Wen丨Xixiang Youqing
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Speaking of "friend circle", everyone is familiar with it. "Circle of Friends" is a place to show your mood and record your life.
However, it gradually lost its original feeling and became a place with "ulterior motives", such as showing off, comparing, revealing depression, and advertising.
Compared with men, women are the group that loves to post to Moments. No matter what they do, they will send Moments as soon as possible.
Women are sentimental, sensitive and caring, so "friend circle" has become one of the best platforms for expressing emotions.
It seems that where you go to play, what you buy, show your affection, let others know, happiness and vanity will be doubled; it seems that if the low mood is passed on, the sadness and sadness will be reduced.
As everyone knows, it is not a good thing to post to Moments frequently, no matter what the content is.
The influence of "friends circle" is two-way. While you bring bad influence to others, you will also feel oppression from others.
In this form of your coming and going, comparison, anxiety, etc. will gradually arise.
On the one hand, you will lose some friends because of this; on the other hand, you will also waste a lot of time on this. For example, the first thing many people open their eyes every day is to browse the circle of friends .
So, as a woman, you have to understand that a woman with a pattern has slowly withdrawn from the "circle of friends".
Don’t talk about emotions.
A woman with a pattern often doesn’t put her emotions on her lips, let alone express her emotions at will in her circle of friends.
In real life,There must be a woman around us who shows her happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy in our circle of friends, sad and negative for a while, and lamented for the beauty of the world.
For such a woman, your evaluation must be bad, either you think she is too annoying, or you think she is too divine.
Therefore, the correct approach is to gradually withdraw from the "circle of friends" instead of using it as a place to vent your emotions. You have to understand that emotions can affect people, and no one wants to bear and perceive your emotions.
If you are passing on some negative thoughts all day, others will not be happy to see it; if you describe how happy you are all day, it is easy for others to think that you are too flaunting.
In the end, the friends in your circle of friends will hate you more and more.
In addition, women with a pattern will not put their days in this "one-acre three-point land", this kind of low-level pleasure cannot keep them.
Patterned women know how to manage emotions correctly, so they will never show up in friends at will, and will not be immersed in this kind of low-level fun.
Do not "savour" the lives of others
Women who do not "savour" the lives of others and live their lives well usually have a pattern.
"Comparison" appears in our lives all the time, such as with friends, colleagues, neighbors, and relatives.
This kind of invisible pressure often makes a person collapse, anxious, and even fall into deep self-denial and devaluation.
For example, those women who compare their husbands and children, once the comparison loses, will bring this pressure to the home, causing a series of conflicts.
Rather than admire or comment on the lives and lives of others, it is better to live in the present. Whether it’s superiority or inferiority complex,In fact, it is an incorrect emotion and thought.
Everyone is different, and naturally they will have different life experiences and circumstances. Live your own life is the most correct.
When you learn how to "taste" other people's lives and appreciate and enjoy your own life, you will become very happy.
Therefore, women with a pattern tend not to wander in the "circle of friends", but instead focus on their real life.
focus on self-development
"Friends Circle" is a place for communication and sharing, where you can learn about the daily lives of some people.
If it's just a pastime in free time, it's nothing. But if it becomes a habit and reference, it is prone to problems.
When you waste time, you also have different emotions.
Therefore, women with a pattern usually focus on their own development, instead of putting too much thought and energy on the "friend circle".
Besides, the "circle of friends" is not necessarily a real place. Perhaps the sense of superiority and happiness shown by others is just an illusion.
You can share and show off your achievements and happiness, but that must be based on your strength. You have to understand that speaks with strength and acts in a low-key manner, which is the performance of the big picture.
Concluding remarks:
"Friends Moments" will gradually make you impetuous, and may also make you lose yourself. As an adult, two things you should do are- manage your emotions and minimize the influence of others.
Undoubtedly, indulging in "friend circle" can not achieve such an effect.
Many times, the people in the circle of friends are not all true friends. In real life, you can meet up to three or five friends to talk and chat with each other, but this method is not necessary in the "moments of friends".
has such a sentence: "If people drink water, they know how warm and cold they are." You can only taste your own life. There is no need to interpret to others too much, and there is no need to be too curious about other people's lives.
However, many women do not have this pattern.
However, when you gradually withdraw from the "circle of friends", you will find that your life becomes much smoother and your happiness will also improve a lot.
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