"You can't go back to your mother's house during the Mid-Autumn Festival, you must stay and serve my mother" Phoenix man finished speaking, and the marriage was gone.

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Introduction

Every Mid-Autumn Festival, many people will go home to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival with their parents, and every time it will be very lively, because Mid-Autumn Festival usually has many days off, the whole family can get together for reunion dinner, so Chinese New Year and holidays are a very happy thing.

But there is a case like this below. A phoenix man said to his wife madly: "You can't go back to your mother's house for the Mid-Autumn Festival. You must stay to take care of my mother." What's the matter? Lets come look.

Ms. Xing/36 years old

I am 36 years old this year. I originally had a six-year marriage, but yesterday I chose to divorce. The reason for the divorce was because I met a Phoenix man. I don't have any opinions at all, I only think about my family. I really can't stand such a person. Then I chose to divorce. I think divorce can be liberated.

My ex-husband and I met when we were in college. At that time, his academic performance was very good. Although his family was poor, he never asked for a cent from his parents. His tuition was all part-time jobs. , So he is a very self-motivated and sensible person.

I have always been optimistic about him and think that others are nice, but he didn't like me at that time because I was in a different class from him, and the two of them had never been in contact with him. I just knew him from others. Every time after class, I would go to see him secretly in their class, because he was handsome and tall, and he would be liked by a woman. At that time, many female classmates in our school pursued him, but he did not agree, because he I don’t have money and can’t afford it. So no matter who chases him, he will refuse. Although I like him, I have never confessed to him because I am afraid that I will be rejected by him. It will be embarrassing to meet in the future. .

Later, after graduating from university, I think we should never meet again, because we are going to work in society and we are definitely not in the same place. My family conditions are so good.My parents may arrange me in a good company. His conditions are so bad and he has no backing, and he can never find a good job. Therefore, it is impossible to meet again.

As a result, I didn’t expect that after working for a year, I met him in our company. When I met him, he was already a leader, and he was assigned from another company. My position is the same as that of him. At that time, I was surprised. I didn't expect him to be so capable. After only a year of hard work, he took the position of leadership.

It seems that he is a very self-motivated person. Not only is he self-motivated, he is also very strong. If he can be with such a man, he will definitely be able to live happily in the future.

He didn't recognize me at the time. If I called him, he wouldn't know who I am. When he knew that I was a female classmate in the class next door, he was inexplicably excited because he didn't expect, He was able to meet his classmates again here, so at that time he also said that the two of us are very fate.

Hearing him say this, I was very happy in my heart and felt that the two of them were particularly connected.

Then he asked me: "Why are you here? You are also very good, and you have become a leader."

I responded to him: "I have a little ability myself, but I basically rely on me Parents, because this job was introduced to me by my parents, and the boss of the company is a family friend with my parents, you are the reason why I can be in the leadership position."

When he heard me say this, because I feel that my family is rich. Since then, I have been very enthusiastic about me. I often bring breakfast or invite me out for dinner.

Soon, I was deeply fascinated by him, especially his caring about my behavior, which made me fall in love with him immediately. I was very interesting to him. After getting along with him, I just I like him even more.

Later, on Valentine’s Day, he confessed to me and said that he wanted to live with me forever, and hoped that I would not refuse him. When I heard his confession, I was very excited because I have been looking forward to him saying this to me, but I didn't expect it to happen.

I immediately agreed to be with him,After being together for half a year, the two of us were also married. After we got married, he still treated me very well, and he did not let me suffer any wrongdoing. Usually, when our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had conflicts, he would also be on my side. At that time I feel very happy to have met such a good husband.

But such happy days did not last long. In the fifth month of marriage, his attitude became worse and worse. He was not as careful with me as before, and I also found that he is a Phoenix man, because he always When the salary was paid, I would send the money to my parents. I didn't spend a dime on me. At that time, I didn't care too much because his family was very poor and it was normal for him to honor his parents.

But after a long time, I can't accept it anymore. Not only did he treat me badly, he also worked with my mother-in-law to bully me, no matter how her mother-in-law usually makes things difficult for me? He would not help me, he would only scold me with my mother-in-law, so I was really disappointed with him, I think I didn’t expect him to be such a man, but I really wanted to divorce, but the children were born. I can't bear to abandon my children, so I can only marry and raise my children.

Gradually, the children also go to kindergarten, and the attitude of their whole family is getting worse and worse, and I am very wronged every day. Sometimes in order to please them and let them treat me well, I often give They used the money, but they didn't know how to repay, and they would only take my contribution for granted. After seeing them like this, I didn't bother to pay, and I didn't think it was necessary.

After failing to pay for them, they began to scold me again, saying that I was not a qualified daughter-in-law. She was obviously rich, but hid it, and said some awkward things. At that time, I also went and talked to me. They had a big quarrel. After a quarrel, they became more and more excessive. They always tried their best to fix me. They never regarded me as an adult. They would not share any good things with me, so They are selfish, cruel and stingy people.

Gradually, we have lived for six years. During these six years, I have been very wronged every day, but I have survived. I can survive for the children, not for my husband. I treat my husband early. There is no love, only disappointment.

Yesterday I took a week off,Seeing that the Mid-Autumn Festival was approaching, I wanted to go back to accompany my mother, because my mother happened to be celebrating her birthday on Mid-Autumn Festival and was still in her 60th birthday. At that time, my parents called me to go back because she hadn’t seen her for a long time. Passed me, and missed me so much. When I heard my mother say that, I didn't refuse her, and promised to go back on the Mid-Autumn Festival.

As a result, after I agreed, I started buying air tickets because I wanted to go back early and give my mother a surprise. As the ticket was just bought, my mother-in-law suddenly suffered a stroke and paralyzed, and their whole family went I stayed with my mother-in-law in the hospital, so I didn't go because I had to pack my things and go back to my natal home. Besides, my mother-in-law has never helped me much, and I don't want to visit her.

As a result, my husband saw that I didn't go to the hospital, so he called to ask me what was going on. I told my husband that I would go back to my mother's house, accompany my mother, and celebrate her birthday and Mid-Autumn Festival.

Then my husband responded: "You can't go back, my mother is already sick, are you going to come and wait on me? Hurry up and refund the ticket."

I said, "No, I haven't gone back for many years, and the Mid-Autumn Festival It happened to be my mother's 60th birthday, and I had to go back."

Husband scolded: "Why are you so unscrupulous? I suspect you deliberately didn't want to take care of me? That's why I went back. It's unlucky to marry a cruel woman like you. What a shit, it’s not my mother, I’m warning you now, if you dare to go back to your mother’s house today to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival and not serve my mother, I’ll be with you." Abandoning the word divorce, the child took the child on the road back to her natal family.

After returning to my natal family, I sent him a message and asked him to take a time to come out after a week, and wait for me to go back and get a divorce, because I don’t want to bear it anymore, I think I’ll be crazy if I bear it anymore. So I won’t be married like this anyway.

Concluding remarks

Phoenix men are very selfish and never willing to pay for their women.But always ask the woman to pay for them. With this kind of phoenix man, she will not be happy at all, and will only be more and more wronged. Therefore, when a woman meets this kind of man, she must choose to divorce instead of just , The province's own life is getting more and more bitter.

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