I have been married for more than seven years. Once again, my husband said I was a shrew. How did I become a shrew? I really can't remember. I don't know when to start. It turned out that the shrew was so close to me, and in his eyes, I had become a shrew.
I still remember the first few years of marriage, I was also gentle. One lady!
One year after marriage, I have a boss. slowly. She grew up, and I felt haggard. At that time, there was also the first time in life, his ex-girlfriend resurrected, and our relationship broke down, that is, he cheated. I quarreled with him once. It might be the first time to become a shrew at that time.
I really don't know how to defend this relationship, and I don't know whether to continue, but I look at my daughter who is still babbling. I endured it, and I was silent.
In the next few years, we gradually came here, respecting each other as guests, and no affection.
now has a second child. Now the two children are fighting every day. At the age of ignorance and unreasonableness, I became a shrew again. They don’t sleep at night, I coax; they grab snacks, I coax; they fight for toys, I coax them; they go to school in the morning and I cook breakfast; before they go to bed at night, I take a shower and I’m coaxing... and they are getting more and more If I don't obey, I'm getting crazier and crazier. What was he doing while I was doing these things? He was sleeping, he was snoring and falling asleep. When I coaxed children. He woke him up, so he cursed: "What the hell are you doing? He doesn't sleep at night and is sick."
Cooking and going to work. Then, I sent the child back to school. He woke up naturally when he slept. He cursed during breakfast. You are becoming more and more like a shrew. I was speechless.
This kind of life, I don't know what I can say, I don't know how I want to say it, do I have to yell at him again? I feel that I don't want to coax anymore. I feel that this kind of life makes me more and more uncomfortable and makes me more and more numb.
I don't know the meaning of my current life. It turned out that I had unknowingly turned into a real shrew in his world. What is left of such a marriage? Are you also a shrew in your life?
I also yearn for freedom in the distance
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