The 56-year-old woman cried: The men who dance ballroom dances are not good, and they are all bad when they have changed 3 partners.

Foreword:

Today's square dance seems to be the favorite of middle-aged and young people. It has also become one of the leisure and entertainment for many people after dinner, so there will be all kinds of dances in the square dance. Once there is a dance, it needs to be set off by a dancing partner.

People often say that opposite sex attract each other and same sex mutually exclusive. Therefore, the dance partners are generally matched by men and women. Since sports and leisure exercises are the mainstay, most people rarely have fixed partners, and they mainly dance.

However, the 56-year-old Auntie Zhang had nothing to do after retiring. In addition, the elderly women of the same age who danced square dances made them healthy and beautiful, and even added a lot of interest to life. So Aunt Zhang also decided to try square dance. One of the neighbors recommended her to dance ballroom dance, which can cultivate one's body and become more elegant and temperamental.

However, when 56-year-old Aunt Zhang was exposed to ballroom dancing and gradually learning, she discovered that some people dance ballroom dancing for very impure purposes, and even always have crooked thoughts and bad ideas. This is the same as Aunt Zhang’s original intention. The gap is too far.

Recently, I heard Aunt Zhang's scolding: "The men who dance ballroom dancing are not good. I changed three partners and found that they are all scumbags." So what happened? Make Aunt Zhang so indignant?

Self-reporter: 56-year-old Aunt Zhang

I am 56 years old and I was a teacher before retiring. Since I have never been in dance since I was a child, I always envy those who can sing and dance. So since I retired, I have been thinking about cultivating my hobbies. This can not only kill your boring spare time, but also increase your physical fitness, and more importantly, keep your mood in a happy state. The most important thing in the old life of the elderly is to let yourself have a positive attitude to deal with every day. Life.

Since my wife always likes to go fishing and drinking tea with his friends, I am always alone in the house, and it seems so lonely. When I saw that some of the neighbors and elderly people around me became excited by the square dance, I also decided to start finding something for myself.

So I contacted my colleagues and friends.As a result, everyone thinks that I am too outdated. Square dancing is the most popular now. Indeed, as long as there is free space in the streets and alleys, there will always be men, women and children in the square dancing. One of the enthusiastic neighbors introduced me to study ballroom dancing. She felt that ballroom dancing better brought out my elegant and calm personality, and I didn't like those popular dances.

But I am not familiar with dance. I watched other dance members have their own partners, and I can only watch other people learn. I hope someone can take me with me, and I also hope that I have a proficient dance partner to guide me. Because a good partner can make a person's dance skills quickly improve, and a bad partner may also make you very disgusted.

When there is no partner, I envy those who have a partner. Only when I have a partner can I know how annoying a partner is. At this time, a male dancer enthusiastically took the initiative to teach me. With his help and leadership, my dance progress is very obvious, and I even feel very happy with such an achievement. In the process of dancing, I also found that after dancing, I felt very comfortable with my body and even had better sleep quality.

The fun of dancing has made me have a higher sense of identity and interest in ballroom dancing.

But what happened next gave me great opinions on the male partners of ballroom dancing.

Lao Li, who has contributed a lot to my dance progress, has always been my dance partner. He treated me enthusiastically at the beginning and took the initiative to explain a lot of dance skills to me. This is how I have a very good dance performance today. I am a grateful person, so I have always respected Lao Li. And he also performed very well, not only has superb dancing skills, but also has a certain degree of gentleman's demeanor.

But with the passage of time, I found that Lao Li has changed a bit. In terms of words, he always said ambiguous and unclear words to me, he was bold in his behavior, and he showed some irregular behavior towards me in his actions, even deliberately to me when people were not paying attention. Show okay, this makes me unacceptable. Originally, I planned to spend a certain amount of time with him to distinguish the distance between each other, because I didn't want to attract criticism from my neighbors because of dancing, and even have a certain impact on my reputation.

But what I didn’t expect was: he actually expressed his love to me straightforwardly,I hope I can travel alone with him. He even clearly told me that during the journey, we can enjoy the two-person world.

This kind of words and behaviors greatly reduced the impression of him in an instant. I think this is a kind of personality insult to me, and it is the performance of a scumbag. So I not only rejected him decisively, but also exposed his immoral behavior in harsh language. Since then, I have never danced with him, and refused to dance with him.

But I think Lao Li is just a bad image in ballroom dancing. His words and deeds do not mean that anyone only represents him personally. So I quickly changed two dance partners, but what surprised me was that their words and demeanours and gentleman manner were similar to those of Lao Li. They were very regular and enthusiastic. It was only after a period of understanding that I found out that they were In the early stages, they were all pregnant.

One of them said that he was single and wanted to find a good wife. But his wife is indeed a responsible housewife, so he used singleness to trick me into being with him, and even talked sweetly to me all day long.

The other male partner only danced with me a few times, saying that I was his dream lover. He fell in love with me at first sight, and even moved to me. Dancing ballroom dance is originally the close physical contact between two opposite sexes, but one of them will feel scumbag deliberately for the other.

That's it. Because I met three dance partners who were all scumbags, I decided not to go to ballroom dancing again, and I also found that many men do ballroom dancing for other purposes. They behave badly in their hearts and behaviors, and even dancing is just a cover for them. Finding an extramarital partner in dancing is the ultimate goal. For this type of man, I uniformly define it as a scumbag.

Nowadays, in order to exercise, I only do some collective outdoor dances or even if I dance, I only choose the same sex. Because I think both the square dance itself and the ballroom dance are a kind of leisure and entertainment dance. Other impurities should not be mixed in, and the artistic effect of the dance itself should not be polluted.

Summary:

As a married person,For those who encounter this type of misconduct in dancing, they should decisively refuse like Aunt Zhang. Only people who stay away from bad morals can keep oneself away from right and wrong, and don't be swayed by others' sweet words or temptations. Otherwise, it will not only damage your reputation, but also put your family and marriage into crisis.

Square dance is only a physical exercise, leisure and entertainment activities, and cannot be used as a way to find an extramarital partner. As a married person, you should shoulder the responsibilities of the family and the stability of the marriage.

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