Nowadays, there are more men and fewer women. Logically speaking, it should be easier for girls to find a partner. But now there is a woman who says she can’t find a partner. What’s going on? Is this woman too bad? It's not right. This woman has 8,000 yuan every month, and her sa

Nowadays, there are more men and fewer women. Logically speaking, it should be easier for girls to find a partner. But now there is a woman who says she can’t find a partner. What’s going on? Is this woman too bad? It's not right. This woman has 8,000 yuan every month, and her salary is quite high. She also said that she would not have a car or a house to marry her. There is no need for both car and house. Then why no one went to marry her?

What is going on? Why can't this woman get married yet? I also hope that through this case, I can remind all women that finding a partner is OK, but it must be reasonable. Otherwise, it will never be found. A 40-year-old left-handed woman cried: I have a monthly salary of 8,000, I don’t want a car or a house to marry me, why don’t I marry me?

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40-year-old Ms. He:

I can’t even understand. I have such good conditions, why can’t I find the object yet? I didn’t dare to go home during the Mid-Autumn Festival . It’s not that I didn’t dare to go back without money, but because I can’t find a partner now, and everyone in my family is talking about me, especially my parents.

My parents are now in their 60s. They have already held grandchildren at this time, but my parents have not held grandchildren yet. I am my parents’ only child. When I get home, they always tell me about this. It’s National Day again soon, and they also told me to go back for a blind date. I can't even understand why I can't find a partner even if I have such good conditions and are so beautiful?

I am 1.73 meters tall, and then my weight is 110 kilograms tall and thin. Many men like this, let alone I am the pure one. Why don’t men like such a beautiful woman? I am a little older, but if I don’t tell you my age, you will definitely not be able to tell how old I am now. Let’s just say that, people say that I am in my 20s and 30s, but in fact, I am already 40 years old. I am absolutely excellent in this regard, so why can't I find a partner?

Is it a bad thing for me? I think I am also good in other aspects. For example, I have 8,000 yuan a month. Although you think 8,000 yuan is not much, the relevant data show that the per capita salary this year is only more than 5,000 yuan. In other words, the ultimate moves are about 5,000, but I am more than 8,000, which is 60% higher than them. What is this concept? Many college students even only cost three or four thousand yuan a month, and they can’t even raise themselves.

Some experts say that college students who cannot find a job should pay for the company and then let the company hire that person. Not only do I don’t have to pay for the company, I also get 8,000 yuan a month. In this matter, I am better than many college students. Not to mention that I have a good relationship with people. I have many male best friends. They treat me very well. They will definitely not say anything if I have any needs and needs help. And now I have a car and a house and I don’t need anything.

When you are with me, just meet my 5 requirements. What's the difficulty? At least I don't ask the other party to have a car and a house. There are no requirements anymore. Why is there no man here to marry me? Or do those men think I am too beautiful, or they are too outstanding to marry me. Otherwise, why didn’t those men come to learn from me? I'm 40 years old.

The first requirement is because I am the only child. So I need you to marry into mine.

Why do you say so? I just said that I am an only child, and my parents will rely on me for their retirement in the future, and I don’t want my parents to have no children in the future. They also want to hold their grandchildren, so they can only let you marry into my family. This is not a big problem. Now the child has the same surname as anyone else. As long as the child is yours, I can't guarantee anything else, but what I can guarantee is that the child is 100% yours, because I am not those playful women.

If I were a playful woman, I had been with others for a long time, why wait until now? Since that's the case, you should be more at ease, because I only have you in my heart, and I will not be with others, so you don't have to worry about your children, it's not your children 100% yours.

So there is nothing to worry about in this matter. As long as you can be with me, there is nothing else that the child is yours, but you have to marry into my family. This is also considered fulfilling my parents’ wish. There is nothing to worry about for you. Anyway, the child is yours and who is the same as anyone else. You are the father of the child, and I am the mother of the child. We are all a family, so children are the same as anyone else.

The second requirement is, if I die one day. You have to help me adopt parents.

I am with you, that means I am your wife, then my parents are also your parents, one day I passed away, you have to raise my parents, this is a normal thing, this requirement is not too much. Even if you have not married into my family, as long as I am with you, you should be responsible to my parents, let alone you have married into my family. You should be more responsible to my parents.

If you are not responsible to my parents, whoever is responsible to my parents, of course I may not necessarily ask you to be responsible to my parents. As long as I am alive, I will definitely take care of my parents, as long as I leave. Then I have no choice. I have left this world. If you are not responsible to my parents, who is responsible to my parents. It can be said that this requirement is not excessive. You are my husband, you are my parents' son-in-law, and my parents have married you their only daughters.

You are not responsible to my parents, who is responsible to my parents, let alone I am not in this world, what else can you do, and I can only rely on you, don’t you think? Don’t feel embarrassed about you. This is something you must do. You are my parents’ son-in-law, you are my husband, and you must be responsible to my parents.

The third requirement is, I like younger and more handsome, I must be 10 years younger than me.

