I don’t know why, but young people nowadays are increasingly reluctant to get married.
On one hand, the parents are desperately urging the marriage, while on the other hand, the boy cannot find a girlfriend, and he does not want to spend money and energy to pursue girls.
For girls, they would rather be single than reduce their quality of life and remain single.
So much so, when a boy takes his girlfriend home, the girl will be spoiled like a baby, and the parents are afraid that she will not be satisfied with her family and are unwilling to marry her.
In Nanning, Guangxi, a woman went to her boyfriend's house for the first time and was "dodged" by a boy's aunt and aunt. A group of people chatted with her, afraid that she would be bored.
Not only that, my boyfriend was also given an "order" by his parents, trying to marry his girlfriend.
The incident happened at a villager's home in Nanning, Guangxi. The man took his girlfriend home for the first time, and his family attached great importance to it.
The man's parents and relatives and friends were waiting at home early, preparing various snacks, snacks, fruits, etc., waiting for the girl to arrive.
As soon as I entered the door, the girls were nervous because 5 or 6 elders were gathered in front of the table and chatted with her.
I thought my boyfriend's aunt was here to inspect him, but unexpectedly, they gathered together to chat with her because they were afraid that the girls would be bored. They chatted with her all the time, and they had no intention.
The boys were called to prepare meals. Such treatment caught the girls a little off guard and felt embarrassed to look around.
Facing the enthusiasm of the aunts and aunts, the man was both happy and full of emotion.
is happy because family members like their girlfriends. The girlfriend has been recognized by their parents and relatives and friends. The next step is to hold a wedding.
is feeling because everyone is too enthusiastic and makes single girls too precious and have no requirements for them.
In other words, single girls are so popular nowadays. As long as she is willing to marry, the conditions can be raised at will. The man’s parents will meet her requirements as much as possible. The current situation like
will lead to boys being passive in the marriage and love market and can only be picked by girls, and they may not be able to marry the type they like.
From the perspective of a girl, choosing "happiness" and there is something wrong.
Once you go wrong in marriage, it may cost all the youth of a woman. Therefore, it is understandable why girls don’t get married easily, especially boys with average family conditions.
A girl is willing to marry you, which is equivalent to betting on her youth, betting that you will always be good to her and that your future life will be happy.
The reality is that life before and after marriage is completely different.
Before marriage, the boy was wholeheartedly kind to his girlfriend, and all his energy and thoughts were on his girlfriend, so the girl naturally felt very sweet.
But after marriage, it is impossible to be like in love. He needs to make money to support his family, and his energy is mainly focused on work, and may ignore his wife a little. Many girls will feel lost and feel that the two are not in love enough after marriage.
This is also the reason why girls must have "bread" when getting married, at least, they don't have to suffer the hardships of life.
The elders actually have selfish intentions for girls, just to leave a good impression on her and let her marry her.
The fact that has to be admitted is that it is too difficult to marry a wife in the countryside.
A man has the ability, so it’s good to find a girlfriend by himself. Boys who can’t find a girlfriend can only rely on blind dates, which is also a great investment.
It should be noted that even if the girl is satisfied with the man's family, the marriage between the two is still "unlike the same character".
The future father-in-law and mother-in-law need to nod and agree, so that the two can successfully enter the palace of marriage.
Therefore, only when men become excellent can they get the recognition of girls and their future father-in-law and mother-in-law. It is difficult to rely solely on their parents.
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