came out to work, I found that many people were talking about -
Girls, be kind to yourself.
Girls, live a more refined life.
Girls, be willing to spend money on themselves.
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Life is not easy at all.
And these sounds linger in my ears.
inevitably made me curious about some questions - is it necessary to be frugal?
Do girls need to save money to buy a house?
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1⃣️Do girls want to be stingy and frugal?
When I first came out to work, I shared a rent with a girl.
The girl’s concept is “I want to be good to myself.”
So even if the salary is only two or three thousand, she dared to buy clothes worth 1,500 yuan without blinking.
also often eat outside food and go to restaurants, and life is very comfortable.
At that time, she said to me: What money does a girl save? Will she leave it to men after marriage? Eat in your mouth and spend it on your body.
sounds very reasonable.
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But as I got older, I found a problem: it was a bad thing to have no deposit in my hand.
If you want to change to a better house, you have to spend money.
Filling and tooth filling costs a lot of money.
If you want to improve yourself, you will have to get a certificate of several thousand yuan. For ordinary girls with limited open source capabilities, they can only save money, right?
I just started to regret it. I started saving money without work, and I didn’t start to be stingy and frugal earlier.
, by the way, saving money does not mean not working hard to open source.
As for myself, I have been working hard to improve myself and find ways to open source more.
Read, write, shoot short videos, and try all kinds of new things...
But I want to say that open source is not that easy, and open source is going up. If you are not frugal, the expenses will be easy.
So, if you want to have a savings, you still have to be frugal.
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2⃣️Do girls need to save money to buy a house?
Actually, I have never thought about buying a house for many years.
I think you can live a more relaxed and free life without taking a mortgage.
But when I was 30 years old, I saw my friends around me having their own houses one by one, and there was a gap in my heart.
Especially after I went to see their carefully decorated house, and then returned to a small house with only 28 square meters, the psychological gap was even greater.
I admit that I am envious and jealous.
Later I saw someone online saying that many landlords are unwilling to rent a house to older people.
But one day I will grow old, and I feel a little nervous when I think about it.
So I decided to save money to buy a house.
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Only after I have a house did I feel that I belong to this city.
is no longer afraid of being in a place to stay in the future.
doesn't need to use broken furniture and bad appliances.
I began to regret it again. Why didn’t I want to buy a house earlier? This way I can save money early.
After all, you buy a house early and repay the loan is easier.
It’s a pity that there is no regret in the world, so I can only move forward.
. Should a girl buy a house? I dare not say whether she must or not?
But for me, having my own house is equivalent to having confidence and a sense of security.
This is a way I am good to myself!
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