Self-esteem refers to "self-respect, respect yourself, and also your own dignity". It is generally believed that it is a necessary psychology for being a human being and also the bottom line that social networking needs to grasp.
No matter how society develops, people cannot avoid the problem of survival. If you have nothing, even if you have a noble field and profound talent, you need to put it all aside and solve your diet problems first.
For a responsible adult, making money to support yourself and your family and giving yourself and your family a good living environment is always the top priority. When we were young, we all naively thought it was OK to have money, but we couldn’t have face and dignity.
However, when we grow up, we experience the baptism of society. Many people put so-called face and dignity behind their minds for the sake of their interests. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this, because most of the time, cruel reality forces us to do so.
. In the adult world, there is no word easy. We are always helpless.
In order to make ourselves and our family live a better life, we must learn to endure humiliation in order to move forward better. Life is not easy. When faced with difficulties, many people will lose confidence and their self-esteem will collapse. These people will become slaves to pain. Some people still maintain their only dignity and don’t bow to pain. People really need self-esteem and self-love, but everything is too difficult. Sometimes too much emphasis on self-esteem will give you some burden.
You are afraid of other people's comments and fear of other people's eyes, which leads to face-to-face dilemma. In fact, in this world of material desires, there is not much empathy. No one cares about your dignity. They will only measure the way they treat you based on your strength. The stronger you are, the more harmonious the world will be with you. The weaker you are, the crueler the world will be. We always say that reality is cruel. In fact, what is cruel is not reality, but people's hearts.
No one is concerned about the poor in the downtown city, rich in the mountains and distant relatives, real society, real people, if you have money, you are smiling around you, if you have no money, everyone will be alienated from you, if you have the right to hear sweet words and flattery, if you have no right, you are perfunctory, you will be dealing with it perfunctorily, no matter how busy you are in the glory, you will have to visit you, even if you are in a downturn, you will say you have no time, even if you are idle, you will only have the fate of money. Just because of poverty, blood and family ties have faded.
3. Sometimes a person’s dignity can be very valuable, but many times it is worthless.
When a person is poor, he knows how important money is and how luxurious the dignity is. The impact of lack of money on a person is not on the money itself, but on the fact that after lack of money, it will limit your actions and thinking, make you nervous, and you cannot do many things.
When a person is poor, he has nothing. When a person even loses his freedom, then for his dignity, it is actually no different from garbage, and it is even more nonsense to what kind of dignity you want.
For most of us, talking about self-esteem, ideals and face is actually hypocritical for most of us when we have no money. Poverty will keep you running around the most basic food and clothes all day long and have no time to pursue a better life as you imagine.
4. We are all ordinary people, neither have outstanding life background nor strong economic strength to rely on.
The poor without money and background can rely on, no one dares to say that they are hard, rely only on their own hands to work hard, for their wives and children, rely on their own servitude, and for their own survival.
Perhaps these ways of making money are not decent and dignified enough in the eyes of so-called excellent people, but for the poor, making money is enough. For those on the verge of survival, those who do not have dignity to survive, just like asking why they do not eat minced meat, they really cannot blame them on the moral high ground.
Poverty is like a noose, tightly grasping the neck of every poor person.The poor have tried their best, and their dignity has long been trampled on the ground and deeply in the mud. It is said that the lives of poor people are worthless, and in fact, the dignity of poor people is even more so. (Although we are all striving for it)
5. Facing reality, there is no need to complain about yourself. All complaints are of no help.
When you cannot solve the problems you are facing with your face, work hard and enrich your face. Don’t lose confidence and try to make yourself strong. This is the best counterattack against those who trampled on your dignity.
The power of a person starts from the depths of your heart, knows how to put down your face, no matter how the external world changes, put down your shallow face, lower your head and think that this is the so-called proud head, work harder and don’t let yourself rot at the bottom of society.
true dignity is obtained through one's own efforts. When facing ridicule and ridicule from others, you must learn to fight back with your strength instead of emphasizing your dignity in words. Don’t indulge in bad emotions of giving up and improve your strength. Always remember that dignity without strength is worthless.
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