Author: Rockside Lane
Note: Originality is not easy, plagiarism must be investigated!
Introduction:
Whether you are young or middle-aged, it is a good thing to meet a suitable person to stay with you. But some people missed the opportunity because of too many concerns. Recently, Uncle Zhao, who has been single for many years in K City, has encountered a good marriage. His family members are happy for him, but he retreats. Why is this? Let's take a look together.
1 Uncle Zhao's narrative
In 2010, my wife and child died of esophageal cancer, and since then I have been alone. A few days ago, I retired and raised a Samoyed dog . Every day, I went out and walked my dog and played chess with several neighborhoods in the neighborhood next door, and my life was uneventful.
I always think that I am in good physical condition and I have proper exercise every day. But just a while ago, I suddenly fainted at home. If it wasn't for the door to be left open, and the neighbor was looking for something to do with me, no one would notice when I was cold. I'm afraid now when I think about it.
After timely treatment, I recovered and discharged soon after. The days have returned to the way they were before, but my mentality has changed. Since the death of my spouse, I have never thought of looking for it again. Because of so many habits, apart from her, I may be very uncomfortable with other people.
Even if only her pictures accompany me every day, I think I'm having a good time. Apart from being quieter around me and being lonely, there is nothing left. I can bear it. But now, I have a different mentality. I have been innocent for so many years, and if something happens, no one will help me receive S. It is really too sad.
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I thought that no matter what you find,Anyhow, there is someone around me. The matchmaker asked me what I wanted, and I said just be quiet and virtuous. I also don't like too bluffing, I can't stand it when I get older. In addition, don't be too shabby in appearance. My wife was also a beauty when he was young. I was really too tacky to catch my eyes.
The matchmaker introduced a few to me one after another, and I left after a few chats. At this age, to be honest, there are very few good figures, and most of them are a little rich.
This is not a big problem, but I am really afraid that people of this age will dress themselves too brightly. There is nothing wrong with make-up, but too much powder is bad. Like a painter painting a wall, I still like ladies with natural beauty.
Last month, the matchmaker came to me with a grin. She said that this lady was in good condition. She used to be a dance teacher with first-class temperament. She is a few years younger than me and is now retired. She teaches elderly dance to the old ladies downstairs when she has free time.
As soon as I heard the spirit, I followed the matchmaker to meet.
3
Her name is Jiang Yanqiu, she is just like her name, elegant and beautiful, and she looks very beautiful. She is well maintained and wears light makeup. If she didn't know her true age, she would be in her early 40s at first glance.
Her husband cheated on the subordinate of the unit 6 years ago, and she divorced him in a fit of anger. Now I have been single for 6 years, and my life is very free and easy. I am a little puzzled, just because of her looks, how many people can't be rushing to ask for it?
She looked at me thinking, as if she saw through my thoughts at once. She said that in fact, someone was looking for her and wanted to form a family with her. She was angry with her ex-husband at the time, and wanted him to see that she could live well alone. The other thing is that she didn't like the people who were looking for her.
After I finished talking, I looked at me with a smile, and when I thought about having a door, I felt happy. We left each other's mobile phone number and WeChat ID, and we made an appointment to contact each other. I hummed a little tune when I arrived home, and the chess friend Zhang downstairs laughed at me. I don't pay attention to him, just enjoy myself.
But this good mood did not last long,At night, I tossed about and couldn't sleep. Why did I pick up such a good thing? She is 5 years younger than me, and she is so beautiful and assertive. If something happens, how can I get her down in the future?
No, no, I always feel that I and her are two different people. Although I want to find someone who looks good, but I also know myself, I am a layman. The cultural level is average, and there is no elegant taste. What if two people get together in a hurry and jump around in the back, wouldn't it be unstable in their old age?
Thinking about going, I sent her a text message to express my wishes. She said I think too much, just feel right. Now that both of them are not young, they should not hesitate like this. Later, the contact gradually faded.
Maybe I made this decision out of fear of the unknown, and I feel a little regretful and a little grateful now. To use an adjective of young people nowadays, it is a certain degree of social phobia. Hey...
Conclusion
After reading this story, do you think Uncle Zhao did the right thing? You can leave a message for me to discuss in the comment area below~
(The pictures used in the article are all from the Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete, thank you!)
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