Slow heat, it’s just more affectionate than you think

One.

What should I do if the slow heat is not attractive?

My girlfriend was searching for similar content on her mobile phone while asking me.

I know that she has always disliked her slow personality, because people often think she is not easy to get along with.

I said, "Isn't slow heating also good?"

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In the summer of more than 30 degrees, ice should be a favorite thing, but I am a little worried when I hear adjectives like her.

In interpersonal relationships, anyone likes that the relationship with each other is the same as boiling water. No one likes to use ice to boil water.

Although there is a hot heart hidden in the ice,But because the package is too tight, everyone's view of the slow-heating person stops at the surface.

This is why when I took my girlfriend to meet my friends for the first time, my friends told me in private,

is that you don’t like your girlfriend to talk to. People

have a straight face, as if someone owes her money.

Although I disagree with friends, the first impression of a girlfriend is really easy to think.

Because I couldn't find my sense of belonging among the crowd, in order to hide my embarrassment, and to make myself look natural, I tried to disguise myself as an indifferent look.

And this kind of personality is often easy to be put on a bad label, high cold.

two.

fact, even friends do not say,At the beginning, I didn't suffer from the slow-heating of the opponent.

It took several months to recognize the familiarity alone, and after a period of ambiguity, when the time was ripe, the confession was rejected.

"I haven't figured it out yet, it will take some time."

I understand that it will take more time for the girls who are slow and hot again after a month. When asked, the other party gave the same refusal.

The continuous refusal of confession caused me to hesitate whether to continue the relationship, and my friends also came to persuade myself to forget it.

Let’s change it. Slow-hot girls can’t afford to wait.

If you don’t like it, you don’t like it. Why should I take so much time to think about it?

I heard such a voice among the opposition of many friends:

span is not ready yet, 3spanSlow heat is only because she wants to have a long, long relationship. "

I was a little surprised. I insisted till the end and finally waited. After the accident, I was a little grateful. It is the third year that the two people have been together. Whenever I feel I can’t make it, it’s each other. I walked down firmly with myself.

Apart from feelings, I have always envied the friendship of my girlfriend.

I am the one who walks faster in human relations. People, of course, when I get along with people, the relationship will quickly heat up, but the relationship that comes too fast will disappear after a period of time without contact.

Some of my girlfriend’s friends though I haven’t contacted for a long time. When we met again, the two sides were still as good as before, and the words did not seem embarrassing because of the time.

I didn’t say anything on the surface, but I had to admit that I was a bit sour in my heart. .

three.

retrospect,A person's heat is only a little slower in a relationship.

But it is because of the slow walking that it can go longer.

It takes time to build trust in friendship, and time to build a sense of security in relationships. After peeling off the ice surface of the other party, you will find that the other party actually has a warm heart.

I read a sentence on the Internet before: People who are slow and hot are long in love.

In fact, whether in relationship or friendship, it is a long-term and stable relationship with each other.

You feel that the other person is cold, just because you haven't seen the other person sand sculptures in front of your friends.

I feel that the other person is walking slowly in the relationship, just because the other person can walk very far with you in this relationship.

surface is not easy to get along with,After all, it's just that the other party is far more affectionate than he thought.

Back to the girlfriend’s first question: "What should I do if the slow heat is not attractive?" Which personality is normal."

Because the important thing is not that you are not good enough, but that you have not noticed your own goodness.

Slow heating means that it will be hot for a long, long time.

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