Some people say: Marriage is different from love. There are only two people in love, one world, but there are many people in marriage, the whole world, love can afford to lose, marriage cannot afford to lose.
Therefore, in the siege of marriage, many women choose to forbear, either for money or for affection, and more for their children.
Neighbor Ju, a 60-year-old mother, has spent decades of forbearance in exchange for a bright future for her children. At the same time, she silently defeated Xiaosan and joined hands with her wife in her later years.
Aunt Ju's narrative:
He cheated for many years, and I have been pretending to be stupid. Seeing the status quo of my children is worth it. Poor, often unable to open the pot.
For people of that era, what love is not love, as long as they can feed their younger brothers and sisters, they are not bad, and they can live their lives.
He is a tofu seller. Although he is not rich, he does not worry about eating and drinking. The most important thing is to help his family.
Within a few years, he was not in the tofu business, and he felt that he made too little money, so he went to learn cooking with others and wanted to open a restaurant.
Maybe he is really good at doing business. After studying hard for two years, he opened a restaurant and his business is getting more and more prosperous.
Of course, only oneself knows the ups and downs of it. In order to raise the money to open a restaurant, we do not ask for less. In order to make a few cents cheaper, we are low and low in the market. All the good things are said. Others invite workers, but we can’t afford it. Day and night. , Working hard. Children who are small businesses have to suffer with the adults. Children often have to spend time with us. The lights of thousands of households are turned off. They really can’t stand it. They simply put cardboard on the table and sleep. Just one night.
Finally, we have all the hardships, and saved some money. After the small restaurant was changed to a big hotel, our life has improved a lot.
I no longer help him with the business, but concentrate on studying with my children, hoping that they can get ahead, and don't know a few big characters like me.
People say that when a man has money, he becomes bad. Gradually, I found out that he had cheated and there were other women outside.
To be honest,The heart at that time was terribly painful, and I really wanted to make a big fuss, even if he was divorced, he had to go out of the house.
When I calm down and think again, once divorced, what can I do with the two children? Should they call others mom? Is it to let them live in dire straits every day? Besides, the neighbors of the divorced neighbourhood in those days would also laugh at it. After thinking about it, I decided to endure it alone.
I pretend to be a fool every day. I should eat, drink and drink, and leave more time to accompany my children to study. Only in the dead of night, he cried alone when he was away. I knew he did not It's not to socialize, but to other women.
Over the years, his lover has changed frequently, and I just treat him as playing, and it does not affect the family.
Just in the year of the college entrance examination for my son and daughter, one of his lovers named Xiaoqian found me and forced me to divorce him, and used words like being with him for 3 years and being pregnant to stimulate me and almost fainted with anger. On the ground.
I warned her not to let my sons and daughters know, otherwise no one should think about getting better. As for the divorce, let him come to me.
Sure enough, he went home that night and filed for a divorce with me, saying that I was really moved by Xiaoqian. I clutched my chest and gritted my teeth. I didn't dare to cry, but my tears kept flowing, but I told him to let him. I think about it.
In the middle of the night, I tossed and turned, and it was difficult to fall asleep. My head was full of what he looked like when he mentioned divorce. I was so angry that I gritted my teeth and made up my mind to divorce, divide property, and so on.
At this time, I heard the sound of my son pushing the door, he should be going to the bathroom, thinking that my children are still reading the lights at night, all resentment suddenly stopped in my mind, just one thought, let my children finish the college entrance examination.
He loves his children no matter what, so I asked to wait until the college entrance examination is over, and asked him not to let his children know about it, and he agreed.
I dry my tears and don't think about anything. Every day, I change the pattern to make food for my children, clean the room for my children, and I also read when they read, and I quietly accompany them when they do the questions.
finally,My sons and daughters are admitted to the ideal university, I am extremely happy and feel that everything is worth it.
The woman named Xiaoqian can’t wait. She came to me just after the college entrance examination and asked me to get a divorce. She said she wanted to get along with him, just wait, the angry Xiaoqian turned and left.
He came to me and said that I was not keeping my word, and I ranted, "You have been cheating for years, and I have been pretending to be stupid. It is for your children. Do you think it is good for you to hide it for so many years? If you want to get a divorce, go and sue me. Ah."
This incident went on and off for more than a year, until Xiaoqian secretly transferred the account and disappeared with the hotel manager at the same time, and he didn't understand what Xiaoqian did with him over the years.
Later, their sons and daughters graduated from college, went to graduate school, and then went abroad to study. Now their current situation is not reached by many peers, and relatives and friends are full of praise.
And he, after being deceived, was hit, and he began to show his courtesy to me, saying something that he regretted not being kind to me over the years.
Now that our children are married, we still haven't divorced. We are all 60 people. Most of them are buried in loess, so I don't need to toss. I can be content to have a companion to talk in my old age.
The sweetest word that human lips can utter is mother, and the most beautiful call is "mother". Only mothers can do for their children regardless of gains or losses and bear the burden of paying humiliation.
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