Recently received a message in the background: Teacher , how can a relationship be happy all the time? Why do some women look ordinary but are extremely happy in their relationship? How can we get into a man’s heart?
This should be the answer that every woman wants to know. Want to firmly grasp the heart of men is the ultimate goal of every woman , but how can we achieve this goal?
Some people say it is a beautiful skin, while others say it is gentle and considerate. These are just a small part of it, the most important thing is: ’s key to opening the door of a man’s heart.
If you want to firmly grasp a man's heart and make him unable to live without you, you must master these keys to open his heart, so that you can quickly achieve your ultimate goal.
Today, the talented man will talk to you about how can enter a man's heart and make him unable to live without you?
1. Conquer desire
We all know that men are born to hunt animals . When men pursue a woman, they are more of the conquer desire .
They will like that uncontrollable feeling, which will arouse their curiosity. So when you get along with a man, you need to understand his psychology: keeps making him curious about you and stimulate his desire to conquer .
This is like playing a game. If a game is not difficult and you can pass the level all the time, then you will lose interest in the game and don’t want to play it anymore.
But if this game, after each level is over, you will be rewarded, and then start the next level. Each level is more difficult than the next level, but I want to pass the level .
The same is true in love. When is with a man, set some difficulty for him. As he continues to explore, he also devotes time and energy, etc. Then you give him some small rewards, which will make the man gradually gain you, just like a game, the more he wants to play.
Then how does stimulate a man's desire to conquer? Let me give you an example.
For example, you are chatting with a man, but don’t reply in seconds. It is indeed polite to reply in seconds, but what the man thinks is: Are you waiting for his message all the time, and you are very concerned about him. When he confirms several times, he thinks that you are already under his control, and then you lose the desire to conquer him.
So the message will be replied a few minutes later, which is a hint that the man: I am not idle.
Here is a trick, can chat with men in a fixed location first .
For example, chat with him every night, and chat for a while, so that he can form the habit of finding him at this point every day. You can occasionally be late for a few minutes to see his reaction.
can also disappear one day when they are halfway through the conversation. The next morning, you told him that you fell asleep last night, and then accompanied by a grievance emoticon pack.
At this time, the man's mood that cannot sleep all night disappeared at this moment. He only feels lost and regained at this moment. This is also the best time for you to bring your relationship closer.
2. Protection desire
Contemporary women are generally more independent and are unwilling to rely too much on men, even stronger than men.
But men are heroic, and every man has a heroic dream, so shows weakness appropriately and let men protect you will be more likely to inspire men's desire to protect and satisfy them.
Let me give you an example of my student. She is a strong woman. She is an executive in the company. She has good figure, good education and excellent work ability.
She fell in love with one of her subordinates, but this subordinate had no feelings for her and kept talking to her respectfully, only treating her as a leader.
I let her get along with each other in daily life, try not to show her strong woman, and can play her little woman with her.
Then she occasionally acted clumsy and was very soft when speaking. Once she took the initiative to find a subordinate and said, "There is something that is not very good. You are a professional. Can you teach me?" The subordinate
began to be curious: this is completely different from the original impression of her. It turns out that she also doesn't understand something, and she also needs to be taken care of.
Then the man began to become interested and took the initiative to ask her out for dinner and watch a movie.
Therefore, Appropriately expressing weakness and dependent on men can stimulate their desire to protect .
3. Sense of belonging
What do women think most about in a relationship? Is it right to feel safe to ? What about the man? What they need most is a sense of belonging , which is a hot meal for returning home exhausted. The lights of thousands of families always have a feeling of their own.
How does create this sense of belonging?
For example, a man works overtime until very late to go home, you can cook some food in advance. When he finishes his work and returns home, he finds that there are still hot meals on the table. He suddenly loses his fatigue for the whole day, and he feels the warmth of home.
For example, if a man doesn’t eat breakfast in the morning, you can make a simple breakfast a little in advance and then eat breakfast with him to develop the habit of eating breakfast.
When a person develops a habit, he becomes dependent on you and it is difficult to leave you again.
For example, if a man is on a business trip, you can also give him a little warmth in details. You can leave a message to him: "Every time I get busy with work, I forgot to drink water. My throat will hurt after a long meeting. Remember to drink more water." "It has cooled down recently, remember to wear more clothes and don't catch a cold."
These small details will hint to the man: you are the one who understands him.
If you also want men to rely on you and cannot do without you, you might as well try these three keys.
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