Six tips for the life of elderly couples

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2021-10-13

If elderly couples want to live in harmony and walk through the final stages of life together, remember these six suggestions.

1. Couples live alone and do not live with their children

Older couples are advised to live alone with their spouses when they can move freely and their bodies do not affect their daily lives. They should not live with their children for a long time. But the distance from the children should be appropriate.

Parents’ homes are always their children’s homes, but their children’s homes are never their parents’ homes. Elderly couples who are parents should understand this principle. The two choose a place to live with their children at a certain distance, which can help the children to share some affairs appropriately, and the children can arrive in time when they have something to do. When there is a distance between each other, occasional gatherings will appear to be more intimate, and it will be easier to draw each other's emotions closer. If you live together for a long time, it will inevitably lead to all kinds of conflicts because of the little things in life.

2. Husband and wife should be more tolerant and conciliatory,

It is not easy for old couples to be together now, but they are more likely to get angry when they are old. Tolerance and concession.

Although it has been running for half a year, everyone will still maintain their own living habits and dietary preferences, so let's give in more at this time. If two people have different eating habits, then you must give in. You can change it every few days. These days, according to your habits, change to her preference in a few days. Everyone try to try each other and accept each other’s tastes. Maybe this acceptance will Let you discover a new world, and also enhance the emotions of the two in this mutual acceptance and concession. Maybe that mean mouth is still so hurtful, is it right to look at it from a different angle, is it because the previous care was not enough.But also understand that tolerance and concession are principles , those bad guys who get old must resolutely resist. Even elderly couples must understand that the emotional improvement of two people is a lifelong career and cannot be stopped, and tolerance and retreat are the foundation of a long-term relationship between husband and wife.

3. Don’t take care of it for granted

Older couples stay together for life, and there is always a division of labor between the main and the outside. Whether the husband or wife may have been used to being taken for granted in the past Take care, when you are old, don't take care for granted, learn to take care of each other.

In life, due to family background, personality reasons, traditional family role distribution, machismo or so-called feminism, etc., there will always be one person in the family enjoying the care of the other side comfortably, but I never know how to take care of each other. My clothes, food, etc. are all done by each other, as if it is not a husband and wife, but the relationship between the owner and the nanny. It’s not easy for old couples to walk now. thinks from place to place, and from heart to heart. At this time, we must learn to take care of each other and learn to share with each other from the daily life.

Fourth. Common hobbies but each has space

Older people must have their own hobbies and interests, and they must also have common hobbies and interests, but they must also be given to elderly couples. The other's own space.

Husband and wife are tied together. After all, they are the main body of a family. They must have common interests and hobbies, so that there can be endless common topics, and this difficult emotion can be better maintained.In order to stay together for a long time. Husband and wife are not tied to each other. Each person is an independent life and needs to have his own color. As an elderly couple, we must also give each other enough space so that each other can be comfortable and happy there. Don’t always try to control or kidnap each other in the name of love. It will only destroy the emotions that have been with you for half a lifetime. Don’t be too clingy or dependent on each other to become a burden. Let this emotion become mutual Disgusting and disgusting.

5. Rest and rest, working together

Elderly people must rest and rest, and elderly couples must complete some necessary daily labor when their physical conditions permit. This will not make life monotonous and let the spirit empty.

Elderly people must do some work if their physical conditions permit. That is a kind of exercise and a kind of vitality. Do housework together, cook together and cook a table of food together, pick up and drop off the children together, purchase food ingredients together, travel or take a walk together, and take a walk in the park together. If you are in a rural area, then grow vegetables and fruits of various colors together. The kind of fieldwork is not only the joy of labor, but also the joy of harvest after giving. Make yourself physically and mentally happy and live longer. In the common work, has mutual understanding, which enhances strong trust.

6. Appropriate physical exercise should be based on health

. Older couples should understand the principle of "no filial son before the bed for a long time." There are more facts in those hospitals for the elderly before the bed. Is my wife. If you want two people to live in harmony, you must work hard to keep yourself healthy.

Elderly couples can find some sports activities suitable for the elderly,The best is the kind of two people, perhaps table tennis, badminton, or single person, such as swimming and other sweaty items, or various chess games and other puzzle items. In addition to the body or the mind, elderly couples should also use their brains to prevent Alzheimer's problems. Life is getting better and better now, and elderly couples have also struggled for a lifetime. In order to enjoy the fruits of their efforts, health is the prerequisite. As a person lives, health is the first priority, and the others are meaningful, otherwise it will be just a life in vain.

recommends that elderly couples find a suitable residence and keep a certain distance from their children; husbands and wives should be more tolerant and retreat; take care of each other; share common interests and hobbies, but also have their own space ; Work together, exercise together. Only by living healthy can we enjoy the emotions of the husband and wife of this long companionship, and can enjoy the good life of the moment.

Older couples stay together, and life is joyful and the sunset is bright. Ankang auspicious is busy for children, and now I am quietly looking at it.

Friends, let's talk about the life stories of you and your lover or the happy elderly couples around you. Let us also feel the love life stories of elderly couples.