01
At 11 o'clock in the evening, I was about to go to bed, and suddenly I received a call from my brother, "Sister, can you lend me twenty thousand dollars?
I made a "chuckle" in my heart and bounced off the bed. To be honest, I am most afraid of receiving a call from my family at night, "Is there something urgent at home?"
The younger brother of
quickly explained, “It’s okay at home, but I have a friend who wants to sell his second-hand van. I want to buy it and deliver it to others. I can’t open my mouth for my parents’ pension.”
's husband Guo Lei, who was playing with a mobile phone next to me, waved at me vigorously. I thought he had something important and it was not convenient for my brother to listen, so I clutched the phone and asked in a low voice, "What's the matter?"
"How can it be so easy to deliver deliveries? Tell him not to mess around!"
What is mess around! Listening to my brother's tone is also very urgent, probably because I was afraid that they would sell it, so I didn't discuss it with Guo Lei, and directly transferred the only 20,000 yuan in my card.
Guo Lei scolded me and said, wait and see, your brother will definitely take your money away, and then see what he will get you back.
If you lose, you should buy a lesson.Why don't you know if you don't try? He clearly didn't want me to lend money to my brother.
02
Guo Lei and I met through a blind date. We are not young anymore. We chatted with each other as speculation and we got married in three months.
The wedding room was from his home, and the decoration and electrical appliances were from my home. After marriage, the in-laws did not live with us. Guo Lei did not have any major problems. We both lived in the ordinary life.
We did not deliberately distinguish between the usual expenses. He said that his money is used for financial management, so I am almost responsible for the daily expenses, and I feel nothing, whether it is money for financial management or My salary is for my family.
But there is one thing, he particularly dislikes my maiden family, and he also hates me being too close to my maiden family.
My brother’s borrowing money made him mad, and he was so anxious that there would be one or two. He didn’t help the poor. The implication is that marrying me is helping the poor.
Three months later, my brother paid back the money and gave an extra 1,000 yuan in interest. In these three months, in addition to the cost of the car, he also earned 20,000 yuan.
I took out the money and threw it in front of Guo Lei.
he gave a cold snort,Said that my brother gave me a sweet date first, and he definitely had to borrow it later.
03
Two months later, the mother-in-law had a heart attack, which cost about 200,000 yuan. The old man didn’t have all his savings to buy a house. money.
Guo Lei said that his more than 300,000 wealth management has not expired, I am afraid he can only borrow money. He asked me if I could borrow from my brother, the two brothers and sisters, the courtesy exchanges, it should be.
But the truth is that my brother is rebuilding the old house at home and is preparing to marry a wife next year. He is still struggling, so there is no extra money to lend to me. Seeing that there was no play, Guo Lei sullen his face and rolled my eyes, meaning that he knew this would happen to my family!
In this way, this coincidence has deepened his hostility towards my family! However, I didn't leave it alone. I called friends everywhere to borrow. Anyway, I finally made up enough money for the surgery.
My brother also came over on the day of the operation, but Guo Lei did not say a word to my brother with his face hanging on his face. I can go back awkwardly.
As the saying goes, you don’t hit a smiley when you raise your hand. It’s my brother. It’s not that he doesn’t help, but that he can’t do anything.
I didn’t expect him to treat my family as his own,At least be respectful and considerate, but he doesn't have all of them.
04
To say that the days are really furious, not long after the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, my dad accidentally stepped on the house and he followed the village construction team. The wall fell off. Fortunately, I didn't fall to my head, but my left leg had a comminuted fracture.
My mother has high blood pressure and dare not make her too tired. My brother will help my mother at night, but he will get sleepy while driving during the day. I think that my mother-in-law will be fine, so I will go back to take care of her. My Father.
As a result, I haven't said anything yet, Guo Lei can choose himself, "My mother is not very neat yet, I have to stare at it, and you can go back by yourself!"
didn't count on him, but he didn't expect him to be so selfish. The mother-in-law was hospitalized, and the mother-in-law said repeatedly that they were uneasy about asking the nursing staff to spend money.
I think marriage is a family, and I think it should be to take care of his mother. But my dad has something, and I haven't said anything yet, but Guo Lei hastened to choose himself cleanly.
"Also, my mom owes a debt for the operation and hasn't paid it yet. I don't have money to give to your dad!" Guo Lei put on a look that a dead pig is not afraid of boiling water.
is money again? My brother is not happy to borrow money. This time it’s my dad.He took it for granted if people didn't go, and money didn't.
