Think about how many people have gone through this journey before they come together, but why do some people become unhappy when they walk, while others are happy? Let's take a look at this true story.
A relative next to me, married for 7 years, has a boy, and the housework is done by the female owner alone. The man is mainly responsible for working outside to support the family. A family of more than three good families, but the result ended in divorce.
All seemingly happy families have their own misfortunes. Seven years ago, under the introduction of a matchmaker, this relative had a blind date with her husband. Both of them are introverted, not talkative, and never get along. Talk about marriage as soon as possible (also very magical). Since the two did not have any diplomas, they could only work abroad. They became pregnant before long and had to go back to their hometown to raise a baby. Her husband still worked outside for a better family life, and she took care of the children at home. Before going out to work, it was still good. After a long time, she found that her husband went home less often, and the number of intimacy between husband and wife was almost infrequent. She always disliked her for all kinds of badness, and then she always quarreled and quarreled. It's gone.
Actually, for such things, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders. When the husband goes home less often and the number of intimacy between the husband and wife is scarce, the sensitivity of the wife should be thought of whether there is any other situation at this time. , Two people should sit down and have a long conversation, instead of finding out that there is always a quarrel, which will only get worse.
This story has three points that need to be paid attention to by married people:
1. Marriage is a business.It's not that distance produces beauty, but when there is a distance, it is necessary to draw closer. Couples need to communicate more in order to better understand each other's difficulties and each other's inner world.
2. We, as women in the new era, must avoid the matter of full-time mothers. Whether you are a rich family or not, don’t be a full-time mother, because in this way, you will be The derailment of society, the lack of one's own life circle, and the lack of one's own income, will lead to a series of couples and family problems.
3. The era of male dominance inside and female dominates outside no longer exists. Men are very tired outside. As a wife, you should understand that, conversely, as a husband, it is not easy to understand the wife, the family Everyone pays a lot, understands and tolerates each other, so that the family can move towards a better future.
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