Readers wrote as follows:
My first girlfriend and I have been in a relationship since the second grade of junior high school. We were classmates in high school and university.
In fact, I had better academic performance than my first girlfriend. I could have gone to a better school for college, but in order to be with my first girlfriend and take care of her, I chose to compromise. After graduating from college, we took the civil service exam together in the city where we grew up.
Originally thought that our marriage was a certainty, but unexpectedly, our relationship ended up losing to a house and a gift of 300,000 yuan.
It wasn’t until my first girlfriend got married to a local young man that I passively gave up on this relationship.
Two years later, I met my wife through the introduction of a relative. After dating for half a year, we got married.
To be honest, there are two reasons why I married my wife: to give an explanation to my parents and to reproduce.
What I didn't expect was that after I got married to my wife, I didn't have to be a dog licker, and the two of us got along very well during our relationship. This can be considered an unexpected surprise.
Muzi Li Emotional Analysis:
I believe that for many people, before getting married, they have met someone who they cannot love. At that time, people will feel that there is no happiness in finding a suitable person to marry. Word.
said a relatively simple truth: We have no choice about our parents or our children.
Even if the parents are not good-looking, or the children are not good-looking, in our hearts, they are the closest people to them.
Because when we choose a marriage partner, we will set a framework for ourselves in advance. When our marriage partner is not our ideal type, we will rigidly feel that we are getting married just for the sake of marriage.
still feels that as long as the relationship between two people is heart-to-heart, it will eventually lead to family affection. How can this family love be compared to love that cannot be achieved?
Before you met your wife, you had always mistakenly believed that in your life, except for your first girlfriend, you could no longer hold any other woman in your heart. Even if you got married, it was just to give an explanation to your parents or to have children.
The reality tells you: time will make you indifferent to the person you love but at the same time, it will also make you more and more dependent on the person who accompanies you for daily necessities.
There is no need for us to deny love for someone who has failed us.
We must learn to be kind to the person who holds hands with us in marriage and gives us the minimum companionship.
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