
Then how to tell, does a man really love you?
is very simple, it depends on whether he is willing to give you the most precious thing. If he doesn't want to give it to you, it means he doesn't have much affection for you.
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"Love me like pampering my daughter"
Too many women think that true love should be pampering. When being with men, women don't need to worry, they just need to buy, buy, buy, buy.
But in fact, this is not true love, because the truth of love has always been between two equal people. Tolerate each other and give each other, not only one person takes care of everything, the other party does nothing.
Even if a man really does this, it will be temporary. Because sooner or later, he will be tired, and he will want to rest and do nothing, and be served by others.
At that time, he will abandon you and find a woman who is willing to take care of him or can bear the storm with him. Instead of him taking on the storm alone, the other person enjoying the fruits behind him.
has nothing to do with men and women. Once the efforts in the intimate relationship gradually become unbalanced, even if you have a good relationship at the beginning, it will not last long in the end. Although
is cruel, this is an inevitable fact.
So, don’t believe in feelings easily, and don’t believe that as long as you find a man who loves you, you can do nothing and be a salted fish for the rest of your life.
This is impossible. Everyone needs to take responsibility. Even if you have a partner who loves you, you have to share everything with the other party, and you have to contribute.
Never brainwash by the so-called "toxic chicken soup" on the Internet, otherwise your fate will only be ruthlessly abandoned.
In life, as a woman, always be rational and do not easily be confused by poisonous chicken soup, otherwise there will be endless troubles.
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