The friendship between the three of us is really fragile. Such an experience in junior high school caused me to undergo a lot of mental internal friction. It was very difficult for me to spend nearly half a year. Fortunately, I eventually adjusted back, but I never want to have such a nightmare again.
When I was in junior high school, a primary school classmate and I were in the same class and assigned to the same dormitory. We went to school together every day, made meals, and talked about everything. Later, a transfer student came to our class and moved to our dormitory. Out of good intentions, I cared about her and introduced them to each other. As a result, after they gradually became familiar with each other, they left me behind.
's personal experience is that I can chat with the other two, but as long as the three of us chat together, I know that nothing will happen to me. Their tacit understanding makes me unable to get in the middle of the conversation. I always feel that the two of them are more in tune. Better than me. It's the kind of scene where two people are playing around and the other person is pretending to smile. I think that can avoid embarrassment, but I really feel uncomfortable.
The three of us live in the same dormitory. If the two of them clean up, they will never wait for me. Sometimes they would go without asking me when we were eating. The more times they did, I would feel very uncomfortable and wonder if I had done something wrong.
The two of them talk about everything. They discuss everything first and then tell me. In the group chat too, I was often ignored when I spoke, but the two of them had a great time chatting.
It was raining, and there was only one umbrella. The two of them covered it, and I pretended to walk slowly. I thought they would wait for me, but unfortunately I was wrong. This feeling is really uncomfortable.
There are many, many little things. Anyway, I don’t know why, if there are three people, I am always the one left alone.
I always thought it was because I was sensitive, but I just felt uncomfortable and kept telling myself not to take it to heart. The result finally broke out one day.
When we traveled together during the summer vacation, we had two rooms for three of us, one for her and one for me. The next day, when I got up, they had already set off to see the scenic spots. When we met again, he said he wanted to leave first so as not to disturb my rest. I stayed alone in the hotel, feeling left out and feeling an indescribable loneliness.
later? I suddenly became angry and checked out and went back. Then there is no more. When I saw these two people again later, I was very disgusted. Is it love that leads to hatred? ? Probably, even now I still can't get over my disgust for them.
would like to ask if you have ever had such an experience? What would you do if you encountered this situation? Am I being too sensitive? Do you think the friendship between three people will be crowded?