Dialogue "Lonely Wisdom" A sobriety and narcotic that normal interpersonal communication and loneliness are not contradictory

Innovation and Entrepreneurship Guidance: <> Normal interpersonal communication is not contradictory to loneliness


Q: Hello teacher, you always advocate loneliness is the best Accompanying, do you not like socializing?

Answer: Oh, you may have some misunderstanding, I don't have a communication disorder. Actually...


Q: Teacher, what actually?

Answer: In fact, normal interpersonal communication and loneliness are not contradictory. Solitude refers to the companionship of the soul, while normal interpersonal communication refers to companionship on the physical and emotional levels. I am not a person who does not eat the fireworks. How can I reject normal interpersonal communication? It's just...


Q: Teacher, just what?

Answer: It's just that I am opposed to cheap social networking, and I am opposed to some too utilitarian entertainment, that's all. For example...


Q: Teacher, for example?

Answer: For example, those who invited me to have dinner during the National Day and connected with feelings, I rejected some of them and kept a few. And...


Q: Teacher, and what?

Answer: Moreover, high-quality entertainment and dinner can also improve the quality of spiritual life and soul life. I'm just going to be strong here...


Q: Teacher, what do you want to be strong?

Answer: I just want to say that in terms of secularity, both physical and emotional companionship are very important, but we have to realize that companionship that is much more important than this is actually companionship of the soul. No one can replace the soul companion except for himself.


Q: Teacher,Isn't the soul mate OK?

Answer: Haha, you are such an old person, why are you still so naive? There really is a soul mate in this world, I am afraid that more is an ideal. Of course...


Q: Teacher, of course what?

Answer: Of course, if you are obsessed with pursuing your soul life and you are lucky enough, it is still possible to find a soul-level partner. It's just...


Q: Teacher, just what?

Answer: It's just that the nature of the soul is always loneliness, and the best companion for a lonely soul is loneliness except loneliness. In other words...


Q: Teacher, what do you say in other words?

Answer: In other words, loneliness is the "bran" for the companionship of one's own soul, and the companionship of the soul mate to the soul can only be a "flower" at best. If the luck is good enough, a little more flower can be added to the brocade, of course it is even more. It's perfect.


Q: Teacher, you are so good. I think that whether it is in marriage, parent-child relationship or friends, etc., companionship that can satisfy the emotions is good. It should be difficult to reach but the soul mate level.

Answer: Yes. Therefore, in the process of consulting marriage and relationships, I often persuade the visitors to give up the illusion of trying to find a soul mate through divorce or the ambition of trying to cultivate the other party into a soul mate. I hope more...


Q: Teacher, what do you want more?

Answer: I hope that everyone first becomes a person with an independent soul, and then...


Q: Teacher, then what?

Answer: Then I will practice a philosophical avatar, dividing myself into soul self, emotional self and physical self, so that you can be your own soul mate.


Q: Teacher,Will always use loneliness to accompany oneself to close oneself?

Answer: Haha, you may be asking if you will get autism or depression? Let me tell you, under normal circumstances it won't. But is there an exception?


Q: Teacher, what are the exceptions?

Answer: Like the great western philosopher Nietzsche , people who always claim that “putting yourself in the crowd will make you more lonely” and who refuse normal physical and emotional companionship are most likely to have mental problems. Nietzsche lived in a mental hospital for more than ten years in his last life, probably because of this. So...


Question: Teacher, so what?

Answer: So I advocate more love triangles in terms of emotional companionship.


Q: Teacher, huh? Are you teaching people to be bad?

Answer: Haha, my old mother often said that I am a person who will never learn badly, so how can I teach others to learn badly? The "love triangle" I am talking about is to balance the companionship of soul, emotion and body, that is, let God belong to God and Caesar belongs to Caesar. Don't confuse these three kinds of companionship. The so-called delusion often includes finding a soul mate in the real world.


Q: Teacher, you seem to be a pessimist?

Answer: Haha, you can understand that too! But what I want to remind is that the true soul is always lonely, and the true soul life will always belong to oneself, and no one can replace it in this respect. Of course...


Q: Teacher, of course what?

Answer: Of course, for people who have not yet awakened their souls, or who have awakened souls but are still obsessed with the worldly life, they can also call me a lunatic talking.


Q: Teacher,You can only say these words by a wise man, at least I understand that you will not scold you. By the way, will your public welfare lectures have topics about loneliness and wisdom in the future?

Answer: Haha, it should be there. When the cause is mature, I will naturally speak.


Question: Teacher, in the end, would you send me a good word of wisdom related to loneliness?

Answer: Oh, good, good! But I want to say again that "loneliness is the carnival of one person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people", it seems too old-fashioned. Therefore...


Q: Teacher, do you have any more wise words?

Answer: Haha, of course. Prepare a pen and paper, and write down the following sentence: loneliness is always the sober agent for the lonely, and the excitement is the narcotic for the lively.

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September 29, 2021

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