was originally a Mid-Autumn holiday of leisurely eating melon seeds at home. Sister Sa saw such a shocking news:
On the wedding day, the bride began to make trouble before the guests left after the wedding. , In front of the guests, said that he was "ill", knelt down and asked to repent of the marriage. After the man's family had no choice but to agree, the woman refused to return more than 300,000 gifts and money!
The man had no choice but to file a lawsuit. In the end, the court ruled that the bride’s family would return the gift and beauties of 220,000 yuan and bear the litigation costs. The case has now entered the stage of enforcement.
After reading this news, Sister Sa thought it was a bitter drama in a dog-blood TV series, but the bride’s life would not be a drag on her lover. After that, the first thing that came to mind became the familiar expression pack of Zhuge Liang:
, from marriage to marriage, as an adult, from marriage to engagement. If you can refuse to say "I don't want to get married", I didn't refuse, and I took the wedding photos, got the marriage certificate, and organized the wedding.
As a result, the wedding was over, the money was paid, and when I turned my head, I turned my head and turned my back and turned my head and refused to recognize people. If I said "I'm sick", the responsibility can be passed on to my parents and say "parental compulsory"?
This logic is not smooth at all,You were forced from the beginning. Since you are reluctant to get married, why not say you don’t resist?
Some people may say, is it not daring at first?
I didn't dare at first, but when the wedding is all done, then I must have the courage to love freedom for the rest of my life? And even if you are finally brave enough to let yourself go, and pursue freedom with all your strength, how can the money given by others be embarrassed?
I was a good-age man. I was overjoyed that day he became a second marriage. He was kicked in front of relatives and friends. The money is not coming back. No matter how I look at it, I feel that this man’s family has been pitted and pitted. What a loss!
The bride said that she was sick and would not get married. The bride's father said that her daughter was not sick and that she was married and did not get married and did not refund the money. Someone is always telling lies, right? If you are really sick, you can go to the hospital to get a medical certificate! We sincerely retired the marriage, apologized, and paid back the money, and we did something normal.
However, regretting the marriage without rebate, this is not a regretful marriage, how does it seem that the more you look at it, the more it looks like a fraud!
The picture is from the Internet
From the blind date to the engagement, there are countless opportunities for the bride to have half a year. You have to pick this up at the wedding scene. As an adult with a little sense of responsibility and IQ, can you do this?
If I think,This gift money should definitely be refunded, and it should all be refunded! Since the woman deliberately concealed her unilateral repentance of the marriage, all expenses, including the money for the banquet wedding, should be borne by the woman, right?
The man’s family, from husband to parents, is embarrassed in front of relatives and friends, and it has become a laughingstock. Should the man’s mental damage be compensated? Even after the court sentenced it, the money was not given and it had to be enforced. I have to say that this psychological quality is no longer there!
I took a look at the comment section of the news. Most of the netizens complained for the man. The man spent more than 300,000 yuan in preparation for the marriage and gift money, but the court only sentenced it. The 220,000 betrothal gift was returned, and there was no claim for the 890,000 cost.
Some lawyer friends said, fortunately, the two of them did not obtain the certificate and did not live together. If the woman didn’t make a fuss before the wedding, she would get divorced after two months of marriage. , It is estimated that the man who beats the dog with meat buns is not the 89,000!
After reading this news, Sister Sa really feels that this female pig's feet and her parents are really extremely selfish people right! For the man, it is also fortunate that the marriage was not completed, which can be said to be a blessing in misfortune.
Otherwise, I really marry and go back to be a wife, and coupled with a native family like the woman, I won’t be divorced after two months. I don’t know how to jump around after this day, and the loss is even greater!
Usually, Sister Sa has also encountered distressed young people.Tell me about the problem of urging the marriage at home, saying that if you are old, you have to find someone to make ends meet and complete your own tasks.
Whenever I hear such words, I feel a little bit of hatred for iron and steel, which is really undesirable:
Do not "faint" for the sake of "marriage"!
If you treat marriage as a child’s play, or even to complete a “task”, you get confused, and you just find someone to live with you, without the most basic emotional foundation, then you will suffer and suffer. But you!
Moreover, this extremely selfish and irresponsible thought is not a heavy harm to the other party? If the other party treats you sincerely, but you regard the other party as a "tool person" to complete the task, wouldn't it hurt others and hurt their parents' hearts?
hope all people who are confused on the road to marriage can understand: marriage should never be married for the sake of marriage, and it should not be married for money, and it should not be married for the purpose of accomplishing a task. It is for the eyes of others, or for parents to urge, or even to "pass on the family line" to get married.
Marriage should be because you met the right person, because you like and love, because you want to be happier, and because you want to spend the rest of your life with each other, you choose to marry, isn’t it?
also because of this,Only in the long time passing by can still have feelings for each other, have expectations, and have a tacit understanding. The two people can face the wind and rain of life together for a longer time and walk hand in hand together.
When I bring a baby with my friends, I often talk about my children’s views on marriage, and I often give my husband a vaccination Let’s talk about our own views:
When we become old men and old ladies, we must think about it, don’t use our own ideas to force children, marry or have a baby, and try to give him full freedom . Even if he brings back a boyfriend, we can't make a fuss. As long as he can feel happy and happy, he will be content. How can it be perfect?
Finally, Sister Sa also hopes that those brothers and sisters who do not like "face" or other ideas, but do not refuse each other, say:
_p3sp p0 If you like and despise others, then quickly handle the relationship clearly and not waste time between yourself and the other party. It is not only a kind of respect for each other, but also for yourself.
Those so-called "sea kings and sea queens" are engaged in "fish breeding", and fools who treat others as "spare tires" and "meal tickets" all day, don't think this What glory to be proud of, hurry up and sober!
I'm afraid that the fish will not be raised until the end, and I will fall into the pond and can't climb out!
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