In the past, when our elderly were in their old age, they could only let their children take care of their lives, because at that time, there were no other elderly care methods for our elderly to choose from, and there was also the idea of ​​"raising children to provide for old a

Introduction

In the past, when our elderly were in their old age, they could only let their children take care of their own lives, because at that time, there was no other way for our elderly to choose from, and there was " The traditional thought of "raising children to protect them in old age" has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

But now that many of our elderly people have reached their old age, they will more often choose other ways to solve their elderly care problems, especially now hiring nannies for elderly care. Due to its unparalleled advantages, it has become more and more popular among us. More and more senior people are welcome.

The biggest advantage of hiring a nanny for elderly care is that the elderly do not need to leave their homes at all, so the elderly can enjoy the high-quality elderly care services provided by nannies. This is in addition to the care of their children. The elderly care method is simply not available, so this is also an important factor why nanny care is welcomed by more and more elderly people.

On the surface, nannying for elderly care is good, but the prerequisite is that the elderly must find a good nanny who is dedicated and conscientious. Otherwise, the elderly looking for a nanny will be "making trouble" for themselves. A 70-year-old In his later years, Uncle Wei hired a nanny to take care of him, but later the 43-year-old female nanny took the initiative to embrace him, which made him feel very embarrassed. What exactly happened? Let's listen to what he said.

70-year-old Uncle Wei's self-report

My surname is Wei, and I am 70 years old this year. Nowadays, my economic conditions are quite good. Although my current pension is only 5,000 yuan per month, I still have a lot of money in my name. There are three houses. I live in one and rent out the other two. The monthly rent is almost 7,000 yuan, not counting my other income every year.

The reason why I have such good financial conditions now is mainly because when I was young, I was a very smart person. At that time, my wife and I were working in the workplace, and our salary income was quite good. .

But the two of us did not use the money to eat and drink. On the contrary, we only spent a small part of the money every month, and we saved the rest of the money. Later, when we got it, After our savings increased, we used the savings to buy a house. At that time, house prices were still relatively low, but later they became higher and higher. That's how the three houses under my name came about.

Not only that, I was also very good at financial management at that time. When I bought a house, I also spent part of my money to buy a lot of financial products. The reason why I did this at that time was mainly because I didn’t want to When I get old in the future, I will be miserable because I have no money to spend.

At this time, someone said, don’t you have children? Then you can ask your children for money, right? In fact, I have a son, but I have never thought about asking for money for my son in the future, because I know the truth of the saying "No one can guarantee what the future will be like." It's better to rely on yourself.

Facts have proved that my approach of preparing for a rainy day was very correct. If I had lived my life in the "drunk now" way, it would be hard for me to imagine. What will life be like now?

Ten years ago, I officially retired from my work. My original plan after retirement was to take my wife back to my hometown in the countryside, and then live the pastoral life that everyone envied. This is what my wife and I have been doing for a long time. a long-cherished wish.

After all, my wife and I lived in our hometown in the countryside for more than ten years. After that, we went to work and live in big cities, and we also settled in big cities. We were usually busy with work and Family, then we basically never go back to our hometown in the countryside. Now that we have this condition, we will definitely live in our hometown in the countryside.

But at this time, my son and daughter-in-law insisted on blocking our way, and then asked us to live with them in the future. The reason of my son and daughter-in-law at that time was that if my wife and I lived with them, they would not be able to live with them in the future. Can take good care of us.

These words of my son and daughter-in-law moved my wife and I very much, so later on, we changed our previous plan and came to live with our son and daughter-in-law. But when we actually arrived at their home, we Discovered the truth of the whole thing.

It turns out that since the two of us arrived at the home of my daughter-in-law and son, they have left all the housework to my wife and me. They even asked my wife and me to wash the underwear they usually change. I don't know what they both think, it's really shameless.

Not to mention, my son and daughter-in-law always ask my wife and I for money from time to time, ranging from tens to hundreds or thousands. I don’t even know that they spend all their normal wages. Where did they go? Anyway, they both always said in front of my wife and me that they had no money.

To this day, I still clearly remember that one time, my son said just the day before yesterday that he had just received a salary of 7,000 yuan, but the next day he said that he had no money at all, and then asked me to take 2,000 yuan with him. Yuan, he wanted to pay living expenses for his daughter. Seeing his pitiful look, I believed him. Later I realized that it was not that my son had no money, but that he didn’t want to spend his own money, so he wanted to spend mine.

