In a family, the one who works is always the one who works, and the one who can talk is always the one who doesn't work. A best friend got angry with her husband during the Spring Festival and almost got divorced. Just like this, no one paid attention to anyone for several months

In a family, the one who works is always the one who works, and the one who can speak well is always the one who doesn't work.
A best friend got angry with her husband during the Spring Festival and almost got divorced. Just like this, no one paid attention to anyone for several months.

My best friend’s husband is the second eldest child in the family. He has an older brother and a younger sister. My brother and sister-in-law are the kind of people who don't worry about anything. Whenever they come to my mother-in-law's house, they just eat with their mouths. However, my sister-in-law is a clever talker and is very good at talking. She makes the old man smile every time. My sister is married away from home, and her husband is a leader. He comes back to visit the old man during the holidays. When he returns to his parents' home, he is a guest, so naturally he doesn't have to work.

So the job of cooking during the holidays fell to my best friend. Both her best friend and her husband are very worried people. Although they don’t live with the old man, they usually take care of the old man’s headaches and fever. The two elderly people are both over 80 years old. The bungalow they live in does not have a heater in the winter. In the summer, my best friend ran around trying to find a way to retrofit the heater for the old man. Because she burned the heater herself, her best friend’s husband burned it every morning and evening. Once I went to collect coal for the old man to burn the stove. Stop by to see what the elderly need.

My husband works far away. He goes to work in the morning and comes back in the evening. If the old man needs anything, his best friend usually takes care of it. Small things like buying groceries and medicines are all bought and delivered by his best friend. To say that my best friend is really kind-hearted, when she gave birth to the child, her mother-in-law still disliked her for giving birth to a girl and always looked down upon her daughter. When my daughter went to college, the old man didn't even give her anything. And for everything she did for the old man, she felt that it was natural.

It was the same during the Spring Festival. She bought all kinds of vegetables, fruits, chicken, duck, and fish in advance. On New Year's Eve, she went to her mother-in-law's house early and started all kinds of busy work. In the afternoon, she prepared a large table of dishes. When it was served, the eldest brother and sister-in-law arrived belatedly. After entering the house, the sister-in-law started to interact with her mother-in-law affectionately: "Mom, look, I bought you a dress, come and try it on..."

finally finished the interaction and started to eat. Everyone came up The table was closed, and the sister-in-law was busy getting water and a bowl for the old man. The mother-in-law said with a smile: Wife, stop being busy and sit down quickly. My best friend was still serving food on the table at this time. When she heard this, she became a little unhappy and said casually: "Mom, I'm tired of bringing you tea and water. I've been doing this all day." I didn't say I was tired." My mother-in-law's face suddenly dropped. Doesn't your sister-in-law come here often? Buy something for me and your dad as soon as you come here.

My best friend was not happy when she heard this. I didn’t buy clothes for you, my second wife, but I bought these vegetables and meat. Isn’t this money? My best friend’s husband quickly said: Okay, okay, it’s Chinese New Year, what are you talking about?

My best friend had been tired for a day, but before she got ready, she got angry and went home without eating. When her husband came home in the evening, instead of comforting her, he got angry at her, saying that she didn't care about the overall situation and didn't even have a good meal on New Year's Eve. Finally, even the words of divorce were spoken.

My best friend is really heartbroken. The worry and hard work all year round is not as good as a few kind words from others. My husband still doesn’t understand me. I had a cold war with my husband for a long time, and I didn’t go to my mother-in-law’s house for a long time.

After hearing what my best friend said, I feel the same way.

Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. In a family, the most filial child should not be the one who suffers the most.