57-year-old aunt and 65-year-old uncle broke up after three months of their second marriage. Aunt: I can’t accept his request.

Introduction

The adult world is always very complicated. It is not like young people. It is easy to find someone who loves you and a close friend. But as you get older, your mind will become more complex. The more complicated it is, the more difficult it is to show your heart to a person, especially for some elderly people, because of various reasons, their significant other may not be able to accompany them to the end.

and the elderly are the most afraid of loneliness. The way to alleviate this loneliness is to find a new spouse, but when you are older, it is not easy to find a suitable partner. I'm afraid that you want to find someone to live a good life, but the other person doesn't think so. encounters this kind of thing, but it can only be dumb and suffer.

Read by: Aunt Xin

I am 57 years old this year, and I retired at 55 years old. My son got married late, so my grandson is still young now, when I haven't retired. My daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, and they asked me to take care of my grandson, but I didn't want to do that because if I could retire later, my pension would be higher. I feel that although I cannot take care of my grandchildren, I can support them financially .

so I gave my daughter-in-law tens of thousands of dollars at the time, , but I didn’t expect my daughter-in-law to blame me for ,After my son got married, he stopped living with me. Usually they would come home once a week, but since I had a conflict with my daughter-in-law, the number of times they went home became less and less, sometimes even At the end of the year, I can only come back two or three times. I don't understand that my daughter-in-law does this, but I can't help it. I have to consider it for my future life.

In a blink of an eye, I have reached the age of retirement. Life after retirement is very comfortable. I can do whatever I want. My wife is also very kind to me. She prepares breakfast, lunch and dinner for me every day. I thought I would spend the rest of my life like this. But once I went to the hospital for a physical examination, my wife was diagnosed with cancer, not too much. He passed away for a long time. After he passed away, my life was no longer as comfortable as before.

I am really lonely when I am alone, so I just want to go to my son's house for the elderly , but my daughter-in-law strongly opposes it, and even told my son if I were to move. They lived in a family and were about to divorce my son. Of course, my son could only wrong me. Later, I fell in love with square dancing, and I met Lao Ma in the square.

Lao Ma is more than 60 years old this year, a few years older than me. He is a good person. I also have the idea of ​​finding another wife, so I slowly come together with him after a long time. His personal conditions It’s very good. Not only are there seven or eight thousand pensions per month, but there are also three houses in the family. His children are living abroad. The economic conditions are very good. I think my life with him should be very good. Cozy. So after we got along for a while, I got married with him.

But after being together, I found out that Lao Ma is not good. He is a very stingy person. He has never bought anything for me. He clearly has money to hire a nanny, but all the work in the house requires me. To do it, he also asked me to record how much money I spend at home every month.Even if one dollar is wrong, he will question me.

I can only spend my own money on everything I want to buy , he asked me to have three meals a day different from each other. If it’s not tasty, he will say me. At the beginning we Just getting along, I don't understand his temper. So quarrels often occur, including when washing clothes. I usually wash clothes in a washing machine. This is convenient and fast, but there is nothing wrong with it, but the old horse asked me to wash the clothes by hand. He also said that the only way to do it is to clean. Every time he goes out, he needs to change into a new set of clothes. To waste a few hours, I was really speechless to him, not only that, he even asked me to give him a child .

I am over 50 years old, how could I have a child, but he thought I was unreasonable and said to me: "That is because you have not taken care of yourself, why are there so many of this age in the news? If you don’t want to have children with me, I’ll find someone else to have children with me." I really found a young woman and brought it home in front of me. I felt very insulted and divorced him quickly, but I didn’t let him go because of it. It was because he had betrayed us. Marriage, I told him that if he doesn’t pay for my mental damage, I will spread the matter out. In the end, Lao Ma had to give me 100,000 yuan. After this incident, I was really thorough. Lost confidence in men, it is better to live a chic life alone.

Editor's summary:

For older people,Many trials and hardships have been tried when I was young, so when I am old, I often want to pursue the simplest and plain happiness. I hope that a lover can accompany me, and the two will grow old together. But even such a simple wish is already the biggest extravagance for older people.

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