"Guo Lei, are you still a human?"
"What's wrong with me? I just don't want to make a swollen face to fill a fat man, tell the truth?" _p1br pspan?
That's right, that's right, what's wrong is that I'm blind, so why did I find you!
05
I went back to my hometown by myself, and gave the only five thousand dollars in my hand to my mother. I am ashamed of it. Dad has something, but I can't help me.
Even the operation fee was borrowed by my brother from his relatives. He said that I was a "helper demon". It was really ironic!
I originally had a little hope for Guo Lei, but he didn't even make a phone call after returning home for a few days. A week later, I settled my dad and came back.
was so upset that he wanted to ask him what he was up to this week. He didn't even have a phone call. He didn't come back until eleven o'clock in the evening, and I called to find out that he and his friends were drinking and playing outside.
returned half an hour later, full of alcohol, "Yeah, you still know that you are back..." After he finished speaking, he plunged into the sofa and fell asleep to death.
I am too lazy to quarrel with him,Ready to go back to the bedroom to sleep. At this time, the phone rang several times and a WeChat came in. I called him a few times and didn't respond, so I took the phone and looked at it myself.
Seeing this, my heart fell into the ice hole in an instant.
"You guys are kind enough to remind you, don't let Xiaona know about you and your mother, otherwise she won't let you go..."
What span , I flipped up quickly, and I was confused after reading it.
When I got married, I paid 80,000 for decoration and electrical appliances. Because my salary is not high, 80,000 is still the money I saved for several years. My parents’ money hasn’t moved and I want to keep it for my younger brother to get married. After all, my whole university is supported by my younger brother’s part-time job, and I owe too much to my younger brother.
Unexpectedly, Guo Lei told her mother-in-law about this "secret" after drinking. The listener was interested.
As a past person, she was afraid that I would ignore my family after marriage and only "relief" my mother's family, so she shook Guo Lei to save money. This is the idea of the two of them.
06
As for the mother-in-law's operation, the borrowing was not fake, but it didn’t take long for Guo Lei to pay for the loan. . And I borrowed 30,000 yuan from a friend, and he let me pay it back by myself, so that I don’t even bother to care about my mother’s family.
Together with me this week back to my parents’ house,He was stunned not to call me, because he was afraid to hear that I asked for money!
He told his friend everything and said that he couldn't spit money out at all, otherwise my family would be like chewing gum stuck to the sole of the shoe.
The two of you guarded me like a thief, and carefully calculated my little abacus, didn't you just want me to break my family? The small home I manage with my heart is just a trap they use to trap me!
What's more hateful is that Guo Lei also complained to his friends, why didn't my dad fall to death? If he fell to death, he would still pay some funeral expenses, at least a one-off deal, so that half-dead would not be a bottomless pit in the future? Listen, is this what people say?
I regard his family as his own, but he expects my dad to die. His conscience is really eaten by a dog.
He forgot, every time I go to my house, my parents treat him as a Buddha. He likes to eat mutton. The last time we came back by train, we were almost on the train. My dad brought a large bag of mutton and ran to the train station, saying that he ran to a sheep-killing house in a village to buy it.
and all he saw was that my family did not give me money for marriage, my brother borrowed money, and my dad was hospitalized... He also lent his friend one hundred thousand yuan to buy a car in WeChat, and he couldn't help it.
07
Looking at the rows of chat records, my heart feels like a pot of hot oil.Keep rolling, suffering all my thoughts. The tears of dissatisfaction wiped and wiped, and wiped again.
Guo Lei is not enough to vent my anger even if he is struck by lightning, I am honest, not stupid, this marriage is divorced.
I slammed my phone on the coffee table, and went up and beat him, he woke up and roared angrily: "What's your nerve?" I said, "Divorce!" He saw it fell on the coffee table. The phone came to understand immediately, and said indifferently: "How big is the matter, I just complained about what's wrong!" For more than half a year, he didn't have any deposits in his hand, and there were no children, and there was no loss to him if he left.
As expected, the mother-in-law and Guo Lei did not have a phone call for a few days at the girlfriend's house. A week later, Guo Lei signed the divorce agreement .
The marriage was only three months from the acquaintance to the marriage, and I didn’t know the roots of each other. It was really too hasty.
Here, I also want to remind all unmarried women not to get married for the sake of marriage. For emotional support, a single hormone is enough, and the maintenance of marriage is to integrate emotion, materiality, and trust.
Be rational, be careful, and get along for a longer time at the worst. It is safer than marrying yourself in a hurry.
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