Originally, my wife and I couldn't bear our daughter-in-law's disgraceful behavior. We wanted to leave as soon as possible, but every time we said we wanted to leave, my daughter-in-law and son burst into tears. No matter what, we were not allowed to leave. My wife and I softened our hearts, so we had no choice but to stay.

Until three years ago, my wife and I went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables. My husband suddenly clutched his chest and screamed in pain. I immediately sent my husband to the hospital for treatment. But two days later, my My wife still passed away.

After taking care of my wife’s funeral in my hometown, I said I would never go to my son and daughter-in-law’s house. I just wanted to stay in my current city life because I didn’t want my son and daughter-in-law to continue plotting against me. At that time, my son Although the daughter-in-law was reluctant, they finally agreed.

When I first started, I was very happy in my heart. I felt that good days were coming for me in the future. I could live however I wanted in the future, and I no longer had to worry about others plotting against me. But this time This situation only lasted for a year, and I couldn't stand it anymore.

The main reason is that this kind of living alone makes me feel very lonely. It is very difficult for me to find someone to talk to. The most important thing is that since I lost my wife, I have made my home a mess. To be serious, this place doesn't look like home at all. It's almost like a pig's nest.

Later, I really couldn't stand it anymore, so I decided to hire a nanny to take care of myself in my later years. Then housekeeping company sent me a 43-year-old female nanny at my request. I call her Xiaoxia.

When Xiaoxia first came to my house, I was quite satisfied with her performance. Her cooking was very suitable for my taste, and she could basically do all kinds of housework. The key is that she was very professional when working. She is meticulous and never cheats, so what satisfies me most about her is that as long as she finishes the housework, she will choose to talk and chat with me.

Therefore, over time, I gradually treated Xiaoxia as my own relative. In addition to taking the initiative to give her a salary increase, I would also tell Xiaoxia about my various housework matters. Listen, when Xiaoxia learned that her son and daughter-in-law had plotted against me, she was very angry and kept comforting me. This sincerely made me feel that Xiaoxia is a good nanny with a very sense of justice.

But what I never expected was that most of the time it was all an illusion, because from then on, Xiaoxia’s every move made me clearly feel that she had some interest in me, but I Then I thought again, this is absolutely impossible, I am old enough to be her grandfather, how could Xiaoxia fall in love with me? So I didn't take it to heart.

But later, what Xiaoxia did made me feel very embarrassed. When I usually go out, she insists on holding my arm. I ask her to let go, but she refuses. Sometimes I want to take a rest. , but she insisted on letting me chat with her. I originally wanted to point things out directly, but in the end I chose to tolerate it.

Until one day, Xiaoxia said to me: "Brother Wei, you and I are single now. If you don't dislike me, why don't we start a family? I promise you, I will definitely do well in the future. You can rest assured about this, what do you think? "

I don't even know what Xiaoxia is thinking? Because if she really wants to get married, she can’t find any kind of man just because she’s in her forties. But now she just likes me, a seventy-year-old man. If she hadn’t fallen in love with my hand As for the money in it, I really don’t know what she likes about me?

But I’m not stupid, how could I be fooled by her? So, I immediately rejected her request and said to her: "I am old, but not old and confused. Why do you want to start a family with me because I don't know? You just care about it." I only want to be with you because of the money in my hand. If I had no money, would you choose me? Stop wishing. I will pay your salary today. Leave me immediately. I don’t want to see you again. to you. "

Maybe Xiaoxia knew that her conspiracy had been exposed by me. She didn't say a word. After I paid her salary, she immediately left in despair. Later, I found another one. Nanny, and this nanny is really good. So far, she has never made any excessive demands to me. She just works as my nanny wholeheartedly. I am very satisfied.

is written at the end

What Uncle Wei did is very correct, and at the same time he is also very lucky. If during this process, his brain got hot or he was impulsive and easily agreed to the other party's request, then I believe , Nowadays, Uncle Wei's intestines must be full of regrets. This is beyond doubt. It can be seen from this that in the future, when our elderly people hire nannies, no matter how the nanny is, the first thing to do is to That is, our elderly must always stick to their bottom line and principles, especially when faced with various temptations, they must know how to refuse.

At the same time, I also hope that the nannies we have, when providing nanny services to other elderly people in the future, in addition to doing their best and fulfilling their duties, must not have any other messy things towards the elderly employers. Ideas, let alone any unrealistic intentions. If a nanny wants to live a good life, she must rely on her own hard-working hands to create. We must not just think about taking shortcuts. Once we do this, not only will our goals not be achieved, , on the contrary, more often than not, he is just humiliating himself. If it is more serious, he may not even be able to be a nanny.