Zhu Jian is 37 years old. He has moved to live with relatives since his mother passed away. His father has almost never taken care of him, let alone paid for his expenses and tuition.
Therefore, after Zhu Jian grew up in a relative's home, he did not take the initiative to contact his father, who had been remarried for many years. Even if the two occasionally met on the streets of his hometown, they would not say hello. To outsiders, the two of them seemed like strangers.
originally thought that he would never have any interaction with his father. Unexpectedly, after his father fell ill, he started to contact Zhu Jian frequently. He hoped that Zhu Jian could visit him more often.
Thinking of his childhood experience, Zhu Jian rejected his father's request again and again. Even if his relatives came forward to persuade him, Zhu Jian still refused to visit his father and refused to admit that he had such a father!
In 2022, his father underwent multiple treatments in the hospital for pancreatic cancer. During this period, he kept trying to contact Zhu Jian. In addition to wanting to see Zhu Jian, he also wanted Zhu Jian to help take care of his affairs.
Faced with this request from his father, will Zhu Jian choose to agree? Will he finally follow the advice of his relatives and visit his father?
His father remarried less than two years after his mother passed away. As a result, his 10-year-old son was abandoned by his father!
His mother died of illness when Zhu Jian was ten years old. Zhu Jian heard about his father's remarriage after living at his grandparents' house for half a year. Zhu Jian didn't understand the significance of this at first, until his father shied away from the responsibility of raising Zhu Jian!
's father remarried two years after Zhu Jian's mother passed away. Because his stepmother was not willing to let Zhu Jian live with them, Zhu Jian has been living at his grandparents' house. Later, his grandparents went to Zhu Jian's uncle to take care of him. As a result, Jian began to live in the homes of three relatives.
Although Zhu Jian's father ignored him, his uncle, third uncle and aunt negotiated the issue of Zhu Jian's upbringing. According to the relatives' negotiation, Zhu Jian's living expenses until he became an adult were shared by his uncle, third uncle and aunt. With the help of his own ability, as for Zhu Jian's residence, he took turns living in the homes of three relatives.
In fact, the uncle and third uncle did not welcome Zhu Jian to live in their home. It was only because the grandparents insisted on raising Zhu Jian that the three relatives agreed to accept Zhu Jian.
Maybe Zhu Jian didn’t want to disturb his relatives too much, or maybe he wanted to start working in society early. When he just turned 17, he went to work in another place.
He met his father many times during the years when he lived with relatives. At first, he would come up to say hello to his father, but as time went by, he gradually stopped talking to his father. His father did not express any opinions on this matter, nor did he think about easing the relationship with Zhu Jian.
According to Zhu Jian’s uncle, since Zhu Jian’s father remarried, he has rarely been involved in Zhu Jian’s affairs, has never paid Zhu Jian’s alimony to them, and has never thought of taking Zhu Jian home. raise.
’s father’s experiences over the years!
After his father left Zhu Jian and remarried, he gave birth to a son and a daughter. Later, because Zhu Jian's father divorced his second wife, the two children were also taken away by his second wife.
Since the two children have lived with their mother since they were young, their father rarely interferes in their lives. After many years, the two children rarely interact with their father. They only see each other during holidays.
In 2008, Zhu Jian's father went to Guangdong to work and rarely returned to his hometown again. It was not until 2016 that he returned to his hometown to settle down.
When he was young, he ignored his children. As a result, Zhu Jian had no interaction with his children when he was old. He once thought about easing the relationship with his children, but none of his three children were willing to have too much contact with Zhu Jian, especially his eldest son. Zhu Jian!
In 2017, Zhu Jian returned to his hometown to work. When he lived at his uncle's house, he saw his father many times, but he never said a word to his father. His father asked him many questions, but Zhu Jian didn't answer any of them. left the scene.Relatives all knew Zhu Jian's experience. Seeing that he was unwilling to talk to his father, the relatives didn't say much at first!
Zhu Jian's father was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in January 2022. During his treatment in the hospital, his father frequently contacted Zhu Jian to visit him, but Zhu Jian agreed to this request.
In order for Zhu Jian to visit him, his father entrusted relatives to bring a lot of words to Zhu Jian, and even asked relatives to come forward to persuade Zhu Jian.
Faced with everyone's persuasion, Zhu Jian not only expressed his refusal time and time again, but also said in public that he would not recognize this father. Later, when his relatives saw his resolute attitude, they never mentioned the matter again.
On July 25, 2022, Zhu Jian's father called again. After informing Zhu Jian that he was seriously ill, he made two requests. The first request was that he hoped Zhu Jian would visit him once. The second request is that Zhu Jian can help him take care of his affairs in the future.
After their relatives learned about Zhu Jian's father's condition, they persuaded Zhu Jian to visit his father. Faced with the relatives' persuasion, Zhu Jian finally made a decision after careful consideration. He entrusted his relatives to take care of his father on August 9. After paying 20,000 yuan, I changed my contact information.
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