Some women are born as nannies in marriage and take care of all housework in the family. In the end, men not only do not cherish them, but also despise women and take this kind of effort for granted.
Psychology shows that when a woman invests in a man to a certain extent, the more she invests, the less reward she will get. We often see in marriage that a virtuous woman saves money for this family, is reluctant to dress up, is reluctant to take care of herself, and does not pay attention to her appearance. This kind of woman can be called a silly woman. She doesn't understand that men are visual animals. In the end, women will not be able to get a good word for men. Why is this happening with
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As a woman, you must give moderate efforts to men. Excessive efforts will become flattering. In the subconscious of a man, a woman must go to the hall and the kitchen, and you must be both virtuous and kind. Therefore, women should not be too full of their own good. A woman who only knows virtuous will think that he will eat you and will no longer cherish you. At this time, no matter how much you give, it will be cheap. No matter what you do, women remember to participate, so that men can understand what empathy is.
The best treatment between husband and wife is actually fairness. Women take taking care of children as their job, not obligation or duty, and men make money to support their families is also a job. Don’t think that women are raising children is a duty. Therefore, women are not nannies in marriage, but also a kind of job. And only women do this kind of job well, and men may not be able to do it.
Remember women. No matter what state we are in, we must remember to love ourselves well!