After all, people are still afraid of aging and illness.
When there is no disease and no disaster, I feel that a person is actually quite good and can live a more enjoyable life without having to take care of the other person’s emotions.
If your body can maintain this state all the time, it does not matter if you are alone. Because you won't get sick and old, you don't need people to take care of it.
But the reality is shocking. You always think that the good body you have will also betray you inadvertently.
At this time, you will become scared, and even overturn the original decision. I hope someone can show up immediately and accompany you through the sad moments.
I have a very good sister. Since I knew her, she has declared to me that she is not married.
At that time, she was probably only about 25 years old. I laughed at her. Don't talk too much. Maybe in the future, if you encounter a boy who is heart-rending, she rushed away immediately, wishing to follow him away. A foreign country.
She sneered and laughed at me because I watched too many idol dramas. This kind of thing is impossible for her. Facts have proved that she did what she said. In the blink of an eye, ten years later, she is still alone, and I am the mother of three children.
From this point of view, she really made up her mind and never married in this life. As a good friend of me,Especially worry about her, you can not marry, but you have to fall in love, you have to have a partner.
She shrugged, rolled her eyes at me and said. "You don't know these years, true love is hard to find" , "You didn't look for it. How come you met, and how do you know if it is true love"
In other words, I had to pick up the wine glass, took a sip, and then told her story very seriously. When she was young, her parents often quarreled, and her parents thought she was a scourge, so they threw her to the country's grandma.
Other people's children have their parents hurt, and since she became sensible, she didn't remember the appearance of her parents anymore. Having said that, she sobbed and looked up to the sky, not wanting me to see her tears.
Although I am very close to her, but I don't know her experience as a child, because she never said it. This time I tore open the wound that had healed again.
I patted her on the shoulder and comforted her quietly, it's all over, everything will be fine, you and us. She also didn't want to be sensational, and she looked back at me, now you know why I decided not to marry forever.
I’m a bit confused, and I return to her in a particularly naive way. I still don’t understand.Will continue the sorrow of parents.
No matter what I say, she denies it, and is firm in her decision not to marry for life. He threatened me, and if I tried to persuade her again, I would cut off contact with me, and I was so scared that I shut up immediately.
Afterwards, I talked to my husband and said that I did not understand her with such good conditions, why she chose not to marry. While he was playing the game, he faintly returned to me. This couldn't be more normal. She has the capital to not marry. If she were to be me, with a monthly salary of 60,000, she would also choose not to marry.
I immediately tugged at his ear. He knew that he had said something wrong, so he immediately put down the phone and analyzed it with me in a serious manner.
Think about it, when she was young, she experienced the unfortunate marriage of her parents. This childhood shadow accompanies her all her life. The reason why she did not marry is self-willed capital on the surface, but in fact she is afraid and evasive in her heart.
If she wants her to change this decision, she must start from the heart. It is not like us outsiders, who can easily overturn it with just a few words. The reason why she did not marry was a deliberate decision.
She has the capital to support herself. She has a house and a car without worrying about food and clothing. When she gets old and no one takes care of her, she chooses a better nursing home, or she lives with her unmarried sisters, and it’s better than just having one. Always give you a stormy man, live a lifetime in pain and sorrow.
This is a matter of personal choice and has nothing to do with secularity and morality. as long as she wants,On the premise of not violating the law, how she lives is her personal business. There is no legal requirement that a woman must get married at the age of 35.
Although my husband is right, I still think that a good woman like her should not be unmarried. She deserves to be loved, and she deserves to be loved, because she is worthy.
She is really a very good girl, she has a good personality, she is not contrived, and has no scheming, unlike some women who say one thing on the surface, and another one behind her back.
She is the kind of person who stops and feeds when she sees stray cats on the side of the road. She also regularly goes to the orphanage to accompany the children abandoned by their parents.
A kind and caring woman like her shouldn’t be alone.
Although she threatened me not to persuade her to marry, I still secretly gave her a blind date. As long as she changes her mind, the seamless match can be achieved immediately.
I pray that this day will come sooner, because she is 35 years old. After her birthday, it will be more difficult to handle, and she will be picked out by men and worried about fertility.
In order to reverse her decision as soon as possible, I have worked hard. Maybe God sympathized with me and made me sick and hospitalized. At that time, my husband was busy looking after three children and was a little overwhelmed.
So I asked her for help cheeky, after all, after so many years of friendship, I think she will not refuse.But when I dialed the phone, there was a burst of laughter on the other end of her phone. We are really sisters, we are even sick and hospitalized.
After some understanding, it turns out that when she got up at night, she accidentally fell and broke her ribs. She needed to be recuperated in the hospital for a few days. After hearing her statement, I felt very distressed and wanted to get better soon and take care of her.
We talked a lot during the days when we were in the hospital together, and she also began to let go of her stubbornness, and she no longer insisted on not marrying. She felt that life alone is still terrible, and it is safe to have someone taking care of each other.
She also agreed to me, and when she was discharged from the hospital, she would accept the blind date arranged by me. Hearing the result, I smiled in relief. is happy that she is willing to change. I seem to see her beautiful appearance in her wedding dress and holding flowers.
Under my arrangement, she quickly selected a suitable lover from the blind date. Both of them are excellent, and their combination is a joy to everyone.
Now she is also the mother of a pair of children, and family life should not be too happy and beautiful. I feel that when she is married, her whole person has changed. She is not as daring as she used to be. She has become soft and sunny.
In the past, when you were alone, you could rush forward unscrupulously. Now that you have a family child, you will have more worries, at least you can’t run rampant without fear of falling as you did before.
looking at her happy appearance after marriage,I feel happy too. This is the sorrow and joy of a good friend. She lives alone, and I will worry, until I see her become a family and have a baby, my hanging heart will be completely let go.
Some people may not understand, this kind of friendship is more intimate than relatives. We are not related by blood, but we are far better than our relatives and sisters. This is the wonder of friendship.
Actually, not getting married is not scary. The scary thing is that there is no one who loves you. My sister, the reason she changed her decision not to marry was because she experienced a person’s helplessness and pain.
In this life, we are not to compete with anyone. Whether you are not married or married, the important thing is to be happy. If you know that the more painful you will be in the future, then go to experience marriage and do not leave any regrets in your life.
The quality of life, whether the marriage is happy or not, is not the outsider's decision, nor is it the way you saw others before. As long as you manage your business with your heart, your marriage and your life will not be bad. Where to go.
You must know that everyone has their own lives, and the misfortune of your parents’ marriage will not continue on you. Please don’t feel inferior, or autistic , you must truly open yourself from the bottom of your heart to accept and find , I firmly believe that I am worthy and worthy of.
You have to never stop believing,You are the one who deserves to be loved, and you also deserve to have a happy marriage. Only in this way will you meet the lover you want to support your life and live the happy life you want.
Finally, I sincerely wish that everyone will get what they want and live the life they like. As for whether to get married or not, it doesn't matter anymore, it's just a form of life. The important thing is to make yourself happy.
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