Including some wedding expenses, we paid for them ourselves, without any money from my parents-in-law.
is just the same as our RV and .
"Every day you wait for me to do it, and every day you look at me alone. I have to do everything." These are the exact words of my father-in-law. I held the child in my arms to coax her to sleep, and my mother-in-law had not come home yet.
After I heard it, I didn’t say anything!
After I went out, my father-in-law saw me and said, "Your mother hasn't come back yet. It's like this every day, waiting for me to do everything."
I just glanced at her and said nothing.
I spend more time at my husband's house this year. I used to stay outside, but I was worried about safety, so I took my children with me at my hometown.
I don't like to talk, I like to be quiet, and I don't like people coming to my room. I always feel a little irritated when people come to my room.
During the six months I spent with my parents-in-law, I realized a lot of things about marriage.
My mother-in-law works outside as long as she has time and does not eat at home.
So the home is hygienic and my mother-in-law rarely has sticky hands.
In the beginning, I took the initiative to clean, but later I found that they seemed to be used to me cleaning, so much so that they didn’t care if I didn’t do anything.
I also feel a little bit about their understanding, so I no longer do what I did before, but clean as I please.
Slowly, I found that there were more and more quarrels between my parents-in-law, but I seemed to be ruthless after all, and I would not interfere in their affairs.
has nothing to do with me.
My mother-in-law no longer eats at home, so only my father-in-law, the child and I eat at home.
I slept until 8 o'clock, then I would get up and cook the rice, and at noon I would cook again (not very good at it)
This situation must have lasted for more than a month!
I found that this kind of work and rest time has almost become a part of my body.
Every time I cook, my father-in-law is never at home. When my children and I eat, my father-in-law goes home immediately.
may be a coincidence!
I don't care either.
Later I discovered that my father-in-law also got up around 8 o'clock, but he could not cook the rice well. Instead, he cooked some noodles first, and then left without washing the pots and bowls.
When I arrived in the kitchen, the messy sink made me a little angry.
So I didn’t cook that day, maybe I was a little angry!
My children and I had breakfast and bought some noodles, so we didn’t cook for lunch.
My father-in-law was a little surprised when he came back. It seemed that he didn't expect that I didn't cook the rice or stir-fry the vegetables.
Afterwards, my parents-in-law and I had different meal times.
They had breakfast first, and the children and I ate last. We eat dinner first, then my parents-in-law.
I always clean up the kitchen when I eat, but my parents-in-law don’t do this.
So much so that when I have lunch now, the bowls in the sink are always the unwashed bowls they ate from the night before and this morning.
At the beginning, I couldn’t stand it anymore, so I cleaned it up every day, every day.
Later, I finally couldn't stand it anymore.
Because I don’t understand. I have eaten and cleaned everything up. Why is it that after you have eaten, the kitchen feels like a war? Why should I pay for your actions?
Simply, I don’t care, they can do whatever they like!
As a result, I heard my parents-in-law arguing more and more every night, and the words became more and more unpleasant.
But, I don’t care.
So, every day when I stay in my hometown, I feel depressed. I don’t know what to say.
If I did everything, I would still be unhappy, so I might as well not do it. It doesn’t seem to be a good idea.
Later, I thought clearly, why should I please my parents-in-law?
They already behave like that, don't they? It’s not like that, let me clean it up for them!
Let me just say one thing now: Whoever caused the mess will clean it up themselves.
Don’t say I used anything from them, I didn’t use anything from them.
They don’t want to take care of the children, and they don’t want to pay for it.
is fine just like this, each living his or her own life without disturbing each other.
It’s not like I haven’t said this before, and it’s not like I haven’t dealt with it before, but is it useful?
I cleaned it up, do you appreciate it? Maybe you still think this is what I should do?
is now broken.
I’m also very surprised about the child’s problem.
When the children were a few months old, I told them that they didn’t need to take care of them, and they also said that they didn’t have time to take care of them, which was exactly what I wanted.
is so cool!
Now that the children are older, do you have time?
As long as the children play with me, my father-in-law will hold the dog and entertain the children.
I am confused.
When the child is older, it’s time for her to run away. Doesn’t she have less time? Why do you have time now? Can't
implement it throughout without time?
Forget it, when I educate my children, you can't interfere! How about
! Do you still want to be my master?
I will not give in, not even to death.
I won’t try to please my parents-in-law, so why should I wrong myself by trying to please others?
If you feel wronged, you feel wronged. Do others care about you?
The answer is definitely no.
So, do whatever you want.
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