After working, I found out that my school days were the happiest and easiest, and I wanted to do it again.

Time is rushing, and I feel that time flies quickly. In a blink of an eye, more than 20 years have passed, and I have reached the age of marriage. In the past, the most important thing in the New Year's Eve is to study hard, make progress every day, and be obedient. The most talked about during the New Year is to quickly find a partner and get married quickly. You are a late marriage partner at your current age.

I vaguely remember my mischief in elementary school and play various childhood games with my friends. There is a song that sings the more lonely you grow up. When I listened to this song before, I wondered why I grew up and lonely. I didn't understand the meaning of this song. Now I find that not only the more I grow up, the more lonely, but the more trouble I get when I grow up.

If I do it again, I will cherish my time as a student. From the perspective of me now, when students are only thinking about studying, if they are out of money, they just call their parents and say that I have no money to spend. Just study, although I want to get good grades and I am tired, I think about it every day. How to improve grades. But only need to think about this thing. For example, my sister is still in college. What she thinks is how to get a scholarship every semester without failing to get a scholarship, pass some certificates and participate in some lectures before graduation. It's all about learning.

But after graduating out of society, you will find that you are faced with a lot of things, and naturally you can’t ask your parents for money after you come out to work. You are responsible for your own food, clothing, housing and transportation. I remember that my classmates just graduated and didn't find a suitable job. They couldn't find money from home, so they could only borrow and turn around. Facing the transition from a student to a social person, facing the difficulties of leaders and deducted wages, as well as colleagues who no longer have the same kindness as a university. You will find that people are really getting lonely and stressed.

Girls in middle and high schools are invited to go to the bathroom together. Going to a supermarket or a street is a lively activity of three or four people. After going to university, they went to different things, studied in different provinces, met new friends, but everyone in the university was busy doing research, part-time jobs, dating, etc., you You will find that you are alone most of the time. When I was in college, there was only one in the same dormitory who had the same major as me, but she started to work part-time in her sophomore year.We fell in love and moved out of the dormitory, so we even had a handful of meals together. Every time I went to dinner by myself, sometimes I would make appointments with other students in the same dormitory during get out of class time. Later, when I took the driver’s license test for some other certificates, I was even more alone. I wanted to have a personal company but I didn’t. After graduation, I found various undercurrents in the work unit, superficial harmony between my colleagues, and actually worked secretly. Compete for performance. Many of them put interest first. Of course there are exceptions, very few.

I used to hear that they always said that they missed their youth. I wanted to have something to miss. I was so tired from studying. Wouldn't it be okay to graduate early and work to make money? Now think about reading is tiring, but there is not so much additional pressure. Like the current mortgage and car loans, these are all pressures. Those who are married have to raise a family and raise children. These are overheads. Although I am full of food and the whole family is not hungry, my parents don't want me to make money and hand it in. I just want to feed myself. But I still want to be able to save some money within my ability to prepare for emergencies. Because there will be more and more things to consider when I grow up. The health of the parents, their own lives, if the new family expenses after marriage, the care of both parents. Cultivation of children. Each one is crushing us.

Many people say that the post-70s are the most tiring, the post-80s dare not to resign, the post-90s and 00s are not satisfied with the company and just leave. It's all because the elders paved the way. But I would like to say that there are more opportunities for those born in the 70s and 80s. At that time, it was a good time to go to the sea to do business. Now all walks of life have reached saturation. When I was shopping in Shenzhen two days ago, I found that many shops were closed. The shopping malls are deserted, and people who watch movies are all unhappy. A few years ago, when I visited the same street, it was overcrowded, and every store was bustling on holidays or weekends. So the post-90s and post-00s have much fewer opportunities. And having a car, a house and a gift is even more stressful. Girls buy houses for singles, and boys buy houses for marriage. They all have their own goals, so I am really the happiest student in my time. Cherish yourself as a student [laughs]