Introduction: Many single elderly people feel lonely when they are old. My children have already started a family and started a career, and they can't go home for more time to accompany and take care of themselves. So I especially wanted to find an old partner. But what’s strange

Introduction : Many single elderly people feel lonely when they are old. My children have already started a family and started a career, and they can't go home for more time to accompany and take care of themselves.

So I especially wanted to find an old partner. But what’s strange is that there are so many more men in the blind date market who want to find a partner than women.

65-year-old Aunt Wang said, "After remarrying with 68-year-old Mr. Li, I finally understood why men insist on finding a partner."

65-year-old Aunt Wang's self-report

My name is Wang Yan, and I am 65 years old this year. My husband died of a cerebral hemorrhage five years ago. My son has already started a family and a business in a big city. My son is very filial and worried that I will not live well by myself. So he said he wanted to take me to live with him in the city. But I really don't get used to it in big cities. There are bright lights and wine everywhere.

I don't have anyone I know. My daughter-in-law and I have different eras, and my ideas and living habits are also different. Therefore, we often quarrel. I don't want to cause trouble for my son either.

So I packed my luggage and went back to my hometown. My hometown is a small county town, and there has never been much change there. I feel extremely familiar, and someone will say hello to me wherever I go. Living alone at home is very empty and lonely. Every day I try to make a table of delicious meals, but no one can share them together. After finishing the housework, there is nothing to do.

I was also very bored to go out for a walk alone. It seems that other elderly people are paired up in pairs, talking and laughing. I really can't say anything envy in my heart.

Although I am old, I am still very hot inside. I began to long for a love to nourish my body and mind. I thought if I could love a passionate love in my old age. What a wonderful thing that would be!

So I started to participate in blind dates. During the event, I met a humorous man. His name is Lao Wang and he often tells me jokes. I was also smiling from ear to ear. And he also said that he has been single for many years and wanted to find a partner. On Valentine's Day, he gave me a bouquet of bright red roses . I was particularly moved and thought he was too romantic.

So we started to formally date. He treats me very well, for fear that I will feel a little uncomfortable. I will buy whatever I want. He said he wanted to give me a title and let me accompany him for the rest of his life. I also agreed with emotion. We had a very sweet time after marriage. He has infinite patience with me. Even if I make unreasonable trouble, he will spend time and energy to make me happy.

But the passion faded soon. He lay on the sofa like a hand-off manager every day. He said he had no intention of talking about love with me and asked me to serve him well. I still love him, so I can only take care of him with all my heart. Every day I prepare delicious meals for him. I will also clean the house for him. He also took my goodness for granted. I used to praise me for being virtuous and give me gifts. Now I don't care about me.

He has to go out to practice Tai Chi every day, and his clothes are dry and wet when he comes back. I also do his clothes. My arms were sore that I washed. Sometimes when I cook late, he even criticizes me. He said I was too lazy and not a good wife. I felt very uncomfortable when I heard this. He also requested the AA system.

He said that all the expenses at home must be distributed equally. From the money for buying groceries to the money for daily necessities. He wants to calculate it very clearly with me. I feel like I live like a nanny, but I still have to pay for it without getting my salary.

Sometimes I can’t help but lose my temper. He was willing to say some sweet words to make me happy. He said you don’t love me? Since you love me, you should give everything for me. What I can't stand is that

. He asked me to help take care of my grandson. He said that his son and daughter-in-law were busy with work every day. I really don't have the time and energy to take care of the children. He felt very distressed when he saw his son working hard. I was very wronged at that time. Could it be that his son has worked hard, but I won’t work hard? I didn't agree at the time.

But he took my grandson while I was away. I can only help with it.Every day after he finished his meal, there was no one else. I could only follow his naughty grandson to clean up the mess.

His grandson jumped up and down, making the house messy. I cleaned up my back and forth.

This marriage is completely different from what I expected. I want to talk about love. But the other party ignored me and treated me as a nanny.

I also understand why men insist on finding a partner. In fact, it is just for the sake of life and life. By the way, I can also help myself with my grandson.

Men are really realistic! I didn't want to be this sucker, so I divorced Lao Wang directly. But unexpectedly, a week later, Lao Wang found another woman to get married.

Every day after he finished his meal, there was no one else. I could only follow his naughty grandson to clean up the mess.

His grandson jumped up and down, making the house messy. I cleaned up my back and forth.

This marriage is completely different from what I expected. I want to talk about love. But the other party ignored me and treated me as a nanny.

I also understand why men insist on finding a partner. In fact, it is just for the sake of life and life. By the way, I can also help myself with my grandson.

Men are really realistic! I didn't want to be this sucker, so I divorced Lao Wang directly. But unexpectedly, a week later, Lao Wang found another woman to get married.