"Cooperated with a 45-year-old woman and broke up in less than two months", woman: You don't love me

Foreword

Any asymmetrical love will eventually be separated from each other. Even so, there are still many moths that will pounce on the bright candlelight.

Self-reporter: Mr. Zhou, 43 years old this year

I am 43 years old this year, an elderly divorced man. Although my wife and I have two children, I still choose to divorce my wife. All of this is Because of myself, I really can’t stand the sloppy personality and way of doing things like my wife. Every time I come home from a hard day’s work, what I see is not a clean and tidy home, but a trash lying around, food trash bags everywhere. My wife would never take the initiative to clean up the lost home. If I didn't ask her, she would keep going like this.

I don’t know where she learned this bad habit, but before I married her, I never found this bad habit of wife, but after we had children, the wife suddenly changed In this way, I don’t do any housework every day. I just eat some junk food, and throw away food scraps and packaging bags everywhere. I have to clean up the house after I get back from get off work, and my wife is basically to our children. Regardless of it, I only care about how happy I am every day.

I discussed this issue with her more than once, and every time she said that she would correct it and take care of our family, but just turned around, I went out to play with my bag. I treat my wife like this Despair completely fell into despair. There is no other way I can choose to divorce my wife. After all, I don’t want my two children to become sloppy and unclean like her. I only know to go out to eat, drink and have fun all day long. So I chose to divorce my wife and raise two children by myself.

But when I get older, it’s a bit difficult to take care of two children by myself.And I’m also a person who can’t bear loneliness, because my ex-wife and I are old and happy. Now my two children have just entered junior high school, so I plan to find another stepmother for the two children, so I just Ask my friend to help me find a suitable partner and see if anyone is willing to marry me again. I have only one requirement for the person who will become my wife, and that is to treat my two children kindly.

After all, there are too many women who can't take care of other people's children as their own. I am afraid that my children will be treated differently by my new wife if they are to be treated differently. At the moment of treatment, I would rather let them lack maternal love than push them to a painful place, but I have asked my friends to find such a person for a long time, and there is no woman of my age who is willing to accept it. My two children, even if some verbally say they would accept it.

When I actually take them to see my two children, they will start to avoid them, and some even pretend to be kind to me in order to covet my property Children, as these things happen more and more, I gradually dare not introduce my two children to those women who are on blind dates with me. I am afraid that they will hurt my two children. Their young hearts were indelibly traumatized, but then things took a turn for the better.

There is a 45-year-old woman named Gillian who has no children. She took the initiative to find me and said: "I can help you take care of your two children, but I don't want to be your wife immediately. We can try to partner with you first. Live, when I think we are really suitable, we are going to get the marriage certificate, if you think it is possible, we will be together" After listening to Gillian, I did not immediately agree, but after thinking about it for a while , I decided to try this method with her, but I will never let my child be harmed.

After getting my consent,Gillian moved over to live with me on the second day. On the first day, I was a little afraid that the children would dislike Gillian. At the same time, I was afraid that Gillian would be bad for them, but it was okay. , They got along very happily on the first day. Gillian seemed to treat my two children as his own children, and Gillian also worked very hard at housework. Almost one person did all the housework. I took care of it, I didn't want her to work so hard, so I started doing housework with her.

Gillian not only works hard and is willing to endure hardships, but also cooks a good meal, so that my two children and I have a feast. One month has passed. As Gillian has entered our family, the time is getting longer and longer. The children have gradually become accustomed to Gillian’s existence, and the act of living together with Gillian has gradually become more and more like a real couple. However, Gillian has had some abnormalities in the past few days. Although he treated the two children equally well, when facing me, I felt a strange feeling.

When I noticed these, I directly approached Gillian and wanted to ask her what happened, but I just happened to ran into her packing her luggage in the room, as if to leave this in a hurry It’s like home, and the speed is very fast. After I saw it, I asked her directly, "A Jiao, what are you doing?" But I didn’t expect that Gillian would ignore me at all. Instead, she was packing her luggage. Even looking up at me felt strenuous, I had to step forward to stop her behavior when I saw it, and wanted to get a definite answer from her.

But Gillian still ignores me and still does her own way. I want to hold Gillian's hand to stop her movement, but Gillian directly pushes me away. I can't help but stand. Watching her next to her, she was preparing to leave; Gillian quickly packed up, and when she walked to the door, she said to me: "Do you know why I want to leave here? Honestly, I am very I really like your two children, because I am not able to have children. I love children very much......."

Gillian paused and continued: "But I Can feel it,You don’t love me at all. Why do we do what we do together? You always think of your ex-wife, even your two children. I know, no matter what I do, I can’t be better than your ex-wife. The impression you left in your heart was even more profound, so I chose to leave. All this is because you don't love me. Let's just leave. Let the two children not come back. Don't let them discover all this. "

I saw that Gillian had decided to go, and I couldn't keep her anymore. I stood at the door and looked at Gillian in the distance, her figure prolonged by the sunset, watching her dragging her luggage by herself. Looks like, I really want to go forward and bring her back home, but what she said just now really touched my heart. I really can’t forget my ex-wife, even if she is a very bad woman. , But I love her the most. Since Gillian sees through her mood, it’s useless for me to continue to pretend, I can only accept all this.

Conclusion:

itself weeks Husband may have a wonderful evening relationship with Gillian forever, but Mr. Zhou can't forget his ex-wife. After A Jiao realized this, she knew where she was in Mr. Zhou's heart. Therefore, there was a future. The scene where he made up his mind to leave appeared.

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