I got married last year and gave birth to a baby this year. I loved other people deeply before, but when I slept last night, I suddenly remembered that this human being may not fully understand the "love" throughout his life.
As we all know, love is also divided into There are many kinds, parental love, brotherly love, love in adversity, friendship between life and death, and so on! I am a layman, and what I thought of last night was the love that has been cultivated in the same boat for a hundred years, and the love that has been cultivated for a thousand years to sleep together!
After I got married, I was not sane enough (it’s okay, it’s not that it’s not necessary to keep it secret), and I also told my lover how I liked which one before, in fact, I was able to I said it, I didn’t like it much anymore (I always feel very angry because my lover is a few years older than me, but every time he asks who he liked before, he says he likes me. In fact, we didn’t get married for a long time. , Sometimes I see that a man has no love after 27 years old, because he has loved other people without reservation, and occasionally struggles a bit!) But at that time, I really liked it, Communicate with roommates in the dormitory if you want to call to confess or not. When you encounter it at school, you can't help but blush, and your heartbeat is really like a small deer banging bang bang bang bang! Later, I failed to complain to my mother and couldn’t help crying... I would cry in the dormitory until my roommate disliked it. At three or four o’clock in the morning, the heart rate was chaotic. It beats once every three or four seconds or even four or five seconds. The sound is loud, because I want to self-harm. The small scissors can’t cut and I’m really afraid of pain. (My lover said that I wanted to die and was afraid of pain.) Scissors cut my hair in a mess, to the point where my hair didn’t grow up when I took a graduation photo... In the meantime, I wanted to commit suicide and I can’t think of self-harm. I went to the hospital and prescribed medicine. Well, I’m taking it now! Neither of my parents has a medical history, so I should be the original nature of what the doctor said. My wife knows my condition, but he is willing to recover with me. I will remember me and him now and in the future. When confessing my situation, he hugged me and told me that it doesn't matter if I had no major problems and insisted on taking medicine. If I tell you now that I dislike you, you will be even more sad! After we got married, I feel very happy now, and the occasional unhappiness can be resolved!
harm,Back to the topic, talk about my understanding of love! To sum it up in one sentence, it is probably: how much to like is to magnify the advantages, and to dislike is to ignore the advantages, it doesn't matter!
In fact, so far, I still think my understanding of love feels great, although the title says that there are nearly 30 people, in fact I am only between 25-30, hehe~ still good Young and so young (if you are born in 10, then call me little aunt) I feel gratifying and sad to have such an insight. What is gratifying is that I have such an understanding of love, so there is a high probability that there will not be so many feathers in life in the future. Sadly, I am so young (haha) that I have such a deep understanding, and I feel very sorry that I want to hug the fat me~
It also means that I started to love the bud after I lived in high school! To be honest, maybe only the last person I had a crush on has been liking, but I didn’t find it myself! At the end of writing, I suddenly remembered a popular sentence among junior high school classmates: Love doesn't know where it starts, but it grows deeper! Add haha, it doesn't work well!
In the true sense, my classmates, friends, and myself officially admitted that I had a crush on a bamboo horse from the first year of high school. In high school, I liked one in high school and changed my mind to the other. In my freshman year, I liked one in military training. Later I fell ill until I worked for three or four years and I liked the last one. (I admit that I have a lot of secret crush haha) But in fact, sometimes I only think of it when I get sick. It's just that I feel really sick when I get sick. I don't dare to think about it! It's like you are asked not to love at the highest peak of love, a little bit is extracted, you continue to produce, continue to extract, maybe you may think that there is nothing wrong with it. If I like it, if I like it or not, I don’t like it, but If you are in this kind of illness, you may not be able to control your emotions, so you will take medicine to control your emotions! And my feelings about love are all occasionally observed in my illness or daily life, and I have seen some on new media platforms and then understood some of them. The integration is now my understanding of love after the 95s. !
In fact, this understanding of love can be extended to some feelings about life, parents, in-laws, relatives and friends, friends and so on!
咚咚! Focus, knock on the blackboard! The central idea of this article: how much you like is how many times you magnify the advantages,It doesn't matter if you don't like it or ignore the advantages!
Ay~ Alright, that’s it for this article. Welcome everyone to discuss your understanding of love. Only by communicating with each other can we make progress. I hope everyone can suffer less in love and find their own truth sooner. Destiny of the emperor and goddess! We all know how to cherish each other! I wish you all the rest of your life, there will be lights, rain and umbrellas, and beloved people on the road ❤
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