Author | Lu Lu
Recently, many people have recommended to me the movie " Hidden into the dust ". Except for Hai Qing, they are all authentic local farmers, including the male lead, who is the director's uncle.
This movie is about the northwest rural area more than ten years ago.
Ma You's parents both died, and both elder brothers and second brothers were gone, and they lived with their third brother's family. He was nearly fifty years old and was an old bachelor who was ridiculed by the villagers.
Cao Guiying was weak, hunched, had chronic diseases, could not have children, could not do heavy work, and had problems with urinary incontinence. She could only sleep in the shack in her brother's backyard, blowing from the wind and rain.
They were all disliked by their families and could not find a reason to abandon them, so they were arranged to have a hasty blind date.
Before meeting each other, they were just a donkey from my brother and sister-in-law's house, a livestock, and a free long-term worker. They have forgotten that they are still a person with flesh and blood.
At the dinner table for the blind date, the third brother of Ma Youtied suddenly scolded the donkey in the yard, disliked the donkey eating too much. Ma Youti couldn't sit still, so he took the rice bowl to see the donkey. He squatted beside the donkey, and the donkey was eating grass and he ate.
Cao Guiying was urging her in public by her sister-in-law. She went to the yard, touched the donkey, and looked straight at Ma Youtie hiding in the house. No one knew what she was thinking at this moment, but Ma Youtie was shy and scratched her head.
has no prelude, and I haven't even said a word, two completely strangers got married. On the wedding night, Guiying kept sitting on the kang and didn't dare to move. She couldn't control her body and was worried that she would pee her pants.
Ma You Tie said nothing, just silently added a stove to make the room warmer.
Guiying still peed her pants. She was extremely embarrassed and grabbed a piece of rag on the bed to cover it. Finally, she stuck out her butt, took off half of her pants, and fell asleep while roasting by the fire.
Ma Youtiot said nothing, his silent care was the warmth that Cao Guiying had never experienced before.
Two people who were abused by life and were bruised all over their bodies. After getting together, there was no need for words, it was comfort.
Ma Youti's nephew got married, and the third brother asked him to go to the city to pull furniture. Before leaving, he prepared the meal for Cao Guiying and handed the hot steamed buns to Guiying, who was still lying on the kang.
steamed buns were scalded, Guiying's hands were rushing back and forth, and Ma Youtiedi said, "Your hand is very flexible."
Cao Guiying's left hand was disabled and would keep shaking his hands, but in Ma Youtiedi's eyes, she would be the only one who could be the same. OK, it doesn't matter.
After entering the city, Ma Youtii thought about showing Guiying's clothes to cover her often incontinent buttocks and not to be ridiculed. Before this, who would care about Cao Guiying's dignity and face?
There is iron for horses, no matter how dull Guiying is, he will naturally respond.
It was already dark for the horse Youtik to go home. On a cold night in the northwest rural area, Cao Guiying held a bottle of boiling water, turned on a flashlight and looked around the entrance of the village. When the boiling water was cold, it changed to hot, just for the horse Youtik to be the first Time to drink hot water.
The moment she saw Cao Guiying standing there, Ma Youtie got angry at someone for the first time: "What are you doing when you run out! It's cold!"
After the fire broke, it was a few seconds of cramping. Tempering, this overly strong emotion is too long and unfamiliar to him, and it is also for Cao Guiying.
The two were silent for ten seconds. On this cold winter night, they were savoring, being scolded, worried, loving, scolded with love, strange, but warm.
Later, Ma Youtie was discovered, and he actually had panda blood like the richest man Zhang Yongfu.He was "kidnapped" by all the villagers to donate blood to Zhang Yongfu, the richest man in the village. Because Zhang Yongfu had to live, he still owed the villagers' wages and grain money.
Cao Guiying, who has always been silent and cowardly, said the first thing she said was: "We don't offer it, we will offer it to you."
She spoke for Ma Youtiet, and if she did it for herself, she would never dare to say it. of. In her heart, Ma Youtiet is her man, and even if she has little strength, she has to do her best to protect him! Protect him!
But in the end, the arm could not resist his thighs, so Ma Youti still "agree" to donate blood.
Cao Guiying dragged her sick body, suffered from motion sickness and healing her pants. She accompanied Ma Youtien every time she donated blood. She didn't know what to do, but she must accompany her.
Love makes people stronger. Although life is difficult, I move twice and get up a house again. Even if the house is barely walled, even if it rains soaks all the acres, even if it is demolished and then demolished, the two of them can finally be like a person together. , life has begun.
Two marginal people who were abandoned by the world are because of each other, each sentence, every sentence responds, every action is seen, and with attention, there is hope and heat.
The summer night was so hot that they couldn't sleep. The two of them slept on the roof. Ma Youtie was worried that Guiying would roll down when she fell asleep, so he tied his belt to Guiying's pants. The belt was connected to their waists. Connecting to the hearts of both of them.
Two people became the object of discussion among the men's wives in the village: Ma Youti wanted to tie Cao Guiying to his belt.
These words are teasing but are heartbreaking. How many good-looking women have never been treated like this by men in their entire lives and have been held in their palms. However, Cao Guiying, who no one likes, was held in his hand by Ma Youtie.
The season for harvesting wheat is here. Like all couples, horses have iron loading the cart, and Cao Guiying picks up wheat ears.
The horse has iron for Cao Guiying to pick up the wheat and send it to the roof of the car like other wives. However, Cao Guiying, who was weak and disabled, failed to lift the wheat up with her energy and even brought herself down. I fell two times.
Ma Youti, anxious and angry, cursed: "You idle king, how many bags of wheat are for you to eat, and you can't hand me a few bundles of wheat! I'll raise a donkey, and it can give it to me too! Pull the cart! "
While stepping down from the car, Guiying stepped forward and helped him. He was pushed out by Ma Youtie and fell on the wheat pile again. He was ashamed and angry for a moment. He moved again, and his body wet his pants without composure.
