From the beginning of the story, I guessed that there was a huge secret hidden in Tang Xiaoying, but I never expected that this secret would be so big.
Because of her matter, Gu Nian, Song Jiacheng, Fang Xu, and Ye Qinqin were all involved.
Frankly speaking, before Tang Xiaoying's incident came out, I still hoped that Gu Nian and Song Jiacheng could reconcile, and that they could get along well with each other even if they didn't remarry.
Although Song Jiacheng betrayed the marriage, in life, they have children, and in work, they can cooperate perfectly. When these two people come together, they can definitely produce the effect of one plus one being greater than two.
As for the second one, it’s because of Luo Xi’s incident. I always felt that someone else designed him, and it was not his original intention.
However, when Tang Xiaoying's incident came to light, I realized that I had a high regard for Song Jiacheng. Even if Luo Xi's incident was framed by someone else, Tang Xiaoying's incident cannot be justified no matter what.
I always feel that such a plot setting may be to make Gu Nian and Song Jiacheng completely break up, and the relationship with Fengsheng may not start.
After all, in the previous story, just because Song Jiacheng put clothes on Song Jiacheng, Fengsheng was sour and jealous, and the relationship between the two was suspended.
However, Tang Xiaoying stole not only other people's happiness, but also other people's lives.
Because back then, she took Ye Qinqin's name and went to college. Over the years, Ye Qinqin has been living with doubts about herself. If Fang Xu hadn't accidentally revealed the matter, maybe Tang Xiaoying wouldn't have known it at all. Won't admit it. Not only would
not admit it, he would even continue to work honorably in the law firm under Ye Qinqin’s name.
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To be honest, I have never been willing to accept the forced happy ending.
How much compensation Tang Xiaoying should pay to Ye Qinqin and how long he should be imprisoned are all decided by the law, and it is not up to us to comment.
Although emotionally, we very much hope that Tang Xiaoying will lose everything in compensation, but reason cannot replace legal principles. I am not surprised at all that Ye Qinqin's claim for three million yuan was unsuccessful.
However, I really can't accept Ye Qinqin's forgiveness of Tang Xiaoying.
If I were myself, from Ye Qinqin’s point of view, I might accept the court’s decision and not pursue the matter anymore, but I would not be able to shake hands with Tang Xiaoying and make peace no matter what. .
Maybe Tang Xiaoying really repented, and she really wanted to repent, but no matter how much money she paid or how much she apologized, she could not make up for the damage she caused to Ye Qinqin. Her stolen life was There is no way to come back no matter what.
During the court debate, Ye Qinqin was willing to accept mediation because Gu Nian mentioned her child and believed that she was living a happy life now and there was no need to argue with Tang Xiaoying.
Admittedly, as a lawyer, it is okay for Gu Nian to play the emotional card like this. The fact that she was able to endure the pain of being deceived and help Tang Xiaoying fight this lawsuit proves that she is an excellent lawyer.
However, this is not the reason for our forgiveness. As the text on the Internet says -
you stole my identity, which is not only illegal, but also unethical. As for whether you benefit from this, it has nothing to do with me! After all, this doesn’t reduce my losses! Although my life cannot be measured by whether I go to college or not, your actions have interfered with the possibilities that should have been mine!
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Of course, Fang Xu's attitude on this matter is also very puzzling.
It was precisely because of his persistence that Tang Xiaoying's identity was discovered.
Maybe it’s because he likes the filter, so no matter what happened to Tang Xiaoying, even if she stole other people’s lives, even if she knew the truth, his feelings for Tang Xiaoying never seemed to change. Pass.
The amazing thing is that when Fang Xu learned that Tang Xiaoying had been Song Jiachen's third party, he just complained to Tang Xiaoying. When Tang Xiaoying asked for reconciliation, Fang Xu was as happy as in a dream.
Even Tang Xiaoying felt sorry for her deep love for him, but Fang Xu forgave her and imagined a bright future.
