Today is good, let's get divorced

Ms. Coconut has a pair of sons and daughters. At present, there are two houses in the name of Mr. Coconut, three residences, and one in her own name, two residences.

Since the birth of the second treasure, I feel that four bedrooms are just needed. Ms. Coconut has been working secretly in her heart, wanting to change to a bigger house, thinking that when the child grows up, she can have her own independent room. However, back and forth, this four-bedroom plan has been shelved, and after a while, I wanted to buy it immediately, and then I didn't want to buy it. Tangled for a year and a half. It turns out that he has no money, and Mr. Coconut doesn't want to put too much pressure on himself. Don't worry if the child is still young. And now there is a chance, the conditions allow it. On the contrary, Ms. Coconut hesitated. The reason is very simple: Ms. Coconut feels that it is good for her to manage her own house and earn her own money. Buying another house will be difficult to divide when divorcing.

Ms. Coconut has been married for six years, and it is less than seven years. This not-so-old couple has gone through honey mixing oils, and they have also gone through the days when they were too poor to have credit cards, and even passed the junior three. The days of protruding are still there. However, now that the days seem to be quiet, Ms. Coconut wants to divorce instead. And firmly believes that even if you do not leave now, you will get divorced in the future. If this is the case, why bother to buy a house? Ms. Coconut dislikes entanglement for money the most.

Ms. Coconut is an impatient, but she is also a very rational person. When her marriage was in crisis, she had insomnia sitting in the middle of the night and waiting for dawn, thinking about divorce all night, and calculating the consequences of divorce and non-divorce. At that time, there was no divorce because Ms. Coconut decided that the divorce would not be better than it is now, so it is better not to divorce and just live like this. The biggest problem with divorce is the children. This is not to say that Ms. Coconut is trying to compromise for the sake of her children. She also doesn't like to put this kind of high-sounding responsibility on her children. What she considered was divorce, and the care of the children was a problem. After all, Ms. Coconut could not accept the fatal blow of not seeing her children. There are many problems that single mothers have to face, such as the problem of picking up their children to school, and the problem of seeing a doctor when their children are sick. It is impossible not to go to work to take care of their children and how to live without money. These are all taken into consideration. Because Coco felt that either he would not get divorced, he would stop struggling after the divorce, and he would not contact him in the name of the child.There is a saying that Coco agrees that "a qualified ex should be dead." Finally, after weighing it up, Ms. Coconut felt that she was not up to the role of a single mother, so she confessed. No divorce.

The days are gone. In the past few years, even though there have been some jokes, they have come here peacefully, and even Erbao was born. Logically speaking, with complete children, life should be more fulfilling and happier. But now Ms. Coconut wants to divorce instead.

Ms. Coconut also forgot when she started to move again. My best friend asked her why she wanted to get a divorce? Many people get divorced mostly because of the disagreement of the three views, disagreement in personality, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, derailment, and material things. However, for Ms. Coconut, none of these are. She just feels tired, heart tired. After six years of marriage, with the birth of a child. Ms. Coconut increasingly doubts what marriage brings to people.

Ms. Coconut suddenly remembered a sentence and forgot where she saw it, "Marriage is a burden for modern people, which saves one from loneliness, but it also brings real loneliness to people, which is to make people feel better about life. A kind of loneliness that gives rise to despair.” At that time, I couldn’t understand it, because Ms. Coconut was still a sunny little woman. She was full and the family was not hungry. During her free time, she could write some words or visit others. I'm tired of seeing things.

Ms. Coconut once thought, "I like a person so much that I want to marry him, have children for him, and make soup for him." So, shouldn't marriage be a happy one. How can I feel lonely?

And now Ms. Coconut understands that sentence deeply. In the past six years, Ms. Coconut has been a daughter, a mother, a daughter-in-law, and a wife. Still employees, colleagues and friends. Only oneself is becoming more and more not. I think about how to be a good employee in the company, how to serve customers well outside, and how to educate children at home. Every day is like a machine, constantly running and running, but I don't know when, I feel that I have become a person who doesn't even know me. It's like a clockwork in his head. drop! The child is going to be late for school! drop! Go to work for a meeting! drop! Customer calls, hurry up! drop! The child is picking up after school! drop! The child hasn't bathed yet! drop! I haven't talked about picture books today! drop! The children's interest class is about to start! And these,It seems that no one saw it. Ms. Coconut feels lonely, that she has been abandoned by life, and that she has lost her most precious thing, that is: freedom.

Ms. Coconut feels that marriage brings not enjoyment, but a burden. This kind of burden does not make Ms. Coconut feel sweet, but lonely. It seems that she is always fighting alone. In the past two years, Ms. Coconut has not dared to travel or get sick, because when she gets sick, the child is not picked up, so she has to stay at home. Every day at 2 o'clock in the afternoon, I dare not run out for fear of missing school time for my children. Several times, when Ms. Coconut went to pick up the children. There was only one son left waiting for her, and Ms. Coconut felt very guilty. Facing the child's request: Mom, can you be the first to pick me up today. Ms. Coconut didn't dare to agree, she only dared to say: Mom will try to pick you up early. God knows how these grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents who pick up babies started queuing so early. Finally, there was one time when Ms. Coconut asked for an hour off and went to the school gate to wait in advance. Finally, she was the first to receive the child. The child ran from the end of the team to the head of the team and rushed towards her. Ms. Coconut will never forget. This is a surprise she gave her children. However, in life, no one can remember her preferences, what she likes to eat, and what she wants. None of this seemed important, and she gradually forgot her ideals, suppressed her mood, and felt that she was not happy at all in her marriage. There were no surprises in life, and no expectations.

When Ms. Coconut brushed her teeth, she looked at her glasses and saw that there were two deep lines on the bridge of her nose. Ms. Coconut knew that she usually frowned too much. Suddenly, Ms. Coconut squatted on the ground and started crying. She felt very sorry for herself. Why did she still make her life like this after she had worked so hard? I have worked so hard, but I still can't live the way I like it. Walking out of the bathroom, Ms. Coconut looked at Mr. Coconut who was serious about playing mobile games on the sofa. She watched it quietly for a while. From the time when there was nothing to talk about now, the coconut couple only spent six years. Time, these six years have really consumed all the enthusiasm of Ms. Coconut, and also consumed the enthusiasm in the future.

Ms. Coconut even felt sorry for the man suddenly. Once, in the eyes of Ms. Coconut, Mr. Coconut was so sunny.Full of charm, since when did he become tired and wearied every day. Hey, he probably feels tired too. Suddenly Mr. Coconut stopped the game, and looked up at Ms. Coconut. Ms. Coconut smiled and said, "Well, today is good, let's get divorced!" Just like six years ago, Mr. Coconut smiled and said to her, "It's good today, let's get married".