As we all know, mutual trust is the basis of husband and wife's relationship, and it is also the primary factor in a beautiful marriage, and it is also the bond that closely connects husband and wife.
A relationship without trust is unstable, no matter how much emotion you invest, there will be no good ending. If the two of them don’t even have basic trust when they are together, there is no way to talk about anything else.
In marriage, you put too much energy into suspicion of the other party, and you are not interested in managing the marriage, let alone creating a better future together! A lack of trust is like a mobile phone without signals, unable to communicate and can only play games.
A man in Shaanxi was going to go to the operating room for surgery, so he refused to bring his mobile phone in the operating room. The man had no choice but to give his mobile phone to his wife for safekeeping. Before handing it over to his wife, he actually changed his password to his mobile phone. When netizens saw the man’s actions, they all laughed! Some netizens joked with the man: Put life and death aside, and innocence must be left in the world!
The woman said that her husband was going to have a minor operation this time and she would not bring her mobile phone in the operating room. When the doctor asked the husband to keep his cell phone for his family, the husband was extremely reluctant. But the hospital has hospital regulations and has to comply with them.
At the strong request of the doctor, the husband still handed himself the phone. The woman usually trusts her husband very much and doesn't think there is any secret to his mobile phone. She also knows her husband's mobile phone password. On the contrary, her husband was hesitant to hand over his cell phone when he entered the operating room, which aroused her suspicion.
When the woman got the phone, she tried to turn on her husband's phone and could enter her usual password, and the password was always displayed. After entering it several times, the woman realized that her husband had changed his password.
password should have been modified before handing it to her on your phone. The woman thought to herself, is there any secret her husband has to hide from him?
If it is open and honest, why doesn’t the husband look through his phone for himself? Thinking of this, the woman had a strong premonition that her husband must have something to hide from her.
Thinking of this, the woman said, furious. In a fit of anger, he entered his password many times and locked his husband's phone directly, and it would not be opened after 24 hours!
What she does to a woman, some netizens advised her to live smarterly and not to cause trouble for herself. It is better to pretend to be confused about some things or to be confused about them. Everything is clear and clear, without any secrets, what's the point of living? You and I have secrets that you don’t want others to know, and husbands will also have them. Letting others go is letting yourself go!
Whether couples should set passwords to prevent multiple parties? In the comment area, some netizens expressed their agreement, while others expressed their opposition to this practice.
Some netizens said, I really don’t know what a mobile phone looks good. My husband and I both know each other’s mobile phone passwords, but we never look at each other’s mobile phones, with more trust and more responsibility.
Some netizens also believe that the rare thing between husband and wife is trust, but they should also allow the other party to have some private space. Because everyone has a secret corner in their heart, and there are secrets hidden in the corner that they don’t want others to know. Love him, accept everything about him, and respect his privacy.
Some netizens even used their personal experience to tell everyone that the breakup between the two starts with suspicion of each other and checking their mobile phones. If you don’t want to disintegrate yourself, please put away your false suspicion! Because it is an invisible sharp knife that can break up a marriage!
However, some netizens believe that couples should be honest and there should be no secrets. Once there is a secret, they will suspicion, conceal each other, and guard against each other. In this way, if they focus too much energy on guarding each other, how can they still have the energy to run a house?
Author's opinion
Although trust is the basis of husband and wife's relationship, husband and wife are independent individuals after all, and they still need to have their own small space. However, these small spaces are by no means a reason to do things that are not conducive to marriage. In the
video, the husband changed his mobile phone password directly before entering the operating room. This method makes people feel like "no silver here is 300 taels", which will make the wife's heart, which can easily lead to misunderstandings in the relationship between husband and wife.
In fact, the husband has some unknown so-called "secrets". As long as the relationship does not hurt the husband and wife, it doesn't matter if the wife knows it. There is no need to hide. It was nothing, but now the password has been changed, so your wife will be sure that there will be a secret on your phone. Simple things become more and more complicated and become more and more uncontrollable! This makes it seem like changing the password, it’s a waste of time!
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