Not necessarily close, not necessarily despised, not necessarily deliberate, not necessarily right or wrong, this is a normal state, others live in our mouths, we live in other people’s mouths, many are not relatives, not family, or even friends People who are not acquaintances, in our mouth, unknowingly become a part of our lives.
Who is arguing, who is having trouble, who is divorced, who is the child, who is working, who is good or bad, who is successful, who is down, who doesn't understand the world, who is safe or strange , All of this actually constitutes our lifetime cognition and vision.
Parents' influence, education and training, once in real life, are not necessarily greater than all the influence we talk about. It looks like gossip, but this gossip changed our mood and affected our trajectory.
To some extent, what we can talk about is the teaching materials that life gives us. If we talk too much, we will slowly figure out the rules of life from it, and slowly understand how to go. Only by doing it can you avoid becoming a topic in others' mouths. In this process, we can learn step by step how to grow and integrate in the crowd.
But no matter what, it is impossible for us to avoid disappearing in the mouth of others. No matter you go thousands of miles, no matter you live in your house for ten years, no matter you cut off the connection with everyone, you will still appear in the mouth of different people and be criticized by various people.
When I was young, even when I was in my thirties, I found this state to be ridiculous and boring. At that time, I often used one sentence to motivate myself, which was to walk my own way and live my own life. Life, what others say, let others say it!
But it was impossible to realize it until middle age.
No one can really make homes from all corners of the world. Most of us live our lives in only one corner of a city and a place, just those people, just those things, just those relationships. I don’t care what others say, just because we still don’t understand at that time, what we are in other people’s mouth becomes the judgment of other people’s dealings with us, and it characterizes us as a person. From then on, we are facing the success of enthusiasm.Still stay away from the cold. The mouths of others largely determine our treatment in the crowd.
After all, the old people are more thorough than us. Just like my father always insisted that a person lives a face and a person lives a reputation. In the beginning, I sneered at me, but now, I regard it as the truth and act carefully.
I sneered at it because I only wanted to live myself.
is regarded as truth because thinking about other people's mouths will only add more self-discipline.
I don’t understand when I’m younger.
Don't stumble or stumble or be serious.
How can there be any truth to it, unless our own mouths never show other people's names.
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