Ma Youti saw this and was stunned for a moment. His emotions faded and his consciousness recovered. His wife was different from others. It’s not that she didn’t want it, but that she couldn’t.
On the way back, Cao Guiying carried a basket and disgustedly ignored Ma Youtie, making him look like an angry young wife.
I think this is the most humane scene designed in the whole movie.
Ma Youtie and Cao Guiying are both different at this time. They are no longer the puppet who can insult and mock others but dare not resist at all, so they have a temper and can naturally reveal their emotions. This is really a heavy sense of trust and security over time.
Cao Guiying, who has always been like a black and white photo, has gradually become colored. In the end, Ma Youtiedi persuaded him and coaxed Guiying into the donkey cart.
must be used to coax before you can get up.
Two people were carrying donkey carts, carrying a truck full of buckets of wheat, running towards the golden light of the setting sun.
They get along with each other, and there are many warm moments. When Ma You Tie grilled the fish, he will give Guiying the first piece of tenderest fish first.
Guiying had a rash, but he scratched it a few times, and he saw it in his eyes, and opened Guiying's hair to check carefully.
will also take Guiying to the river to take a bath and rub Guiying's back in order to cure wheat rash.
The new house was finally built. Lying on the new kang of the new house, Cao Guiying sighed and was full of joy: "I never thought in my life that I could still have my own home and lie on my own kang."
She saw Ma Youtien's hard work and remembered it in her heart, and was completely sure.
is more than just a horse. In fact, today, for a man, many times, what he wants is this sentence to be seen and affirmed?
The two of them were lying on the kang together, hoping to have a good harvest this year, and have a good meal open next year, take Guiying to the city for a walk, and find a good doctor to see a doctor. Life is so beautiful, it is all a dream.
However, the accident came suddenly. Cao Guiying had a fever, and Ma Youti asked her to lie down and cover her with a quilt to cover her sweat while cooking the first egg laid by the chickens, plus a bowl of perilla grass soup.
eggs, Guiying is reluctant to eat them, so he wants the horse to eat them, and the horse has iron to comfort Cao Guiying's chickens will lay eggs in the future.
In this era, two people were still making things happen for an egg, both loving and sad. But who could have expected that this was the first egg they harvested together and the last egg.
Ma Youtii went to the field to work alone, but Cao Guiying was dizzy when he was waiting for him to come back at the entrance of the village and fell into the river. When Ma Youtie arrived, Cao Guiying had no breathing.
Cao Guiying's death only flashed through a few seconds of the scene. It was like this cruel world. In the eyes of outsiders, Guiying's death may be nothing more than a lively and a casual chat.
But for Ma Youtiet, Cao Guiying's departure gave him a colorful life and collapsed again. He bought Guiying a red dress, which was a bright color that Guiying had never worn before her lifetime. He planted a wheat flower on the back of her cold hands. This was a ceremony between them.
Ma You Tie sold the grain, paid off the debt, released donkey , returned the eggs from the neighbor's house, ate an egg in front of Guiying's portrait, and there was a pesticide bottle on the altar.
movie ends with open style, but I prefer Ma Youtie to drink pesticides and go with Cao Guiying. The egg that I finally gave up was to cover up the smell of pesticides.
They have too much helplessness and sorrow in their lives, but the time they were together was the only remaining heat in their life like ashes. Guiying left, and the iron hope of horses was destroyed, and no longer forced.
Seen on the Internet, the reason why many people like this movie is: real.
Yes, this movie was shot on the ground in the northwest rural areas. The wheat fields, acres, chickens running all over the floor or swallows in the house, all the details are so real.
However, the reason why this movie is so tear-jerking and touches thousands of adult men and women in urban air-conditioned rooms is, in my opinion, because it tells an impossible story with the most real details. A love fairy tale for adults, a literary plot that is intertwined with sadness and joy.
In fact, today, I am not trying to discuss what is not true in this film. What I want to say is, where did it touch the heart in this simple and dull love story?
For me, it is the kind of companionship that shares weal and woe, supports each other, and shares life and death, relying on each other, and not dislike each other. What's wrong with you? It doesn't matter. To me, you are you.
The most fatal problem that the infatuated men and women complaining about marriage in the city today is: the love they are thinking about is actually being loved, and everyone only thinks about being loved. Where will love come from?
Everyone wants to have a good love, that is, there are a lot of money, a big house, and a lot of beautiful things to create love.
However, in fact, in the whole world, whether rich or poor, whether young or old, whether beautiful or ugly, love is love. The value and nobility of love lies in giving, not asking for or waiting.
Therefore, as crude as a horse and iron, he can give Cao Guiying a perfect love that everyone envies. This love is not inferior to anyone.
And only one who has love in his heart, can feel love and can give love, can he live, and only when he accumulates enough love in his heart can he have a sense of security and dare to get angry.
Maybe this is the reason why I am puzzled: Why do many people become impatient and "in a nest" for their family members?
It is because my family gave you love, so I have the confidence to be lawless, but this is like an iceberg deep into the ocean. No one can see it or understand it before the boat hits.
There are many marriage classes, psychology classes, and communication classes on the market today, talking about the so-called skills and strategies. However, in fact, being born as a human being, in a close relationship, what is more important is the heart, one way to go When it comes to darkness, it is you, and it is always your blindness and stubbornness.
If I really want to ask me how my marriage is managed, I just want to say one thing: love and choose to see love.
Lu Lu: A master's degree in clothing and writer in France with two daughters, walking among the rifts of cultural differences between the East and the West, elegant female self-media. The new book "Thirty years old" and "Only With Strength" are being sold hot.
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