When women are with women, most of them will talk about family matters, and when they are both friends and family matters, they will become a topic of conversation for women. When telling other people's stories, you will inevitably think of your own family. When you encounter sim

Women are with women, and most of them will talk about family matters, and family matters will become a topic of conversation for women.

When telling other people’s stories, you will inevitably think of your own family. When you encounter similar things, you will also say a few words casually.

Many things are not a big deal, but with the added fuel to others, things often become serious, which invisibly interferes with the judgment of the parties involved, and is easily exploited by people with ulterior motives. In fact, there is nothing wrong in the world, and mediocre people disturb it. We should not talk about these secrets of our in-laws everywhere.

First of all, the real economic situation at home.

people all need face. In order to support face, many people deliberately talk big in front of outsiders, for fear that they will be looked down upon. When a woman arrives at her husband's house, she finds that her husband's family's financial situation is very different from what outsiders see, and she will inevitably want to reveal the true situation of her family. In fact, as for whether you have money or not, it has little to do with others. After all, if you don’t have money, others won’t give it to you. And if you have money, it is your own money. Once the financial situation of the in-laws' family is not good, it will become a topic of conversation that others laugh at.

The second is the shortcomings of parents-in-law

Everyone has their own shortcomings. When they get close to each other, they can see many shortcomings, which outsiders do not know. Regarding parents-in-law, they are no exception. Perhaps they have many shortcomings that you can't stand. No matter what, they are also the parents of your beloved. When facing the shortcomings of parents-in-law, if you can tolerate, you should be tolerant. If you cannot tolerate, let the man communicate. Talking about the shortcomings of parents-in-law to outsiders will inevitably make others laugh at them, and in fact, it will also make people look down on themselves.

Then there are conflicts between family members

There are more people in the family, and there will be more problems, and there will inevitably be many problems among family members. You share the original small thing with other people, and others express their opinions, which will inevitably affect our judgment.

No matter how big the conflict between family members is, it is an internal conflict and can be digested by themselves. If you tell this matter to outsiders, it will inevitably expand the situation and is not conducive to family unity.

In the end, it is about private matters between husband and wife

There are many little secrets between husband and wife, but some women like to share these things with outsiders. Small things that seem insignificant will also affect the relationship between husband and wife and become A thorn between each other.

Two people quarreled, which was originally an angry word, but in the eyes of outsiders, this is a very serious matter and will inevitably cause new conflicts, so don’t easily share the matter between husband and wife with others. Some women like to be heart-to-hearted towards others. In fact, your thoughts may become jokes from others. Therefore, don’t say everything to outsiders, there are really not so many audiences.

Sometimes we really need to avoid being ruthless and leaking secrets from our in-laws' families, causing greater conflicts. Resolving and digesting is the best solution. Being a smart daughter-in-law will make the family happier.