If we were brave at the beginning, would the status quo be rewritten?

Can’t complain about what life and destiny bring to you? On the other hand, have you worked hard and struggled for life? Think about what kind of waves can be splashed when living an ordinary and comfortable life all the time?

A few years ago, a good friend said to me, "Doing a job that I don't like, and not in the mood to learn new things, that will affect my future." At that time, I accepted the present day, I don't have any pursuit and ambitious ideas, and I am doing a job that is comfortable and paid on time, or contented. Going away unconsciously, it seems that there is no choice whether to like it or not. Having been out to work for many years, the initial shyness became more sophisticated and then dull as time went on. It's not that I don't want to change, but there is no direction and motivation to change! Go with the flow, when a monk rings the bell for a day.

Reality has smoothed my water chestnut, and I can't find the passionate power of the past. Without the kind of hunger and thirst, I don't want to be a social materialist, but after all, I can't do anything to accept the arrangement blindly. I don’t know if it’s because the surrounding environment is very low to work in the factory, or if I am too sentimental. As the years have changed, I have always been afraid of growing up, and I am a little afraid of the future when I look forward to my own growth.

In those years, many colleagues and friends envied my cheerful and optimistic nature, saying, "I am alone, and the whole family has no worries." It seems innocent, joking free and easy. And in my inner world, I feel that my nature is two-sided. What I show out is optimistic and positive, and sadness is covered in my heart and consumed by myself.

A few years ago, a good friend said that she was under a lot of pressure at work. In a first-tier city, relying on that insignificant salary, she needed renting, transportation, and various living expenses. She maintained sales for nearly two years. The consultant, working cautiously and conscientiously, did not get the corresponding return. She felt that that kind of effort was very tiring and worthless, so after a period of struggle and consideration, she finally made the decision-to resign. Using my vision to analyze her choice at that time, I don’t support her resignation, and I don’t know why, whether I didn’t pursue it or felt that girls should be stable in the moment, she was so loyal to that city, and her share In my opinion, work is still saturated in her personal life.If she leaves, she must start from scratch.

I have grown up over the years since I came out to work. Running all the way alone, I clearly understand that it is not easy to find a job. The indifference and sadness of whether you choose the enterprise or the enterprise chooses you is really not good. There are suitable but not necessarily give you a chance, and what gives you a chance may not be in line with your salary. Or pray to believe that it is okay in the struggle, or be chosen to give in the struggle and helplessness.

In the end, she chose to resign. She told me what she thought, and I could feel her high pursuit of quality of life. At that time, I thought her thoughts were a little unrealistic. She said that she wanted to start her own business after leaving the job. At that time, she invited me to join, but I was at the moment and did not accept the invitation. Now years have passed. My friend has been successful in starting a business, and now she has continued to move forward. She also earned a house that belongs to her. The more she pays, the more she earns, the quality of her life, her own savings and the ability to do anything. And I still work in the factory. Yueyue holds that low and fixed salary, enough to live but no savings. If my life is so plain and ordinary and my family is safe and sound, then this kind of life is also considered to be a good life... ..

Looking back now, if I could be brave and start a business with my friends, would the status quo be rewritten?

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