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Entrusted by a friend, I attended the wedding of a couple of strangers and gave me a gift. I don't know the bride and groom at all, but when I walked into the wedding venue, they didn't feel that strange.
I remember that the last time I attended someone else's wedding was when a female colleague got married five years ago, and most of the acquaintances around me were already married.
Probably the development of this four-tier town is too slow. The wedding arrangements for many years are almost the same, and they have not grown at all.
The only thing that makes people feel different is the unique stories of different newcomers that belong to them.
When the bride and groom were speaking, the bridegroom stumbled. It can be seen that he is a bad-spoken person, and his personality should also belong to that kind of relatively introverted personality.
Perhaps it was to give the groom more courage to confess, the guests couldn't help but applaud, and I couldn't help but applaud.
At that moment,I am serious, curiosity is serious, probably because I left regrets when I fell in love at the beginning, so I want to know what the process of a love process is like.
Blessing is even more serious, because the fate of being able to go from love to marriage is really touching in this era when love comes fast and goes fast. Although I didn't know them, I could see the deepest love and the most steadfast recognition for each other in the eyes of the new couple.
I have always felt that there is no absolute eternal relationship in this world. Many people who love each other, after entering the marriage hall, are accompanied by the trivialities of chai, rice, oil and salt and the short disturbances of parents, more or less there will be Changed.
Maybe the relationship will change after all, but the vows at the wedding, the determination at the moment of exchange of the rings, the moment when the love is spoken, at least seriously.
Many people have felt that a wedding is really a must? If two people truly love each other, it doesn't really matter whether there is a wedding or not.
But at that moment, looking at the grand wedding, the new couple were loving each other under the shining lights, the moving eyes of relatives and friends, the smiling eyes of both parents were faintly filled with tears, I think the wedding was A testimony, a testimony that must exist.
I used to hear this saying: What kind of man should a girl marry is worth it?
At that moment, I had the answer. In my opinion, that should be someone who can give you a romantic wedding in addition to giving you love, because this is the only sense of ceremony that can be seen and touched at the beginning of marriage.
When watching a variety show, the actor Huang Lei was asked if his daughter got married in the future, the man would never agree to a wedding. NS? At that time, Huang Lei resolutely rejected it.
At that time, I thought he was a slave to his daughter, and I was reluctant to marry his daughter. But every time I attend someone else’s wedding and watch the bride walk across the flower road with his father’s arm to the groom, and then the father hands his daughter’s hand to his son-in-law, he understands the significance of a wedding to parents.
That is a kind of handover. Since then, two big families have become four small families, which is the deepest blessing from the previous generation to the next generation.
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At the wedding, the one that impressed me the most was that the bridegroom said to the bride:
blockquote140 blockquotewhen we were in love, when we were always in love, 13span Will open our relationship in front of friends.
But in my heart, I just recognize you. It doesn't matter if others know it or not, I know you are my end.
At that moment, I was in a trance. Undoubtedly, this girl was lucky. Even if they did not disclose their relationship to the outside world when they were in love, they ended up with each other. Isn't that the best answer?
What is true love? Is it telling others how much you love someone? no! Instead, tell everyone with practical actions, the ending of your love.
In feelings, some people value the result while others care more about the process, but I think a perfect result, maybe the process is also enviable, but the sweetness does not need to be felt by everyone. And probably the process of love that is left behind is not worth exploring.
I have seen a topic before: Is it necessary for two people to be together in the circle of friends?
Many people's choices must be made public, otherwise they will feel insecure, and they will easily be accidentally used as a spare tire. To be honest, I am familiar with this. Replaced by me, I also chose to make it public.
I think the key lies in whether it is open or not, it depends on the person. Just as for the new couple, it may be the same whether open or closed, because after all, they are finally married.
When two people were together, they already recognized each other.Maybe the public love affair is just a ritual, but they give the sense of ritual directly to the wedding.
However, not every couple will have such a certain degree of certainty. Most of their lives do not have a public relationship at the beginning, and often there is no chance of being public at the end.
If someone asks me if I am in a relationship, do I want to make it public, I will definitely say: It must be done. I can’t do this at all. What kind of relationship is there?
I probably have suffered a loss in this area, so I don't want to see more similar things happen. Regardless of whether love is true or not, but at least the attitude of love must be true!
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The only relationship I have ever talked about when I grew up was never made public. Of course it was not that I did not want to, but that the other party did not want to. I only blamed myself for my youth and stupidity.
I still remember being teased by our mutual friends if we were together or not. Before I could answer, he denied the prevarication. Although I didn’t have an attack on the spot, I would mind afterwards, but he said: Let’s first Don't tell them, just use the wedding to surprise everyone.
Maybe the person in love is really worried about IQ. If he said that, I believed it. Later, after being cheated, I learned that the reason for his non-disclosure was not to marry me, but to escape the forced marriage of his family and the stalker of a blind date.
may not be public to appease those Yingyingyanyan in your circle of friends. In my city, I was in love with me, but in his city, I maintained frequent physical relationship with the blind date that I had slept with when I was lonely and impatient.
until I break through,In his own words: "She is old and wants to get married, but I don't want to marry her".
When I was most angry, I asked him this way: Why do you want to sleep if you don't want to marry someone?
His reply to me was: Look at her pitiful...
I have never heard such a three-pointed disintegration, and for a while I don’t know if it’s the pitiful girl. Have mercy on yourself, maybe we are just one of the spare tires to him.
I also finally understand that in love, regardless of whether a boy or a girl, most people who are not open are just using you as a spare tire.
I didn’t care about this before. I thought that love is a matter of two people. It’s enough to know each other. There is no need to tell too many people. The full screen shows affection. But since then I am no longer naive. I feel that the sense of ritual in my relationship is really important. Love that is not open to the public always makes people irritable and fall into a whirlpool of self-doubt and unconfidence.
After knowing the truth for a while, I lived in his last mockery: I marry you home, what can you give my parents?
It turned out not to be a wrong payment, but in the eyes of others, you do not deserve to be disclosed.
Announcing a relationship means admitting, accepting, confessing, breaking up with the past, and rejecting the temptation of others. To a large extent, this means that we are really ready to go with this person.Regardless of the final outcome, at least at this moment, we have good hopes for the future of two people. I don't look forward to the future, and I don't give anyone a chance to take advantage of it. I just want to love the person in front of me wholeheartedly.
And those who never want to open their relationship, think about it afterwards, in fact, they didn't want to go very far with you from the beginning.
Those who are unwilling to disclose their boyfriend and girlfriend, in the final analysis, do not love that much. In the final analysis, it is because they don’t pay attention to it, leaving more possibilities for themselves.
If a person is in a relationship and does not tell his friends and family, he still appears to be single outside. IMHO, that is scum.
After all, like the new couple in this wedding, the official announcement is that the feeling of marriage is too rare. It is not easy to meet a person you like. Being open is the most basic respect for a relationship and a lover.
also hope that you who are in love will be upright and wholeheartedly love the person in front of you.
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Yusheng Weixia: The style of writing is changeable, the preference is single, and I know you will come, so I am waiting for
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