"The rich are in the mountains and have distant relatives, but the poor are in the downtown area and no one asks them." This sentence speaks the snobbery of human nature vividly and vividly. When you were impoverished, you reached out to borrow money, and everyone stayed away and refused to borrow, just because you were afraid you could not afford it. The person who is willing to borrow money to help you at this time must be the noble person in your life!
Uncle Wang, who lives in a rural village in Nanyang, Henan, has inconvenient legs and feet. He married a wife who is also a disabled person and a deaf-mute person in his womb. It is conceivable how difficult the life of the disabled old couple should be. The child was ill and needed money urgently, but the old couple borrowed money from relatives and no one helped them. How are they doing now? Let's look down together.
Mentioned the sad things that year, the uncle couldn't help but his eyes were red. He said that the conditions in his home were not good, his legs and feet had problems, and he never found a partner. It wasn't until later that someone introduced a wife who was as disabled as himself. When they met, they could be regarded as a partnership. After having a daughter-in-law in the cold run-down house, Haolai also had a little smoke.
Uncle said that he is 80 years old this year, and his son is less than 30 years old. He married his wife for several years before giving birth to two twin sons. At that time, I was happy and worried. I was happy that I finally had descendants, and worried that the twins were born prematurely. At that time, I didn't want to check up. I didn't know that I was pregnant with two until I was born. Both of my sons were only a little over 3 Jin when they were born. I looked very worried.
In the past few years without children, although I have inconvenient legs and feet, the crops in the field can still be dried, but it is a bit slower. Although her wife is deaf and mute, she is clever and not stupid at all, and she is quick to work. In the past few years, I and my wife worked with their own hands. Although they didn't have much savings, they didn't worry about what to eat and drink.
But in the two years since I had two sons,My wife has no time to go to work in the fields, and she has to take care of the family, and she has to go to farm work. At that time, my old couple was cautious that their premature son would not be good enough to bring along, but it was such a wicked way.
When the uncle talked about this, he paused for a while, and sighed deeply and said that when he was more than one year old, the eldest had gotten sick, and at that time I had no money to give the child. see a doctor. Several of my brothers and sisters had a bad life. I had only the cheeky to borrow money from relatives with better conditions, but after a period of borrowing, no one was willing to borrow.
Listening to the uncle's words, I also feel that these relatives are too impersonal. They are relatives anyway, so why are they so cruel and don't help? No money was borrowed, so why did you treat your child later?
said with a wry smile, what else can I do, I can only stand firm at home, and then two or three days later, my neighbor knew that the child was sick and took the initiative to lend me some money, so that he took the child. Go to the hospital to see the illness. My son is considered fatal, and I have to thank my good neighbor for saving the child, or I am afraid that he will die. This person, he knows who treats you nicely only after encountering a problem, he really complies with the old saying "a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor".
At that time, relatives were not willing to lend money to themselves. To put it bluntly, I was looking at my old and my husband, both of whom were disabled, and dragging my two premature sons. I was afraid that I could not pay the money, so I didn’t dare to borrow, because I was afraid of borrowing. The money that went out was in vain. Although I was angry at the time, but now I think about it. At that time, I only relied on the one-mu three-quarters of land and had no other income. I took money very seriously, and I shouldn't blame it if I didn't borrow it.
Now the two sons have become homes, and they have also settled down in the county town. Although the two sons did not go to college, they are both striving. The eldest son does his own business, and the younger one earns 10,000 yuan a month at work. Although today’s days are not very rich,But my family is content, and I, who have been accustomed to hard times, never expected to have such a happy day.
Speaking of the two sons, the uncle had a proud smile on his face. I laughed and said that the uncle is just enjoying the good fortune now! When the children are older, you are at the end of it. As the old saying goes, good things are hard to come by. Your blessings are all behind!
Uncle listened to me, he laughed loudly and said, yes, now I don’t have to do farm work. My wife had some problems with her body a few years ago. Now my task is to take good care of my wife and don't have to worry about anything else. Now the people in the village are envious of their own blessings. Both sons have the ability to make money, so they don't have to worry about running out of money anymore.
Both my sons live in the county town on weekdays, and sometimes I take my old couple to live for a few days. However, my legs and feet are not convenient and I am not used to the high-rise buildings in the city, so I feel that it is not as comfortable as living in a rural detached house. My wife is deaf and dumb. There are too many cars in the city and it is not safe. It would be nice for me and two to live in the old courtyard.
The uncle said that there is another reason why he didn't want to go to the city. Now my family's life is getting better, and those relatives are slowly recovering. Those who come to visit each other during the New Year and New Year holidays are still bright and bright in the old rural courtyard, and the dishes cooked in the earthen stove are more fragrant. The uncle also said that even if the past is over, there is nothing wrong with not borrowing money. Now I have a better life. If I meet someone in an emergency, I will definitely reach out to help. It is really uncomfortable to feel that I need money and I can't borrow it.
Seeing that the 80-year-old man was red-faced, he was full of anger when speaking. It can be seen that his life is really comfortable. Although his wife could not hear or speak, but she had been sitting quietly beside the uncle, with a kind smile on her face.
Looking at the happy old couple in front of me, I am also very moved: their hard days have finally come to an end.I asked my relatives to lend money to the child to see a doctor, but no one helped me. Now the old couple has worked so hard to pull the two sons together, and those relatives have come to join in the fun again. Although people are realistic, it is inevitable that relatives are a little too secular.
The kind-hearted uncle, I have tasted the taste of not being able to borrow money, and now I am willing to help people in difficulties. Such a heart of love is very rare! The editor believes: Although the relatives help is a sympathy, and it is excusable not to help, but who can guarantee that there will be no difficulties in your life? Don’t be so indifferent when you should help between relatives, it makes your heart chilling! In this money-oriented society, sincere family affection has become even more rare. What do you think about this matter, please leave a message
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