Which man doesn’t like young and beautiful people? Since you guys can like young and beautiful people, why don’t women allow them to like young and beautiful people? There is no such reason in the world. It is said that men can find young and beautiful people, and women can't. If you guys can find young and beautiful ones.

Then we women can also find young and handsome people. Isn’t it good to find someone who is young and handsome? Not to mention that according to relevant data, most women live longer. Otherwise, if you go to the park, you will not only see many elderly women. Very few men live longer, most women live longer.

If you are younger, I am 10 years old, which means you can spend 10 years with me. If that happens, we will be very likely to spend it to the end. If your age is similar to mine, I think it is very likely that I will not be able to go to the last day. What should I do if you die? Then I am old and I will never be with others again. If you leave, will I walk alone? If that happens in this life, it will be too uncomfortable. Then I might as well not be with you. I should not only be responsible to myself, but also to my parents. Do you think so?

The fourth requirement is, I have 8,000 yuan per month, so you must have 30,000 yuan per month.

Let me put it this way, love without material things is a mess. I, a woman, can get 8,000 yuan per month. If you don’t have 30,000 yuan per month, how can you live your life in the future? Do you still want me to support you? If you are a man, if you don’t support me, what else do I want you to do? You can't even raise a man. What do I want you to do if you are a family? Don't think I'm disgusting, but don't think I'm disgusting you.

What I want to say is that these are all things that men must do. A man must make money to support his family and wife. Isn’t it? If you, a man, can't do this, then what else do you do? What else do men want you to do? Do you think so? So I think it's okay for me to say this.

Many women rely on men. Although I have 8,000 yuan a month, what does my money have to do with you? My money is mine, and it is your business for you to make money to support me. I spend my money myself, and I can do whatever I want. After all, my money is not caused by the strong wind, let alone you earn it with hard work. If you don’t do this, would anyone want me to do it? If I were asked to do it, I might as well not be with you.

The fifth requirement is to listen to me after marriage.

I am your wife after divorce. Since I am said to be your wife, then we are a family. Since we are said to be a family, then you should listen to me. If you don’t listen to me, who else do you want to listen to? Do you still want to listen to your own? Or do you want to hear from others?

If that's the case, I will quarrel with you. Do you want to quarrel with me? If the two of us quarrel, it will definitely be unhappy. If that happens, both of us will not be able to live well. Do you think we will not live well? If you don't want to, then listen to me and me is responsible for me, you, your family, and our children. This family is for you and for my happiness. You must listen to me. You must be right when you listen to me. I will not let you suffer any losses, and I will not let you do anything. You listen to me for everyone’s good.

and isn’t this what happened since ancient times? Men listen to women, and there is a saying that you will make a fortune by listening to your wife. If you want to get rich, just listen to me. Listen to me not only to yourself, but also to me, and to this family. Are you a man, not to be responsible for your family, yourself, and me, or to everyone? So I have to listen to me.

broadcast these five requirements are difficult. I don’t think these five requirements are for men. I already have a car and a house. If I am with me, these five requirements are difficult. I don’t think these five requirements are for men. I don’t think they are difficult. I don’t think these five requirements are for men. I already have a car and a house. If I am with me, you don’t need to buy a car, let alone buy a house. I don’t need to say how difficult it is to buy a car and I don’t need to say that everyone knows, especially if you buy a house for two or three million.

Even if you have a monthly salary of 300,000 yuan, it will only cost about 300,000 yuan a year, and then how many years will it take to buy a house, let alone the house is rising all the time. Do you think your salary can buy a house? So being with me is of no harm to men. But why is there still no man to marry me?

What is the problem with this? I am so beautiful and have no high requirements. I still have a car and a house, and I don’t need a bride money, so why don’t I come to marry me? Is it because they think my requirements are too low? Or do men nowadays don’t want to get married? Why don’t you come to marry me or not? I really will grow old. I don’t dare to go back to celebrate National Day now and don’t know what to do. Man, why don’t you come to marry me? Come and marry me, I will give you a happy family.

Conclusion:

Although you have excellent conditions and are pretty, after reading your requirements, I realized that if you follow this place, what you will never find is because your requirements are too excessive.I also think that someone can cost 30,000 yuan a month, and then ask them to be 30 years old. If I have 30 yuan a month after I get 30 yuan, wouldn’t it be good for me to find a 20-year-old girl? Why do you want to find a 40-year-old? I also have 30,000 yuan a month. Do you think I don’t have a car or a house?

What do I want you to do if I have a car and a house? Not to mention that you are already 40 years old, can you still have a baby? These are very realistic questions. If you are looking for a partner in your heart, then lower your requirements. Otherwise, you will not be able to find a partner in your life and will only become a joke in others' eyes.

If you want to be a joke, you can continue to do your own thing. If you really want to find a partner, then make a request in fact. At the same time, I also hope that through this case, we can remind all women, although you have the advantage in a certain proportion. But you can't make any requests blindly, just like this woman in the article, she can't find a partner.