Since ancient times, it has been said that the relationship between "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" is too difficult. In fact, I think that as a daughter-in-law, she is not born and raised by her in-laws. If the parents-in-law treats the daughter-in-law of the foreign surname sincerely at the beginning, then I believe the daughter-in-law will treat each other sincerely! It’s just that every family has a hard-to-read sutra. When it comes to "the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law are incompatible," it is even more so who makes sense.
The 60-year-old Aunt Wang who lives in a rural village in Nanyang, Henan, is a famous and powerful person in our village. Speaking of her, the villagers shook their heads helplessly and said that her family's affairs were still slapped, and everyone was wrong, but the aunt was a bit too much.
The aunt and the 80-year-old woman in her family scolded for decades. Last year, the old woman was paralyzed by her furious stroke. But I didn't expect that such a powerful Aunt Wang would also meet an opponent. The daughter-in-law who married in was her nemesis. I heard what the aunt who was stunned by her daughter-in-law said.
The aunt smiled bitterly and said that she had a bad reputation outside, and the big guys said that she was too arrogant for not filial piety, but no one ever asked why? Now my family has married a terrific daughter-in-law, and the villagers say that he is an unfilial old man who has been punished, but there is hardship in my heart.
There is a reason why the aunt said she didn't like her parents-in-law in her heart, and it was because her in-laws treated her badly when she was young. After 5 years of getting married with my wife, I didn't get pregnant with a baby. I don't know how badly I was scolded by my in-laws, so I cried and swallowed it.
My mother-in-law gave birth to 3 boys. My wife is the second child. As the old saying goes, the second child has to be splinted if he doesn't love his mother or his mother. My wife is honest and honest, and has never been liked by my parents since I was a child. In addition, after marrying myself for 5 years, I haven't had a baby, and I am even despised by the old couple. Later, in the sixth year of marriage, I finally got pregnant and gave birth to a boy. My life was a little easier, and my mother-in-law would no longer have to be cursed as "a chicken that can't lay eggs".
The aunt said that she and her wife later gave birth to 3 daughters, and the house with 4 babies is a bit more lively. Back then, when I was cursed by my mother-in-law, I always swallowed my anger and didn't dare to fight back. My wife was so angry that I couldn't help it. I always thought that my father and mother did not dare to talk back. Even if he gave birth to a son,Because my mother-in-law hated me and my wife, she didn't wait to see this grandson by the way, let alone three daughters.
Once my mother-in-law took some sweets to share with the older brother and younger uncle's baby, but didn't give it to the 4 children of my family. I was really angry, but it was the first time I had a big quarrel with my mother-in-law. The aunt smiled bitterly and said, although a piece of candy is not worth a few dollars, but she really couldn't swallow this breath, and decided not to bear it anymore. With this first quarrel, there will be a second and a third time. Slowly, he has become an unfilial daughter-in-law who abused the old man in the mouth of his in-laws, and his bad reputation spread.
Listening to the aunt talking about these past events, I don't think she is so wicked, and there is a reason why she is not filial to her in-laws. As in-laws, I have caused evil causes, and now I am old and suffer without suffering. I persuade the aunt to be a mother-in-law. Don’t take the past too seriously. Outsiders only see that you are not filial. Who knows the grievances you have suffered?
The aunt shook her head and said that after she originally married a daughter-in-law, she also tried to honor her in-laws, but the mother-in-law’s mouth was still not forgiving. The old lady quarreled last year and paralyzed her angry stroke. Lose her. Now she was paralyzed in bed, and the two sons ignored her, and my wife took her to my house. The aunt said that she would not serve her, but her wife had to take care of her mother-in-law, and she would not stop him.
I laughed and said that the aunt was still kind in her heart, and she didn't care about the old lady like the two wives. The aunt sighed and said that her wife was kind in her heart, and she didn't see his mother's suffering and sin. She also thought that she could live for a few years, so she didn't want to worry about it anymore.
I haven't had the mind to compete with the old lady anymore. After marrying my daughter-in-law, there are also many bad things at home. I helped my son and daughter-in-law bring up two babies, and contributed money and effort conscientiously, but in the end there was no good word. My daughter-in-law is always picky about finding things, and she also dislikes my old couple's inability to buy her a house in the county town.
The aunt, who has always been calm, has a blush in her eyes.She said that as a daughter-in-law, she suffered all the grievances of her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law didn't help but cursed and provoked things. She put a lot of bitterness on herself, and in the end she had a bad reputation for being unfilial. After marrying his wife and entering the door, he treated her wholeheartedly, for fear that she would be wronged. It is because I have tasted the difficulties of being a daughter-in-law, so I have never made trouble for my daughter-in-law, and it is better to be obedient to her than to a daughter-in-law.
It’s just that I didn’t expect that the daughter-in-law was still dissatisfied. The aunt sighed as she spoke. She said that she had never been happy at this age. When I was young, I was not treated by my mother-in-law, and now I am not liked by my daughter-in-law. I really failed to live.
Now that I can earn money and take care of my grandchildren, my daughter-in-law starts to dislike herself in this way. Later, when I am old, there is no money in hand and it is useless. I am afraid that I will be kicked away. In the future, if the daughter-in-law is not filial and does not provide for the elderly, she will go to the nursing home if she is in good health.
Listening to the aunt's words, it is really mixed: when the aunt was young, because the mother-in-law didn't want to see each other, the two forged grudges, and the wits and courage spent half of her life paralyzed by the mother-in-law's stroke. The pause button. The aunt treats her daughter-in-law sincerely, but she is picky in every way. She is also a pitiful person.
Repaying grievances by virtue is admirable, but a person with a temperament like an aunt will inevitably be unable to swallow the anger in his heart, so that after decades of entanglement with her mother-in-law, it is really worthless to think about it! Perhaps mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also pay attention to fate, the aunt treats the daughter-in-law sincerely, but the daughter-in-law does not appreciate it.
Aunt is not honored by daughter-in-law now. Whether it is a nemesis or cause and effect, I believe in one sentence: a good family style is the best feng shui. As long as the family is harmonious and not idle, then you don’t have to worry about your family. Life is not good. Do you think this is the reason? If you have any thoughts on this matter, please leave a message to discuss!
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