As a middle-aged person, no matter what he thinks or do, he is quite pragmatic and especially pursues the actual age group, and his attitude towards feelings, marriage and relations between men and women has also undergone considerable changes.
This is normal, but there will be some problems.
Because many men and women in this age group, whether they are in or outside of marriage, will habitually associate their relationship with the most natural attraction between men and women, while ignoring others. Some collisions and resonances.
In fact, when middle-aged men and women are in a relationship, in addition to their physical needs, they also need the following assistance!
They are related to the harmony of the spirit and soul, and also related to the cherish and respect of each other.
With these, the relationship between each other will be truly long and strong!
Comprehension of each other
The physical intimacy of middle-aged men and women may not resolve their differences in personalities and three views!
And everyone understands that the shallow level of closeness, which is limited to emotional or physiological aspects, can actually keep the heat for a very short time. If you only pay attention to these aspects, in the daily process of getting along, once there are conflicts, differences, and problems I am afraid that after the enthusiasm dissipates, the attitude of two people towards each other will have a very big change.
If you want to maintain a long-term relationship, what you really need to do is to gain mutual understanding and recognition.
When you truly understand the other person's thoughts and needs, and can understand the other person's thoughts and thoughts, you will have the ability to empathize and understand what you should do to meet each other's expectations at the same time!
The men and women who can truly live together for a long time are both ideological companions and soul confidants.
Lack of effort and ability in this area, Guangtu has the initial enthusiasm and desire, sincerely can't maintain much, and one day they will disband!
Appropriate tolerance
Love is a complex feeling,It contains a thousand touching notes, but it is also prone to various noises due to inconsistency!
Whether it can finally become a harmonious, beautiful and beautiful music depends on the efforts of both parties.
For middle-aged men and women, really don't just put expectations and hopes on physical attraction.
These are very important, but in addition, proper tolerance and accommodation between each other is also important!
Loving each other can determine whether the two can get together, but can they live in harmony for a long time? In order to decide whether the two sides can go on!
In real life, there are too many men and women who love each other to the death, do not marry each other, and love each other until they are old. In the middle-aged period, they become resentful spouses and finally divorced. The reason is that the two people lost. The unwillingness to tolerate and compromise in getting along with reality.
Love is such a thing, it is really easy to get along with each other! If you are unwilling to make appropriate concessions for love, no matter how much love, it will gradually be exhausted in quarrels and cold wars!
Sufficient material life
Love is full of joy, but marriage is a couple of men and women who love each other, and the latter is more related to chai, rice, oil and salt!
Although love between husband and wife is very important, love can only determine a part of the happiness index of the marriage, and the actual possession of the material aspect determines the index of happiness and wishfulness that the marriage can enjoy.
It is equally important, especially for middle-aged men and women.
Normally, you have to spend money on everything. It is always limited by the lack of satisfaction of some of the most basic needs in life. Between such helplessness and embarrassment, couples will inevitably have opinions, conflicts and disputes.
This is the origin of what people often say "poor couples are sad."
No amount of love, no amount of enthusiasm will fade and dissipate, and what remains is a feather and disappointment in married life!
Love or marriage is nothing more than a good expectation and yearning for real life.
Men and women stay together for a long time to pursue happiness and happiness.
If two people are tied together, their lives are worse and more unfortunate than when they were single. Who would be willing to stay in such a relationship and struggle to survive? Change of heart and separation is only a matter of time.
Conclusion:
Plato once said: When a man loves a woman, and this woman loves this man, the angel will come down from heaven and sit on the family Here, singing a song of joy.
But the love between men and women is not only constructed by passion and physiological needs. If you only indulge in this kind of happiness, then no matter how strong the attraction between men and women is, it cannot be retained for a long time. .
A happy, long-term, stable, and harmonious relationship between men and women is more related to their spiritual fit, character harmony, and mutual cherishment, tolerance, understanding and accommodation in getting along with each other in reality.
Of course, it is also closely related to the favorable protection of appropriate money and material composition.
Gender relations and marriage are not simply related to emotions. In order to present the most ideal state, you have to consider and take into account many aspects.
Therefore, it is a rather profound knowledge, not a simple short-term attraction.
Really happy men and women find all these in the real relationship in the end to obtain happiness. This is the key!
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