40-year-old single mother, owes more than two million in debt, am I doing this right?

Originally, I had an enviable marriage. I always publicized a construction company with two children. The annual profit of the company was about 10 million yuan. I didn’t care about the company’s business. I didn’t know the economic situation of the company. . I just take care of the children, and even my husband’s affairs rarely worry me. He hardly eats at home, his clothes are dirty and they are sent to the laundry. Tell him what is missing at home, and he asks people in the company to buy them and send them home. My parents-in-law and my mother-in-law are very spoiled at home. Every time I go there, I cook more than a dozen dishes, because the eldest sister in my family is in the catering industry, so there is no problem in cooking. I quit my job a long time ago because of such a good life, and live a carefree life. I never thought that life would change one day. I have no friends, and I am devoted to family husband and child, and I naively imagine many things. I really don't understand the evils in society. Everyone might have guessed the development of things. Like those old-fashioned stories, my husband didn’t like to go home anymore. When I first got married, my husband sometimes took me out to socialize, but later I couldn’t get away with my two children. Go out with him. In the past, my husband would miss me and my child after socializing, but later he came back later and later, sometimes he would not go home at all, and would not let me accompany him to any social occasions. Later, he simply didn't come home at night, and hooked up with the Fengchen woman in the entertainment venue. If he could explain these things by acting on the spot, there was one thing that caused us to have a complete quarrel. I found that the company accountant seemed to be reporting false accounts. I told my husband that he didn't care. After I paid attention, I realized that the two of them were likely to have deviant behaviors. I almost broke down and questioned my husband, but he refused to admit it, and I had no choice but to continue looking for evidence. After that, the quarrel became the only communication between us. I was exhausted physically and mentally, and even thought of divorce. However, looking at the two children, the daughter had just entered junior high school and the son was in the second grade. I couldn’t bear to leave the child behind. , But I don't have the ability to raise them. I secretly cried many times, feeling that I was a waste of money, I couldn't raise a child, and I couldn't raise myself. As my husband went home less and less frequently, we were both exhausted amid endless suspicions and quarrels, and the only little love we had was gone. One day in the winter of that year, the police suddenly took him away. Later I learned that he was tempted by a friend to take drugs. At that time, the money in the company was squandered. This incident is like a time bomb, detonating everything that I don’t know about, eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling,Raising a small three, messing with the company's accountant, until finally he got himself into the detention center. My husband found countless relationships at home. I don't know how much money was spent on him. After a while, he came out, and I officially filed for a divorce with him. He seemed very repentant, and said a lot of sorry for me and the child, but I didn't regret it at all, and suddenly felt that I had to leave him at that moment. He said that in order to make up for me and my children, he transferred the company under his name to me free of charge, so that I could have a source of income with my two children. Although the money in the company was spent by him, the company still has several contracts. The payment has not been recovered, and these few incomes are several million, which is enough for me to live in a few years. The company has an old relationship and can last for a long time, so that my children and I have financial resources. Naive, I really thought he was guilty, so I readily agreed to him. We went through all the formalities, and he left the local area. It is said that he went to join his sister who was doing business in another place. I found a few reliable employees to continue to run the company, but less than two months later, several waves of debtors came in the company, holding the IOU handwritten by the ex-husband, and some even covered the company’s Official seal, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, looking at a piece of paper, one by one fierce debt collector, I wanted to cry without tears, I asked them to find the ex-husband, but they said they could not contact him, they could only find The company, and some said that they found their ex-husband, and he said that all the debts were transferred to me along with the company. I felt five thunderstorms, oh my god, these debts add up to almost 5 million, what should I pay? I remembered that the company still had a few contract expired project payments. I asked two reliable employees to help me get it. After running for nearly a month, I had to return less than 300,000 yuan, and there were more than 2 million yuan for each other to use four sets. The house is paid for the project. Stupidly, I just learned that there are a lot of tricks in the project money. If you don’t have very strong people, you won’t be able to return the cash. Those houses are worth 1.5 million yuan in real value, but they are priced at two hundred yuan. Wan has paid me the debt. On the one hand, the creditor is endlessly asking for money, and on the other is the money that is not returned. I was plunged into infinite despair. I hated my ex-husband. I couldn't find him after looking for him countless times. I went to look for it. His family, apart from helping me pay the tuition for my child, buy clothes and shoes, his family doesn't care about anything else. The reason is that we are divorced. I once thought about it, but what about my child? I cannot add my misfortune to the child. After these things, I think that only oneself can help oneself. I asked someone to sell all top account ,It doesn't matter if the price is low. The most important thing is to get cash. I pay off all the money I owe to the individual. For the rest, I promise that all the money I earn from the company's future operations will be used to repay the debt. I originally planned to fight for two years to turn around, but it is really a blessing that will never come singly. The reality has dealt a heavy blow to me. The warehouse built by the company before, but the ex-husband was negligent in management. The warehouse suddenly collapsed after being delivered to use. Fortunately, no casualties were caused. The company became a defendant, and I needed to pay another compensation, and the company was cancelled. Business qualifications. I don't understand, why did God treat me this way? Am I not suffering enough? Reluctantly, I ended all the company’s business, dismissed employees, and sold the last of the company’s assets. In addition to repaying the debt, I was owed more than two million in debt. I was at a loss. I had to send my children to school every day, cook for them and wash clothes. My parents felt sorry for me and gave me living expenses. I knew, no matter what, my parents would not starve me and my children to death. However, it is impossible and impossible for my mother's family to help me pay those debts. To be honest, I have been out of society for a long time, and I don't have any skills. I don't know where to work or what I can do. The work and rest time of the two children are different. I have to take care of them, and almost no work unit can accept me. I used to live a life like Mrs. Kuo, and I never thought that one day I would fall here. Recalling the past, I suddenly remembered that I used to hire part-time housekeeping workers. I decided to try it too, at least to support myself and my children.

On a recruitment website, I posted information, and soon an employer called me, and I took some cleaning tools to the employer's house. Actually, my heart is still very sad. I wrapped myself tightly, only showing my eyes. I was afraid that acquaintances would recognize me, and I was even more afraid that I could not face other people. I was afraid of being watched. Just like that, I was very uneasy. Started my career in housekeeping.

The employer’s family is not too old, and the elderly in the family are old and need to be cleaned up. This family situation makes me more or less balanced in my heart. What I fear most now is to go to rich people’s houses. , That kind of psychological gap is very tormenting. The old man in the employer’s family is very easy-going and brought me drinks to wash the fruit. I hurriedly declined, thinking in my heart that I must take this job opportunity seriously.

is charged by the hour. I made 80 yuan for this order. I calculated that I spent 10 yuan to buy a vegetable, 10 yuan to buy meat, and two more apples, and the rest Save about fifty yuan to save up to repay the debt. This number sounds a bit ridiculous, two million and fifty, I have not calculated, which day will be paid off, I only know that I have to live, the child has to live, I can’t say that life is better than death, but I don’t think there is any. Hope. My heart is already numb. After finishing work, I stood on the side of the road and stared at the passing traffic. Maybe, I won’t be able to pay off my debts in my entire life. I don’t know where to go. My confusion and despair attack me from time to time, making me feel the darkness of my future. I have to grit my teeth and go on endlessly...

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