The daughter-in-law took a ride with the male colleague, and the mother-in-law went crazy on the spot when she learned about it: she was young and didn't obey the way of women.

When I am in love, I always feel that the person I like is good, I can’t wait to enter the world of the two, dreaming about being together after marriage, but has never thought about the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, regardless of the opinions of my family, resolutely believe in myself s Choice.

But after a while, I suddenly discovered that the marriage was different from what I expected. Once the freshness of the two people passed, many unsatisfactory things surfaced. After seeing each other’s shortcomings, I realized how important the parents’ hard work is. Because they are here, they know what is the key to a happy marriage.

The netizen "Double Ponytails" has been obedient to his parents since he was a child. However, lost his head on the matter of marriage and didn't take the parents' words seriously, so that the mother-in-law didn’t care, and the husband didn’t love it. suffered after marriage. Feel wronged, let's take a look at her story.

I have been strictly controlled by my family since I was a child. In my impression, everyone around me told me to be sensible and obedient, not to make my parents angry, and I was forced to become a good girl in the eyes of my relatives.

To get the consent of their parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation, and even to buy a piece of clothing, they must be pleasing to the eye. still remembers that when I was in high school, I bought a hair band in front of the school. I was full of joy, but they thought it was fancy Learning is not helpful at all.

After going to university, the situation has finally improved. After all, "the sky is high and the parents are far away". There is a lot of time to do what you want, but it is only limited to the period of school, and you will be beaten back when you come home from vacation. Prototype.

and my best friend go shopping to tell me the specific name, and agree on the time to go home, as long as there is something wrong, they will further verify, if does not go back on time, it will be even worse, I can’t wait to ask everyone I know, and it hurts me Can't look up in front of friends.

But what parents didn’t expect was that ’s daughter who always obeyed,I would fight with them for a man, and even stay away for more than two years. This man is my husband. He can speak well, with a touch of handsomeness in his angular features, which is very attractive to girls.

We met at a party, and he made a lot of witty words during the dinner. After a few words, everyone laughed. The atmosphere of the whole scene was driven by him and left me I was deeply impressed. For this reason, when approached me with my husband, I unsuspectingly agreed to his friend request.

In less than a week, we are like the heroes and heroines in a love story. We have been upgraded from friends to couples, and now I still have a screenshot of him taking the love vow in my phone.

Husband rarely mentions family affairs, only knows that his mother works as a tally in the market, and his father is far away. Until we talk about marriage, the husband timidly tells the truth. It turns out that his parents divorced a long time ago. And my father has already settled in another place, I hope I don’t mind.

I am still wondering, this does not affect our marriage. What can be hidden, but parents are more real, saying that the choice is based on comparison, don't I have a better choice?

Seeing that I didn’t marry him, my mother made a long analysis. It probably meant that single-parent families cannot marry. Because from the moment the parents separate, the child’s heart will be affected and the love received is incomplete. I am destined not to love in the rest of my life, What's more, I am as simple as white paper, and I will suffer a loss when I marry.

But at that time I was determined to marry my husband. I took my parents’ worries as deaf ears. After a stalemate for more than half a year, I tried all kinds of methods. They just didn’t let go, but tried every means. To dismantle us.

Mother-in-law thinks it’s not a problem to be so procrastinated, persuaded me to uncook rice and cook mature rice, move to his house first, and then seek help from relatives, so I was heartbroken and accepted the proposal of my mother-in-law.

The plot was the same as expected by the mother-in-law. After the persuasion of the uncles and elders, the parents finally stopped blocking, no dowry, no wedding gifts, the two still got married. It is a pity that my relationship with my parents can never go back. They think that I have corrupted the reputation of my family and threatened to deny me as a girl.

After marriage, the pleased mother-in-law immediately set up her arrogance. While pointing fingers at our two-person world, she also suspected that I was not sincerely living with his son. For this reason, often used words to test me and urged us all the time. Give birth to a baby quickly.

I didn't want to have a love crystallization, but all the conditions are not allowed. The mother-in-law's house still has the loan to be paid off, and the husband has changed his job again. It is too insecure for me to have a child at this juncture.

Husband is okay in other aspects, but he is a little bit caress about money, and I often ridicule him when he fell in love with him, but I didn’t expect it to get worse.

My parents don’t recognize me, but I can’t resent them. I still want to buy some gifts during the holidays and come home. My husband is afraid of spending money, so he always perfuse me with sweet words. Persistence caused the relationship with her natal family to be completely broken.

I have a good relationship in my work, and I can get along with my colleagues. In the past, I paid a salary, and I always paid one hundred and eighty yuan to go out for a meal. But after marriage, my mother-in-law had some opinions. said that men and women are together. It’s not good to eat and drink. Now that you have a family, you must pay attention to your image. Unnecessary entertainment should be avoided. For the sake of family harmony, even basic social interactions are cut off.

However, no matter how much I do, my mother-in-law still can’t rest assured,Whether I make calls or chat with friends, my mother-in-law is always hanging around for fear of missing important information.

I worked overtime at the unit that day. My husband said he would pick me up, but he was called out for a drink by a friend. was almost 11 o’clock at that time, and there was no bus. I couldn’t do without being nagged by my mother-in-law. vehicle.

I learned from my mother-in-law’s suspicion to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings, I deliberately asked my colleague to park the car some way away from home and walk back by myself. What's terrible? Just when I got off the car and my colleague was going to buy cigarettes, I was bumped by the walking mother-in-law. This is terrible. My mother-in-law raised her hand and slapped me, saying that I was young and didn't guard the way of women. She is old, but not so foolish.

And it’s not too much to watch the excitement, so I told my husband with enthusiasm, he had a nose and eye, because the father-in-law divorced her because the father-in-law had a woman outside, , so the mother-in-law is in this respect, let alone me and the family. Of men have contact.

And my husband listened to the wind but rain, the matter was exaggerated by the mother-in-law, and began to doubt my loyalty to marriage, "There are so many people in your unit, why do you want to take a male colleague’s car, and why does he not pull it? Just pull you? There must be something invisible. If it weren't for my mom bumped into, when are you going to hide it from me?"

I explained it more than five times. My husband saw that I refused to admit it. Give me somersault, the mother-in-law not only didn't come forward to dissuade me, but also kicked me out of the house.

I covered my face, limply walked to my natal house, crying while walking, and then I sat on the ground and called my parents. This time they didn’t blame me, but made me feel bad. encouraged my parents. Next, I decisively chose to end the marriage.

Peacock Heart:

Details determine success or failure,The choice is greater than the effort. Whether a man is good or not, he should not only look at himself, but also understand his native family and parents. After all, marrying a man is equal to marrying a kind of life and social relationship closely related to him. Controlling the details can provide the basis for the choice. It makes sense to work hard if you choose the right one.

Some women think that marrying love is complete, but they find out after marriage that the most beautiful love is no more than the chai, rice, oil, salt and gossip in life, but regrets are of no avail. In the end, it is themselves who suffer.

So neither should you overestimate your own vision, nor should you underestimate each other's family. Marriage is a matter for two families and there are many things to consider. pays attention to the details and predicts the problems that may be faced after marriage, so as to measure whether one has the ability to dismantle and whether can afford it. This is the approach of a smart woman. Although in-laws are not the subject of marriage, they are important, what do you think?

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