Don't torture yourself for anyone or anything
For example, not eating, crying, being autistic, and being depressed, these are all things that fools do. Of course, it's necessary to be stupid occasionally, and you don't have to be smart all the time in life. Learn to bear the pain. Some words are suitable to rot in the heart, and some painful words are suitable to be forgotten silently. When you grow up after experiencing it, you just know it. Many changes don’t need to be said by others, others will see them.
Strength is often something that is forced out.
When you have no backing and are often hurt, the only thing you can do is, of course, be strong. This is called the ability to withstand attacks. And those who have someone to rely on can find a shoulder to cry on after being injured. Those with background can stab them back after being injured. People really have other ways to escape, but ghosts have to be strong. Who doesn’t want to cry on a loved one’s shoulder after exhaustion? The key is to have it.
Only when a woman can be separated from a man can she be calm, elegant and confident
A woman's happiness starts from being separated from a man. If a man treats you badly, if you don't leave him, you will have to endure it. If you can't bear it, you will have to die, because you have no other way out and you can't live without him. A happy woman is not a woman who never falls in love in her life, but a woman who still lives a wonderful life after falling out of love and the next love will still be sweet.
You can not be beautiful, but you cannot be without taste
Women can not be without high education, but they cannot be without knowledge; Women can be without money, but they cannot be without self-esteem; Women can be without strength, but they cannot be without kindness; Women can be without authority, but they cannot be without it. Moral cultivation; only women who know how to constantly correct and improve themselves can grow old gracefully. "Tea is also intoxicating, so why drink wine? Books can be fragrant, so I don't need flowers."
In the world of love, no one is nobler than anyone else.
If you are unhappy, please don't frown, keep smiling, because someone is falling in love with your smile. To the world, you are one person; but to me, you are my world.
Don't care what others think about you behind your back.
These words cannot change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. If the mind is in chaos, everything will be in chaos. People who understand you don't need explanation; people who don't understand you don't deserve your explanation. The most valuable thing about people is their atmosphere. You must learn to say to yourself, if you can be satisfied by saying this, I am willing to accept it. And please believe that people who really understand you will never deny you because of what you have or don’t have.
Even if you are busy, you have to take time to study, and if you have little money, you still have to travel far away
It doesn’t mean that you call yourself “literary” and you are refined, nor does it mean that you laugh at yourself as a “diaosi” and you feel at ease in the market, nor does it mean that you can live in a high place by going to Tibet. . If you want to own those colorful luxuries and live a leisurely life with fine clothes and fine food, you must first remember to work hard. The hard work is directly proportional to the reward, and the higher the pursuit, the more cruel the process, so you may not be able to achieve your wish if you have money.
You must have requirements for yourself
When it’s time to break up, sometimes you have to choose to break up, break off the relationship, resign, leave, etc. Even if you regret it afterwards, you have to swallow it alive. You must know that the dignity of life will always be in the future. days, I will give you more generous rewards. While taking yourself seriously, you should also take others seriously, otherwise you will encounter problems everywhere and have difficulty every step of the way. When you have no money, you should spend some money appropriately for others in your circle, and when you have money, you must spend enough money for yourself.
A woman's life is actually indispensable for struggle.
You always have to gain a little and then give up a little. After giving up, you will have a richer life. Without struggle, you will not understand, even if it hurts so much that you cannot say it. When you are tired, hurt, or miserable, even if you are desperate, you can cry secretly behind closed doors. You are definitely not the unluckiest one. You grit your teeth and say nothing to anyone and try not to cause trouble to your friends. We all need to learn to grow up slowly after all.
Being able to feel pain without saying anything and laughing without saying anything
This is the "ruthless character" among women. Such a state is obtained through cultivation of high standards and strict requirements for oneself, and can withstand the loneliness of the years. Only in exchange for a meeting of five hundred years.
Don't regret, even if you are wrong.
No matter what choice you make, it is the right choice. Please don't regret it. It is impossible to turn back time, and everyone must bear responsibility for everyone's faults. A mature person must know how to take responsibility for his own actions. Many times, what is missed can never be recovered. Don't give any hope to those you don't love. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Maybe you just like the feeling of being loved, but when disappointment comes, you may be disgusted by the other person because of your greed.
After breaking up, just be yourself
Love is a matter of two people. If you miss it, everyone is responsible. A person always has a new beginning, don't let the past tie you to the palace of sorrow. Don't say who you love most, life is still very long and no one can predict tomorrow. It's easy to get together and easy to part ways, everyone has their own frustrations. Living is not to miss yesterday, but to wait for hope. After crying, leave everything in yesterday and never touch it.
Sooner or later you have to get used to loneliness
No one will protect you as a treasure, no matter how difficult it is, you have to face it with a smile, even if it is just pretending. You have to learn to be ruthless towards people, get rid of those who should, and keep those who should, but you also have to learn to cherish. There are not many close friends anymore. Do you really want to be the only one left? Remember to forget and don't live in the past sadly. Don't be so willful and naive; you should live a beautiful life alone.
The more you care, the humbler you become
From now on, be smart and don’t ask others if they miss you or if they love you? If they want you or love you, they will naturally tell you, but when it comes from your mouth, others will Will be very proud and don't care about you. Don't care too much about some people or things, just let nature take its course and face it with the best attitude. The world is like this: we are often of least value in front of the things we care about most.
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