Although I don’t know where Tang Xiaoying went after staying at Fang Xu’s house for a night, I always feel that many more stories will happen to her, and she may even be involved in the conflict between Song Jiacheng and Gu Nian. . Just like Luo Xi back then, after Gu Nian found her, she still stood up to testify.
In my intuition, by the time the story ends, Tang Xiaoying and Fang Xu will most likely achieve success.
Some people say that this matter cannot be entirely blamed on Tang Xiaoying. After all, her father was running everything about replacing Ye Qinqin in college, and she was just passively enjoying the results.
I don't quite agree with this statement -
When she was in college, Tang Xiaoying studied law. She should know best what consequences such things will bring and what kind of culpability she will bear. After
started working, she worked in a law firm and met all kinds of people. It was impossible for her not to know how hard it was for a person whose life was stolen.
Even if she is not the instigator, she still has a vested interest.
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When I saw this, I couldn't help but think of Wan Chuanmei and Wang Xiuyu in "Happiness to Ten Thousand Homes".
also had his life stolen, and Wang Xiuyu seemed to be stronger than Ye Qinqin.
First of all, in "Happiness to Ten Thousand Family", although Wan Chuanmei is a villain, he is stronger than Tang Xiaoying's family. Ever since Wan Chuanmei replaced Wang Xiuyu in college, he has been making up for Wang Xiuyu in his own way. , whether it is arranging work for Wang Xiuyu in the group or protecting Wang Xiuyu in front of and behind others, it can be proved that he still has some guilt in his heart.
Secondly, in "Happiness to Ten Thousands of Homes", Wang Xiuyu also works harder than Ye Qinqin. Although she did not go to college, Wang Xiuyu did not admit defeat. She has been studying for the accounting certificate by herself. Although she still failed, I think, she Life still has infinite possibilities.
The third and most important point is that at the end of the story, Wang Xiuyu was auditing at the university, and life has infinite possibilities.
Looking back at Tang Xiaoying, the Tang family has never shown any apology for so many years. If Fang Xu hadn't been so "meddlesome", Ye Qinqin might never have gotten the justice he wanted, and even this matter would have been buried forever.
Moreover, Ye Qinqin already had a child at this time. Although her life still has unlimited possibilities, as a single mother, every step she takes in the future will be particularly difficult (This is somewhat inconsistent. In the first half of the chapter , Tang Xiaoying's classmates said Ye Qinqin was divorced, but later during the court hearing, they said she had a happy family).
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It's a bit ridiculous to think about it. Ye Qinqin was the biggest victim in the whole thing, but because of the choice of perspective, we always feel as if in this matter, what everyone has been emphasizing is not How much hurt Ye Qinqin suffered, but how difficult it was for Tang Xiaoying.
Some lines in the drama even make us feel that it is precisely because Tang Xiaoying stole Ye Qinqin's life that Ye Qinqin can have such a happy life.
Of course, if this story were told from Ye Qinqin’s perspective, maybe the story would look different.
It is true that there is too much helplessness in the adult world, especially in "The War of the Roses".
gave a rough overview. In most of the cases in the story, the parties involved chose to withdraw the lawsuit and settle out of court in order to get more compensation. After all, for most of us ordinary people, compared to the so-called claims, getting it in our hands is The real money is real.
But in my understanding, reconciliation is one thing and forgiveness is another.
chose to reconcile, but we don’t want to pursue it anymore, but it is impossible to continue being friends with Ye Qinqin and Tang Xiaoying back to the beginning.
Of course, I believe there are people in this world who can do it without any grudges, but I can't.
If it were me, I wouldn't pursue it any further, but in the rest of our lives, we would have no contact and just not disturb each other.
Because the hurt of having your life stolen is, after all, a knot that there is no way to get over.
Many years later, when we meet again, maybe we can still smile and say hello, but that's all. As for continuing to be friends, it is absolutely impossible. Unless, the other party can give me back the life that was stolen from me.
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